My boyfriend of one year has told me he wanted to get married but he "wanted to do it right". He wants to buy me an engagement ring and get married soon. But, today I found out I'm getting some unexpected money(a large amount) and could not wait to call him. Well, he busted my bubble when he said, "we can get married really soon then, I can just use that money to buy you a ring". I was shocked, but I told him, if that's how you want it, forget it, the ring is not that important for me to have to buy it. I should explain that we have lived together for 8 mos and I'm divorced from a guy who I had to buy my own engagement ring because he did not have a strong work history and was always working for just temp agencies. since i made more money and wanted one i bought it. but i have always put that on the "list" of stupid things i did i that 2 year marriage. my boyfriend has always been a good provider, but he can be "tight". i feel completely devasted. or maybe i'm just carrying baggage.
2006-12-07
06:23:30
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