Am I just weird or do any others feel the same. I have 2 wonderful kids (4 & 7) I am only 25, I had to have a hysterectomy 3 years ago, here lately when I see a pregnant woman I get kind of sad I dont know if it is knowing I cant have kids anymore or what...
When I was pregnant I loved it I felt sooooo sexy and just loved every minute of it, and just the feeling of them inside me and knowing I was getting fat (not fat fat, just thick) for a good reason for some reason I miss it. I would do anyting to be pregnant again, am I weird, or is this normal?
2006-09-28 11:31:35 · 30 answers · asked by Amanda T 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I have a 2yo girl and had a bad and painful pregnancy with seveer SPD. I couldn't sleep and was never comfortable. I couldn't wait for it to be over. The thing is it hasn't put me off. I'd love to be pregnant again and can't wait to have more children. If only my partner felt the same.
I don't think you are wierd at all. You feel special when your pregnant and every day is more and more exciting.
2006-09-28 11:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by ccskitten 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is my opinion, If you look and think deeply, I don't think you really love being pregnant, but you love that you know you have your baby inside you...being pregnant whether you have all the symtoms and sickness or not...it's not the thing that we should love or feel love...because your body and mental are not exactly 100% as when you are not pregnant....you have to be more careful of what you do what you eat.....*But the feeling that make you miss the time when you pregnant could be
1.your natural desire of having baby (as now your youngest is 4 yrs old)
2.The fact that you have a hysterectomy.
***I used to feel a little jelous the mothers of my son's friends when they get pregnant or just have another baby.....and I thought why I don't have another baby and have a happy family like the others....
***Now I get pregnant again...I should be feeling great that I have what I wanted yrs ago.
***But the fact is I don't feel that great....because the father of my baby has gone crazy...and disappeared.
***Please remember, 'we never fullfill our desires', we can not have every thing, there always the missing bits, we need to learn life, has to learn how to live positively. don't let just a little things upset us...people in UK in comparison have better life (materials) than people who live in affrica or other poorer contries.
but I found that they are not happy with their lives, allway complain, moan about the little things such as 'weather' or nextdoor neighbour, or the foriener who comes and claims benefits in their country, etc.....always have something to moan about.
**you already have 2 kids, and I guess you have a lovely husband with you too.....just think positive that you are far more luckier than many other women, who rasing her kids on her own, who have a horrible husband bully her.....
if you have another child you might be suffering in some kind of illness, or if not you , might be your baby.....
so....don't let this feeling.(missing being pregnant, or desire another baby)...upseting you :-)
2006-09-28 12:17:34 · answer #2 · answered by SERENE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I adored being pregnant. I felt so alive and sexy. Knowing that I had my baby growing inside of me was so over whelming. Being pregnant is such a beautiful blessing.
I only have one daughter 3yrs old and being a mother is the BEST!!!
Just the thought of not being able to have another child for any reason would make any caring mother feel sad.
But you were Blessed to have 2 beautiful children who thinks you are wonderful and look up to with every passing moment. And whether you had 2-10 more children you will always be the best mommy in the world to them. Cherish that. You never know , one day you may consider adopting to give another child A WONDERFUL MOTHER THAT CARES UNCONDITIONALLY.
No! You are not wierd you. It just sounds like you really love being a mommy . :}
2006-09-28 11:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by MsLilac30 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its very normal. U seem to love kids and being pregnant with another little human being is beautiful!
Im pregnant with my first child (27 weeks) and am really enjoying it all. Especially when he moves (yup i already know its a boy :P
I just sit there and feel him move when he gets active and coo all the time. Of course it gets uncomfortable at times, but the joys of having a child and knowing how much i love my partner outweighs any of the negatives i feel about the whole thing.
Im so sorry to hear u had a hysterectomy so young, but just be blessed that u have your two little ones. And yes its normal u feel that way, and i know many other women just like u and me who feel the same way.
2006-09-28 11:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by gr33n_3y3d_grrl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think that it is normal to be sad or greiving after having a hysterectomy. It's a loss any way you look at it and we all grieve over losses. I miss being pregnant as well, however I haven't had a hysterectomy. I think that you may be grieving in your own way. There are a lot of related articles out there if you're willing to look. I've posted a decent resource on this topic.
2006-09-28 11:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally think that this is normal. I am currently nine months pregnant with my second and I love being pregnant. I think it is such a beautiful and wonderful experience. Maybe it is the whole idea of being part of a miracle, you know creating a life... But I love it. I also feel really sexy when I am pregnant more so this time then last. My husband also loves me being pregnant. I feel sorry for anyone who doesn't enjoy the experience.
2006-09-28 12:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by Erin B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far I would have to say my answer to your question is: yes! I am only in my third month so things could change - I guess we'll have to wait and see. Even with feeling achy, a little tired, and moody - I'm just SO excited. It's my husband and my first baby - every days just an adventure and I've been lucky to have such an "easy" first trimester.
I guess, like everything else in life, there are good days and bad ones - it just depends on what you give more focus to as to what your opinions of pregnancy are. That's my best guess...
2006-09-28 12:24:07 · answer #7 · answered by Starting a Journey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventhough I was extremely sick through both of my pregnancies, I have to agree with you. Knowing that you have a little life growing right there beneath your heart is such a beautiful
miraculous experience...there's nothing quite like it. When I was pregnant for the first time with my son, a girl I worked with would always touch my stomach. She had her tubes tied after her second and would always look so longingly and wistfully at my belly when she'd touch it. She told me that until I was done with having babies, I wouldn't understand just how sad it is to know you would never be expecting again.
2006-09-28 11:35:18 · answer #8 · answered by Barbara G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe thats absolutly normalESPECIALLY after you having a hysterectomy. I too loved being pregnant I never had morning sickness or nausia (with first) right now I'm battling the worst case of nausia but I know its all for the best.
2006-09-28 11:35:44 · answer #9 · answered by cowsfreak 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 32 weeks pregnant right now!!! And yes even though I'm always tired, my feet are swollen, I get kicked in the ribs all day and my back is killing me. When i feel my daughter move and see my husbands face when he feels her move it makes it all worth it. I would not give this experience up for anything. I know that soon she'll be here for me to hold.
2006-09-28 11:41:00 · answer #10 · answered by marie_amanda2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋