I am pregant and me and the baby's dad is not together anymore because he is more intreated in his friends right now instead of me ,and we already have one kid togther. And i have tried getting back with him but, he keep saying maybe later and that he wants to be with another girl. So what should i do about it ?
2006-07-28 11:29:09 · 14 answers · asked by ♥Becky♥ 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Thanks For All The Advice
2006-07-28 11:49:08 · update #1
Dump him have nothing to do with him ever again other then discussing what is best for your children. Go out there get your life together and find yourself a good muture man to treat you and your children well. If he is not interested now and he wants other girls he is only going to run back to you when he is done on his luck. Then he's going to walk away again. He is using you like a door mat he can walk all over. There are better way better fish in the sea. He should only be concerned with you and his children right now if he loved you so walk away.
2006-07-28 11:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by Knock Knock 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should confirm paternity (not implying anything here just for legal measures) and then go through the courts to make sure that he is held financially responsible for his children. The financial aspect of raising a child alone has to be the hardest. I would suggest, too, that you ensure that there are positive male role models in the lives of your children. Maybe your own father, an uncle an older brother, someone who can be an example of how a good MAN behaves. They have to learn that somewhere, regardless of the gender of your children.
2006-07-28 11:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by Heathery Lane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two illegit kids with a guy who now wants to be with other girls? That wasn't very smart, was it? First, make sure this scumbag pays child support through the nose. Second, get yourself into school and learn something that you can use to support your kids (this is going to be VERY HARD cause you've got 2 little ones to raise while you're getting educated). Hopefully, you have relatives who can help you out. Third, DON'T MAKE ANY MORE DUMB DECISIONS. DON'T HAVE ANY MORE KIDS (WITH ANYONE) AND DON'T GET BACK WITH THIS JERK! Good luck. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but I'm giving it to you straight.
2006-07-28 11:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you can do is take care of your children the best way that you can and not worry about him he will get what is coming to him.You have to let him go about his business to run the streets and be with whom ever he decides but also remind him that you will not be waiting for him when he decides he's ready to be with you.I don't know it he helps you with your child but if he doesn't then you may want to seek child support.Don't be a DOOR MAT not even for your BABY'S DADDY
2006-07-28 12:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy has moved on and for the sake of your children you need to also. He sounds very selfish & self-serving. Your kids deserve better. Focus on improving your life and your kid's lives too. Make a plan & don't look back!
2006-07-28 11:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by girlfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple as can be...If he wants to be with another girl...let him go..forget him...make sure he supports u and the kids, other than that move on. You can not make him do something he dosnt want to do. If you try u will make urself miserable. Sorry
2006-07-28 11:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by Zenobia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a lot of girls in your situation and i tell them the same thing, dreams are just dreams and they can't be changed, you will just have to forget him and find someone who will care about you and both of your kids look email me i will talk to you later i gotta go soccerbabii09@yahoo.com bye
2006-07-28 11:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if that is what he wants to do then ok, but you want him to actually take care of the kids and help you out! Because it is his responsibility as much as it is yours! You make them, you raise them, right?
2006-07-28 11:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Him To Get Lost
2006-07-28 11:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to get back with him!!!! You have two kids that you are now responsible for, focus your attention on them, besides what good is he when he is only their to get you pregnant? Oh, and put dat azz(his) on child support, that'll get his attention.
2006-07-28 11:34:17 · answer #10 · answered by nadege33064 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋