I am 31 and have been seeing my boyfriend for a little over a year. We never considered ourselves to be in a long term relationship, partly because I want kids someday and he does not. I am finishing law school in a few months and working full time, which is why I haven't had time to actively search for Mr. Right. I found out this week that I am pregnant. He wants me to get an abortion, and while I was sensitive to his feelings about the matter, I told him abortion would not be a choice that I could make, for spiritual reasons (not so much religious reasons; I don't really believe in God). This is ironic, because he is the one who is Catholic. He is used to getting everything he wants from women, probably starting with his mother, but that crap has never worked in my zone, so my mind is made up. He is a good guy, though, and is sensitive and emotional in all of the right ways. He is just selfish. At what point do new fathers come around to the idea of an unplanned baby?
2007-09-08
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