Pregnancy & Parenting - 28 September 2006

Hey, Well let me start off no negitve comments on me. I made a mistake we all do. Anyways... Im pregnant and im 15, Im not a whore. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 2 years next week. I told my parents that im pregnant but I don't know how to tell him I want to keep?.. We both have jobs ( me and my boyfriend) Car, Insurance, Basically anything we could ever want or need. I don't know how to tell my dad this becuase he really wants me to give it up for adoption and he hates my boyfriend. On the other hand my boyfriends mom wants me to keep it really bad.. So my boyfriend and I are very confused. Well tell me what I should say and do.. Becuase I cant give my baby girl up.. I love her to much...

2006-09-28 11:51:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

Ok... so... I calmed down... and I explaind my baby sister ( the 7 year old one.... I thought it was a little early.... but anyhow) But know the 9 year old is kinda jelous becauses she hasn't goten hers jet.... She is very frustated... because my sister other sister (14) got it at eight... or so.... :S (the one that went with mom in the trip) But I tried to explain her that all women are diferent.... like the other sister (21(she went with mom 2)) got it when she was like.... 13.... But she is mad and look her self in her room... I worried..... and my twin brother is doing nothing!!! geee!!!!! welll any how.... how can I calm her down??

2006-09-28 11:49:04 · 11 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Adolescent

because she was fussy, gassy and spitup alot...she seems to be doing better now...except for now she is really constipated and she cryies when she has a BM.

2006-09-28 11:46:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Parenting

My husband and I just moved across country to the NW suburbs of Chicago, and we really need a good sitter since we have no family out here, and not many friends yet....I have tried a few sites such as 4sitters.com, babysitters.com, and sittercity.com but they all charge over $30 just to join, and I didn't see a whole lot of selection once you do join! We're not church goers, and so far our neighbors are not real helpful, no one wants to reccomend their sitter and risk them not being available when they need them! I've even tried the newspaper to no avail, everyone wants full or part time positions, and this is just a random gig, for the occasional night out.....
Can anyone suggest anything!?!?
Thanks!

2006-09-28 11:46:24 · 5 answers · asked by LoveBiologist 3 in Parenting

Im a 15 year old girl. My guy friend likes to say comments about my chest to my face. I'm a 36 D and he always makes comments about it. He said to one of our friends God gave her one of the nicest racks. I have politely asked him before to stop but he doesn't. Its not just him its other guys too. I don't wear tight tops really or anything low cut anymore. Im sick of hiding myself so people wont make comments. How do I make him shut up. Thanks in advance

2006-09-28 11:43:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

This is the 6th day of coughing and runny nose. This is the 4th day of pale skin, reddish sunken eyes during activity, super cranky don't feel good attitude, complaints of "almost" threw up. Nausea seems to be going away, but dizziness complaints started today... Gladly...appetite is returning today!! Temp today was only 97.

He does not have, and has not had, sore throat, ear ache, chest congestion, fever, sneezing, pain or yellow mucus...

Doctor says it is a cold and not to worry.

I know my son. Something else is wrong.

Can anyone help me with this? If I'm being paranoid...please tell me that too!!!

Thanks so much!!

2006-09-28 11:40:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Toddler & Preschooler

its been 53 days since my last period and i am having some signs of pregnancy. ive had sore breast/nipples for the past two weeks and yesterday it just felt like it was tingling inside. i started feeling very fatigue, i go to bed earlier than i usually do, i felt like my period was coming for the past two weeks and it hasnt come. i went to planned parenthood three days ago for the blood test but they only gave a urine test, the test was neg. They said if i wanted the blood test id have to pay $100 and i think that was too much. I have a doctor but the earliest app. i could get was in mid october. i read there are some women who took the urine test and it came out neg and when they took the blood test it came out positive. when i went in for a pap smear on sept 6 i wanted to do a blood test and they said you dont need a blood test the urine sample is good enough. what do you guys think? do you know any clinic that can give me a blood test without me waiting forever to get one?

2006-09-28 11:39:23 · 8 answers · asked by jackie 2 in Pregnancy

hi guys. went to do blood test today results were neg. lab tech said i should wait another week .what do u think. i'm so depressed.

2006-09-28 11:37:49 · 8 answers · asked by tnaa 1 in Trying to Conceive

He's so emotional.One minute hes happy the next he's mad and the next hes cryin' like a girl.I don't know if its puberty or just a stage. he's 11

2006-09-28 11:37:33 · 8 answers · asked by lisa 1 in Parenting

My parents are obsessed with my son, treat him like an infant, they sleep with him every night and want him at their house all the time. My dad molested me and took my virginity, should I worry about my little boy? My dad gives him toys and special treats every day. Will he do anything to my son?

2006-09-28 11:32:23 · 19 answers · asked by T C 2 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

Am I just weird or do any others feel the same. I have 2 wonderful kids (4 & 7) I am only 25, I had to have a hysterectomy 3 years ago, here lately when I see a pregnant woman I get kind of sad I dont know if it is knowing I cant have kids anymore or what...
When I was pregnant I loved it I felt sooooo sexy and just loved every minute of it, and just the feeling of them inside me and knowing I was getting fat (not fat fat, just thick) for a good reason for some reason I miss it. I would do anyting to be pregnant again, am I weird, or is this normal?

2006-09-28 11:31:35 · 30 answers · asked by Amanda T 2 in Pregnancy

I am three weeks from my due date. My doctor says it could be any day or could be the entire three weeks... Anyone with any experience at all please reply!!! This is my second child and I did not dialate at all before I went into labor with the first.

2006-09-28 11:28:54 · 10 answers · asked by lovemykids 2 in Pregnancy

i'm just wondering how many of you had what the chinese gender prediction chart said you would.
i haven't met anyone it didn't work for (unless they were a little unsure of the month of conception because it was on the curb).
if you've had a child and never looked at the chart just google it-and make sure you use your lunar age (add 9 months)-and tell me if it was right!!!

2006-09-28 11:27:28 · 13 answers · asked by prettyhate 3 in Newborn & Baby

Me and my boyfriend have sex and he always pulls out. i went to the clinic to take a pregnancy test and it came back negative. My parents always ask me am I pregnant and I will say no, but my stomach gets bigger every month as if I were pregnant. I dont know if the test was wrong or not. Or should I have waited for a wahile to take the test after I had sex two days befor I actually went to go take it.

2006-09-28 11:27:14 · 13 answers · asked by jr 1 in Pregnancy

Thank you all so much for the info u have given me lately but now i found out today that i am expecting!! for sure second blood test was taken to prove so 1st was undetermined second was positive!! i am really excited and i am due in june!!

2006-09-28 11:24:47 · 14 answers · asked by amber 1 in Pregnancy

I was asking cause i heard a lot of different answers i hoping the answer is no..lol cause i don't like his last name but he want me to put it for the baby's last name he is going to be in the delivery room with me and i know there are going to ask me right after the birth i don't want to say my last name instead of his right in his face what should i do?

2006-09-28 11:21:40 · 51 answers · asked by Lee-Lee 1 in Pregnancy

I was in my ENG 101 class today and w had this big argument about how some females these days use abortion as a birthcontrol method. How do you guys feel about it?

2006-09-28 11:16:59 · 27 answers · asked by MizModelMaterial 1 in Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

Okay, The way i put it...there are millions of kids out there that are homeless....why make a baby when you can adopt one that needs your help.
Do You Agree Or Disagree And Why.


( My Boyfriend wants to have children, when i want to help someone)

2006-09-28 11:16:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Parenting

I have been wit this guy for a year now and thinkin about havin kids wit him soon. He says that he want about 5. I have already had a baby but he was premature and died a week after me giving birth. i am not wit that child father for numerous of bad reasons. I have a new life now and wanna start over wit my new love. How do we go by getttin pregnant and starting a family of our own.

2006-09-28 11:16:05 · 14 answers · asked by toya1jolly 2 in Trying to Conceive

I am 19 yrs old 11 weeks pregnant with first child my stomach is extremely hairy would that be more consistant with a girl or boy?

2006-09-28 11:13:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

My baby is 3 months 1.5 weeks old. He's holding his head up on his own, and can sit in a bumbo alone. Is he old enough to start trying solid foods?

2006-09-28 11:13:33 · 18 answers · asked by lillimac 2 in Newborn & Baby

Ok here is her schedule:
Daytime she has a 4.5 oz. bottle is awake for one hour then sleeps for 3 hours and wakes for next bottle...repeat all day

Nightime (8:30 pm til about 7am) she has a 4.5 oz. bottle practically in her sleep every 4 hours or so and sleeps immediately after

Is this normal to sleep so much at 5 weeks old? Not that I'm complaining...it's a welcome change from her colic before switching to Alimentum and using a Miracle Blanket...but is this too much? When she is awake (the one hour after bottles in the daytime) she is a smiley happy little girl. Is she getting enough to eat that way? Her pediatritian is on vacation and I don't think it's serious enough to call the hospital or anything, I just wonder if anyone else's baby sleeps this much.

Thanks in advance!

2006-09-28 11:06:37 · 28 answers · asked by totspotathome 5 in Newborn & Baby

I dont know our babys sex yet but when i find out i want to do something cute for my hubby...hes a trucker and wont be home so i want to do something cute...any ideas for boys/girls??

2006-09-28 11:03:44 · 7 answers · asked by fallenangel14522 1 in Pregnancy

What would be a really rock 'n roll baby name?

2006-09-28 11:03:21 · 16 answers · asked by Rockin' n Rollin' 1 in Newborn & Baby

Is it your choice if you would like to have a natural birth or a c-sections? Or is it totaly up to the doctor? I am going to be 38 weeks sunday and I have gestational diabetes..My blood sugar has ben as high as 180. I want a c-section and would rather not attempt natural birth,incase something goes wrong and not to mention I am a small framed person,but the dr measures my belly with the measuring tape and claims the baby is not big..but I would much rather have a c-sections..Is this my choice or what?

2006-09-28 10:57:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

I had a miscarriage about 2 months ago. I didn't have to have a D&C because I mascarried naturally. When I was at the hospital the night I miscarried I was told that my HCG level was only at 10 which was extremely low. Well after I stopped bleeding from the miscarriage I took a pregnancy test and it was clearly a negative. Well anyway, yesturday I took a pregnancy test and it was a definite positive it was just very light. Is it possible that I am pregnant and it's not just reading still from the last pregnancy? Also I have gotten a normal period after the miscarriage but is it possible to have ovulated before I got my period right after the miscarriage?

2006-09-28 10:54:22 · 7 answers · asked by I smile because of them ♥ 5 in Pregnancy

ok this week i'm gonna lose my virginity with my lovely girlfriend for all years . and my sword is not huge you know and i am kinda shy , i heard how to use it matter .but is really how to use it or the size is. tell the truth please ?

2006-09-28 10:53:16 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

seems like people have kids but still want to live a kid free life

like bringing 5 kids to a rated R movie cause you cant get a baby sitter

2006-09-28 10:50:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Parenting

Could u get pregnant w/ a guy or a doc?

2006-09-28 10:48:48 · 39 answers · asked by Meghan J 1 in Pregnancy

When was the most uncomfortable moment? Are those birthes easier at home with the older siblings of the new baby around???

2006-09-28 10:47:55 · 8 answers · asked by normalerweisewohl 1 in Pregnancy