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2007-09-25 11:56:20 · 36 answers · asked by ? 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
No. Theres really no reason for an 18 year old to be dating a 14 year old. He likely only wants sex. Trust me. Im a 17 year old guy. The only reason any older guy would date a 14 year old is to get some pus$y.
He's probably a real loser if he's resorting to having 14 year old gf's. There must be some reason why he cant get a girl his own age.
2007-09-25 17:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly its alot of stress because at that age boys are just entering that I'm going to do what I want attitude, and they think they have to experience everything, all of that for a 14 year old to handle is alot, I was 15 when I got with my boyfriend he was 17 but 3 months away from 18, so some things like going to a rated R movie, at 14 you can't go, and just alot of things that minors can't do. Then there's the 18 year old expectations of sex and all that, its alot of pressure.
I waited until I was with my boyfriend for a year before I had sex with him, but in reality if I had gotten pregnant that would have ruined my life, my guy would have taken care of me but all the things I want to do would have been put on hold or would never happen. I'm 17 1/2 now still with the same guy, but at that age is was difficult.
2007-09-25 15:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by Chey_18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14 that 4 years is a big difference, it's funny how when you hit 20's and up it's okay. But having a 14 year old daughter, I would not approve or allow. My son went through a phase of liking girls 14-15 when he was 17-18 and I didn't approve. He was not mature enough. Girls mature faster than boys, thats part of the attraction.
2007-09-25 15:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by the_lintons2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh lord. I've been there and done that. I was 14 and had been dating a guy who was 18 for nine months and a month before my birthday, I gave in to the pressure of sex. I wouldn't have changed who it was just when it was. He broke up with me 14 days later, the night before highschool started. Just don't, its illegal and the odds of making it together are against you. Do you really think when threatened with jail he would choose you? I'm 18 now and I know I wouldn't.
2007-09-26 06:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by bullylover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not? An 18 y o dosn`t want more sex than a 14 y o`. He is probably more responsible.`Do you think 14 y olds are angels just because they are 14. 18 y olds, on the other hand, can be very nice people.
2007-09-25 12:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by john c 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not. If my 14 year old daughter comes home with an 18 year old, the cops better get there to protect him. What business does an adult have searching for a girlfriend in junior high?
2007-09-25 12:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by Me again 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I did when i was 14 but it really depends (in my opinion.) on the guy. The one i went out with was an asshole but 18 is just an age in my opinion. the law is that anyone under 18 cant be with someone 18 or over.
2007-09-25 12:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
a 14 year old had a 18 yr old BF for like 2 weeks,they just broke up yesterday because he was cheating on her.So I say NO
2007-09-26 11:19:49 · answer #8 · answered by Chef Smalls 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh that's so gross she's either a freshman or in eightgrade. It's weird!
If you are going to date older guys it is a bit more acceptable at 16-18+
Sixteen and twenty sounds a **** of alot better than
FOURTEEN AND EIGHTEEN
Guys usually like younger girls, but seriously, date a ******* 16-year-old, not a freshman!
2007-09-25 15:11:08 · answer #9 · answered by Amy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm against it. But my cousin was 14 and she had an 18 year old bf. But I'm still against it!
2007-09-25 12:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋