2006-10-26 08:45:52 · 56 answers · asked by tiffany p 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Grow up and don't do it. Remeber that thier is an innocent baby inside u that doesn't have a chice and you have to make it for them
2006-10-26 08:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by R C 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am sure it is not easy for you if you think you are craving the herb. This is not an easy question and I feel for you and your unborn child. One way to say off the pot is to keep away from the people that smoke. Easier said than done. If it is at your home then you might was to take a stand and just say no. Others should respect you for it. (and look up to you) Saying no the first time is the hard part but it gets much better as time goes by. Ask your self this.... Were you forced to smoke or did you have a choice? If someone forced you to smoke, that was not fair and is not to far for your baby. Your little angel deserves a choice too. Good luck ,in what ever you decide.
2006-10-26 09:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jozieann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look ur 13, its not a craving its just somthing that u did to impress friends!!! Being a mum has no age limit although sex does! But this is down to u u need to think clearly about weather or not u want this baby as it is a big dissision and just stop with the weed! Stay away from it and just buy chocolate instead tastes better
2006-10-30 03:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by helen f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you give up now your child will have the best chance of being healthy smoking weed is definatly not good for you or the baby it messes with your head just dont buy it dont hang around people that smoke it you have a responsability jus think if there was anything wrong with that baby because of the weed how could you ever forgive yourself think about it
2006-10-26 11:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by angel_00_uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What we all fail to recognize is that this is a little girl! 13 years old so yes she is troubled and making some really non-sense decisions...honey, for the sake of God grow up! Think more about the baby than yourself especially if you love this little person if you don't you will continue to crave and smoke put the baby first because when the baby comes anyway it is going to be less of you and more concern on the baby...JUST WAIT!!!!!
2006-10-27 10:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by random_thought 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I'm going to get a lot of negative feedback but where is your mother? We all know your mother is the one that is going to be raising your baby! You are being very selfish! Have you even told your mother? You need to stop smoking weed now! You are putting your baby at risk for serious developmental problems. Later you may wonder why your child is not on the same level as other children well the answer is you made some bad choices and now your baby is paying for it. You need to take a good look at yourself and make some changes. You do have options and you need to look into some of them - SOON!!!
2006-10-26 09:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by Lanita H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's called Will power!! Don't you feel guilty when you do it? I didn't do it for the longest time. I really didn't have the craving for it. ALso I just felt funny in doing it with a child inside me. Towards the end of my pregnancy I did it but I still felt weird about it. I have a friend that did everything when she was pregnant. Drank, smoked, and did coke. Everything worked out for her but she was scared. I wouldn't chance it tough. Because if your baby comes out addictivie they will take it from you...that's one thing to scare you away from weed smoking. Good luck and congrats.
2006-10-26 08:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why r u smoking weed at only 13 anyways? You need to stop for the health of your child and yourself. Check into rehab or talk to a school counselor. You need help!!
2006-10-26 08:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by small town girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your 13 and pregnant, that's a disgrace in its self, without adding the fact that you smoke weed. Your only a child yourself. Think about what is ahead of you for the next fifty years.
2006-10-26 10:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by bizzybee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
13 !! You are baby yourself and should get the poor kid aborted. What kind of life will it have with a 13 year old mum who is not mature enough to look after it and the central nervous system development will suffer because of your habit.
You would be better starting fresh and getting to a rehab centre to help you stop, stick with education and get some hobbies that really interest you.
2006-10-26 23:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by Acer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say no, If you really love your baby then you'll stop. Why are you even doing that at age 13? You need to grow up now and think like a mom since your going to be one. If you can't take care of yourself with your weed problem, then you need to go and get help for the sake of your baby. Don't be embarresed to go and get help because people will want to help you, especially when your pregnant. So Please, Just Say NO to your self and think of your baby. Go to WIC and apply and eat what they give you. Drink juices, eat veggies and fruits, walk, just be healthy. Weed isn't going to take you nowhere. Remember, whatever you eat, drink or inhale...your baby is eating, drinking and inhaling. Would you want your baby smoking weed with you? Think about it. I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but I'm just thinking about your baby. You'll love your baby more then ever once it's out of you. It a precious gift god can ever give you. Please Take care of your self and your baby.
I'm sorry but one more thing, If you really want your baby then stop at this very moment. My Aunt is a social worker and she said if they find out that there are drugs inside the baby's system once the baby is born, then they can take the baby away from you and you can never see you baby again for the rest of your life. So please think about it, For the sake of your helpless, precious baby.
Babies are precious and adorable. I don't want to say this but come to think about it, you are very young. Having a baby will take away everything you've always wanted. there is an option of having an abortion. it costs $375 at a family clinic. Think about what you want and the baby. it's on you.
Good luck with your decisions!!!
2006-10-26 08:57:44 · answer #11 · answered by jigenlo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋