I'm a mom of 3 girls...9, 11, & 12 y/o. My 12 y/o has hit puberty & has started to "grow" a little, but not a whole lot yet, but enough to wear a bra & she is MUCH more private about that area & doesn't mind wearing a bra.
My 9 & 11 year old girls haven't hit puberty at all yet, & it seems like my 11y/o will be 12 b4 anything "develops".
Now my question: Can I let my 9 & 11 year old girls be w/o a top at home?
I know my 12-year old wouldn't try it because she knows not to let ANYONE BUT HERSELF see her whole "chest", but since my 9 and 11 y/o girls don't have a "chest" I don't see what the big deal is. Right now their "chest" and stomach would look like any boy without a shirt on...so "right now" (that'll change later, I know) I don't c a problem with it. Also, If my 9 & 11y/o daughters go outside, they know to put on a sports bra or bathing suit, they know not to go outside w/o some sort of top on.
Oh, & the bottom "parts" should always be covered no matter what! Thanks!
2007-08-15
07:23:40
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