Adolescent - September 2007

Well im 15 & my brothers 17 & our parents are getting a divorce so our dad moved out. Our dad just called & he sounds really sad & pissed off & he said his coming by& he wil be here in about an hour. We REALLY don't want to see him i know this is going to be horribly ackward. We have never goten along with him before so i know this is going to SUCK!!! Any advice? Please help im dreading seeing him :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(
Oh our mom's at work.

2007-09-26 11:50:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Help! I don't feel like 20 and I want to stay a teenager for a while, I am pretty sad, and don't know what to do.

2007-09-26 10:36:57 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm only 17 and I am 5 weeks pregnant and worried! Because just a few days ago I had a very light period. About 4.5 hours before it started I got fingured (not trying to give detail. . .but yeah!). But I don't know if thats normal. What should I do? Is it normal?

2007-09-26 06:35:49 · 10 answers · asked by CherriBlossom 1

please post links

2007-09-26 03:03:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ihave found fromsome of my exsperiances that when someone becomes an ex thats the way there ment to stay but latley ive been questioning it wha do u think

2007-09-25 22:32:12 · 13 answers · asked by Princess Carly 3

2007-09-25 22:30:02 · 19 answers · asked by yetbi123 1

Hi, I live in India in a joint family. So my family lives in the same house as my Uncle, Aunt, Nephew(14) and Niece(16).
During the afternoon nobody other than me, my nephew and niece are at home (others are at work).

Yesterday, after my afternoon siesta I went to my nephew's room without knocking and caught them in a very wierd situation. Both of them were completely nude and she was stroking his 'thing'. I could see that they were 'excited'.
I was very shocked and left the room immediately. They came to me and begged to not to tell anyone and said they were only 'playing mom-dad' and 'looking'. They said that they have been doing this for a few months now.
I dont know what to do?
Should I tell my parents or their parents? Since they are brother-sister - i feel very wierd. Please help?

2007-09-25 20:35:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Serious Answers only pls. I am a stepmum to 2 lovely girls. We have a really good relationship & can talk about most things.
They still have regular contact with their Birth Mum, but she's very different to me. In her house they don't have 2 help around the place with any chores, they don't have 2 do homework, they are often sent to friends houses when they're supposed to be hanging out with their Mum because she likes to drink alcohol pretty regularly, they can pretty much do what they want.
In our house, we can seem a bit more strict because we encourage the girls 2 do chores to earn pocket money, we encourage them 2 get homework & assignments done (otherwise they would fail @ school), but we do a lot of fun stuff too - going for picnics, going to the beach, BBQs, we encourage sleepovers at home etc.
I just want 2 know if u were in this situation, which would you appreciate more - a place where ur input & company was valued or a place where u can do whatever u want all the time?

2007-09-25 19:16:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm 14. i've never had a boyfriend, yet ive had oppurtunities, i didnt want one. most all of my friends have had boyfriends, and done quite a few things naughty, but ive NEVER wanted to do anything like that. i'd love to have a relationship, but is it really true that guys my age only want the relationship to get something? that's my question.

2007-09-25 16:19:56 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-25 15:51:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been dating for two years now...I have met the other younger children briefly...and their mom is the wicked witch of the east...she is daddy's little girl and therefore very spoiled.

2007-09-25 15:39:58 · 17 answers · asked by Lelee 2

I understand why some girls can have a low self esteen. But i absolutely hate it when girls just sit around and say ughh i'm so fat. It drives me nuts why cant they just be happy with themselves? How can i get to see them as the beautiful perosn they are?

2007-09-25 14:35:21 · 17 answers · asked by manda 3

SO my friend...S really likes this guy name..D.
Me, S and D hang out alot. Its clear that he likes her. She'll be like (jokingly) "LETS GET TECHNICAL!" And he'll be like "OK!"
And its really sickeing!!!! I cant bail out on S and I'm friend with D... what do I do?!?!

BUT heres the catch...

S is going out with...C, one of her and D's friends.
So I find it weird that S is so...'sxual jokingly' with D.

Wtf is going on and what do I do about their sick and wrong jokes when I'm around?

Thanx guys!

2007-09-25 12:07:58 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3

Why do guys (teens) hate?
Girls that are strong, outspoken and stand up for what they believe in? Or other guys lie and say they can handle it but don't? Like I'm 15 and like when I say outspoken I don't mean b*tching but I meant being opinionated and not backing down on my beliefs. It seems as soon as there's a chick like that they drive away guys.

Is it like imasculating? Cause I don't get it. What's wrong with a chick who knows what she wants?

No bad blood I just want to know, fill me in.

2007-09-25 12:04:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

serious answers

2007-09-25 11:56:20 · 36 answers · asked by ? 5

i baby sit for a family and one of the girls wants a book... she is 14 whats a good book to recomend?

2007-09-25 11:21:59 · 17 answers · asked by lemon_luver33 2

Well, I had some pads in my backpack today and some stupid girl looked in there and found them and held them up!!! Isn't that invading my privacy!! I was humiliated! What do you think? Tell me what you think and tell me your most embarrassing moment of when you grew up.


BTW, I don't have my period I just keep them in there just in case.

2007-09-25 09:55:49 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

Daughter has the other room. (Its only a 2 bedroom house) Parents have a surprise baby..a boy. The boy gets put into the room with the 8 year old girl and the siblings have to grow up in that same bedroom together until she's 18 and he's 10. The girl finally has enough and moves out...

Should the parents have let these 2 share a room all this time??

2007-09-25 08:47:04 · 31 answers · asked by ABC123 4

she's 14 but she likes to flirt alot with guys n she lies too much n invents stuff

2007-09-25 07:57:56 · 21 answers · asked by honey 1

Parents and teachers are in a perfect position to influence teens positively. What can they do to be as influential as possible? This is a big task. Teens are bombarded by media and peer pressures. Yet, adults can and do make a difference. What can they do to maximize this difference?

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2007-09-25 05:11:04 · 14 answers · asked by Andrew R 1

like i know you can get pregnate if the vagina is close to *** but if it is on the guys fingers or somthing can you?

2007-09-25 03:03:42 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why are kids so mean to other kids and I am meaning lets say 15-17 age range?

Because my little sister is always the one that gets picked on in school even since the 3rd grade and she is now a Jr. in High School!

2007-09-25 01:50:03 · 13 answers · asked by My life is now complete PWK&RJC! 5

Thank u very much!!

2007-09-25 01:11:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 13 year old son, who has many friends (same age) in our neighborhood. He and his friends are great kids who spend lots of time outdoors playing sports instead of video games all the time. Recently, a new kid moved on our block, 15 years old named "Dustin". Dustin has bad manners, is openly sexually active and smokes cigarettes in front of my son and his friends. Even though we have asked our kids to stay away from Dustin, it doesn't stop Dustin from coming around them. Yesterday, one of my sons friends got busted by the police for making out with his new G'friend (hand up shirt) in public. He also got caught with cigarettes. While my son wasn't involved, the son who got into trouble's mother and I are trying to figure out a way to make Dustin leave these kids alone. We found out yesterday he has been peer pressuring the boys to smoke and have sex. Any ideas? We can't keep the kids locked inside forever.

2007-09-24 23:29:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

is texting advantage or disadvantage to teenagers? do you think texting can make teenagers better?

this is for my extemporaneous speech...please help

2007-09-24 22:53:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Say they was about 14 h0w would you react ?

2007-09-24 21:55:23 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

My kids are 14, 16, and 17, and they have some good moments, mostly with people ourside our immediate family, but too me and to each other they are mostly bratty, snotty, self-centered, argumentative, juvenile, disrespectful, moody, irresponsible, self-destructive, other-destructive, slobs. They've attended Christian church and camps since they were small, but more and more they are resembling our materialistic morally degraded society. I am out-numbered and overwhelmed. What can I do?

2007-09-24 19:14:57 · 10 answers · asked by Bill X 2

My friend says she can't go to the del-mar scream zone unless she has some type of supervison...parent older teen, uncle watev.
I love her and i am not asking this for me i just want an opinion from u about her family...
They won';t let her go almost in any public place after 6:00pm alone! is this weird, strist, good, bad, normal, unusual? pick one and tell me or just answer...\


Pleaz no nassty comments....

2007-09-24 17:12:39 · 23 answers · asked by Snowflake 2

Let's say for example there is a family with 7 boys. Would the oldest one hit puberty at age 11, the second 12, and the last born being a late bloomer and hitting pubert around 15 or 16?

2007-09-24 16:46:33 · 7 answers · asked by cookinghamusa 1

I was wondering how much does birth control pills cost at the free clinic?What about planned parenthood?I was on birth control to regulate my period but our insurance ended . I wont go back on it since we dont have insurance right now and there is no real reason to be on birth control other than to regualte my periods.But if i do become sexually active(hypothetical question)before we get new insurance or if im not included on it after we get it i would like to know the cost and where to get it the cheapest and easiest.Im 17 by the way and sorry for asking a odd question.Thanks for answering.

2007-09-24 16:24:24 · 9 answers · asked by Bookybell 4