Why do guys (teens) hate?
Girls that are strong, outspoken and stand up for what they believe in? Or other guys lie and say they can handle it but don't? Like I'm 15 and like when I say outspoken I don't mean b*tching but I meant being opinionated and not backing down on my beliefs. It seems as soon as there's a chick like that they drive away guys.
Is it like imasculating? Cause I don't get it. What's wrong with a chick who knows what she wants?
No bad blood I just want to know, fill me in.
2007-09-25 12:04:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Like I'm open minded but I don't dumb myself down ya know?
2007-09-25 12:08:35 · update #1
It troubles me cause maybe they say I'm ugly but I'm pretty sure I'm at least average. It just hurts sometimes, I think it's sad that I have to dumb myself down.
2007-09-25 12:18:30 · update #2
haha that is funny I do write like all the time!
2007-09-25 14:07:06 · update #3
As I remember from a few centuries back, boys would find women like that to be intimidating.
But be of good cheer. As boys grow into men, at least some of them come to appreciate strong women.
Doc
2007-09-25 12:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because we're not intimidated by women like you.. congratualtions your outspoken want a paper hat or a medal? sorry but why is it a competition for women to imasculate us in their eyes, it doesn't have an effect until you open your mouth every five seconds and get up in their face, maybe then it becomes a problem because we're taught not to hit a girl
2007-09-26 00:02:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just because guys feel intimidated by us girls who know how to stand up for ourselves and speak our minds. One guy I dated even told me that. He said that he didn't like how I always said how I felt and how I had "an opinion about everything". I definitley dumped him!
When you have qualities like those about yourself, never give them up! Never try to make yourself more agreeable or less opinionated just to make guys like you. Its there fault if they can't accept you including all your opinions!
Find a guy who accepts you for who you are 100%. Guys usually don't like girls like that because they think there stuck up or self centered. Which is usually never true. Or it could just be they don't like the opinions the girls are voicing. Overall, its usually just that the guys are intimidated because a girl is stronger emotionally then they are stronger physically!
2007-09-25 12:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because LIKE boys don't LIKE knowing LIKE that a woman might LIKE be stronger then them. Most like to run things, not all but many. Seriously stop saying/writing like all the time.
2007-09-25 13:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think most guys just dont like the idea that the girl is strong like that. most guys see themselves as being strong, and the girls more of a push over.
2007-09-25 13:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
idn i dont have that problem guys usually like that im opinionated and dont just agree to what they say. hmm some guys have issues. maybe its becuase we stand up for our selfs and dont let them walk all over us
2007-09-25 12:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well we dont hate girls like that...it's just that it's bloody annoying when girls scream sexism and all that. Basically it can seem that you are coming across WAY too strong.
2007-09-25 16:33:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think alot of guys just dont wanna look bad, ya know? like if a girl is right and they're wrong they think they're stupid cuz they think they should be right too... some guys are just ignorant, others are trying to act like they know what they're doing... hell i dunno, thats a pretty good question, it even gives me something to think about!!!
2007-09-25 12:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by jersey_girl130 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋