My mum has decided she wants to come down to me a couple of days before the birth and stay till after. we have never been really close and she lives quite far away (150 miles). My cousin has just given birth and my auntie was there the whole time. This is why I think she wants to come down, so it looks good. She was down a few weeks ago for 4 days and exausted me completely, i was ready for a holiday when she left. I know i may sound a bit mean, she is my mum and I do love her, but I reallywanted a quiet 2 weeks after the birth for my partner and myself to bond with our first baby. I don't mind one day of visits by family from both sides, but thats it for 2 weeks. My question is do u think Im feeling this coz of mad pregnancy hormones and how do i tell my mum I would rather she didn't come down then? Should I just let her come down and live with it? I don't want to upset anyone and maybe im over reacting???
2006-10-26
08:47:15
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Serry's mum
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