it seems the norm is for men to get amrried around like 28 or so after they have "tested all the waters". is it wierd to be a guy and just want to be married and skip all that?
does that scare women? (not saying i would just rush into a marriage with the first girl that i see)
2006-12-07 03:21:25 · 15 answers · asked by Steven Colbert 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Of course its normal... not all men want to test the waters.... my fiance and I are eachother first boyfriend and girlfriend, we have been together for over 4 years and were still young, under 25. We are getting married in may.... so yes its completley normal... Your going to make a girl a good husband someday, good luck.
2006-12-07 07:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not abnormal at all. In fact you are part of a select few in this generation who are making a smart decision when it comes to all of that. With the mind blowing statistics of sexually transmitted infections and desieses, your strive to get married and have a monogamous relationship is actually protecting you. Just dont rush into anything, and make sure you find a lady that you really love and want to be with for a very long time.
2006-12-07 04:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am the same way (although i am a girl). my boyfriend and i have been together for about 5 months, we're both 19 and it's crazy but we both know that we have found the right one. i know deep in my heart. a couple years ago we were friends in high school but seeing other people, and now the time was right and we met again, about 7 or 8 times randomly at school until one day i emailed him (through facebook) and we exchanged #'s. i find that age doesn't matter if you truely feel it in your heart. i know that we're young and he was a virgin when i met him and he's not going to be able to "test the waters", but he says thats the best part...knowing that you don't have to b/c you have everything you've been looking for right in front of you. so to answer your questions_no it's not abnormal, we all look at life in through different eyes. and if it scares women away then they arn't what you're looking for. :) <3
2006-12-07 03:36:45 · answer #3 · answered by bcos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I first advise conversing approximately this including your spouse so as that if/once you're caught in a compromised subject you have already laid down a beginning place and it won't come as a finished marvel to her. possibly it is likewise possible to hold somebody else (male) into the mattress room to verify if that's what you relish or if that is basically some fantasy you had to act out.
2016-10-17 22:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was that age and my boyfriend wanted to get married, it gave me the creeps.
Its nice if you are getting an education and a decent job. Not if you are still in debt from going crazy after getting your first Visa card. I guess it all depends on what you want out of the marriage. If its because you are afraid to live life on your own and want someone to take care of you, that's definitely not a good reason.
2006-12-07 03:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by moobiemuffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is cool. normally by that age girls are starting to think about it to..... I'm only in high school and I have had a relationship that was leading to marriage right after high school. So It is okay. And I don't think it should scare a girl. If things are leading to marriage that more power to ya. Just don't rush into anything.
2006-12-07 03:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by autumn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not abnormal. Knowing when you are ready for a long term commitment is solely an individual choice. It does not matter what everyone else thinks. Just be sure the choice is right before you take that step.
2006-12-07 03:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by sxy_pretty_brie_66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its great that you want to get married. Some people just want to get straight to the point without all the other hassle of dating a lot of people so if you think you got the right girl I say go for it.
2006-12-07 03:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by Emily M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tony ... I might ask yourself some questions as to why you feel you need to be married. Not that it is ultimately wrong, but if it were me, I'd like to understand what the drive is, perhaps is the need you feel to be taken care of .. maybe a mothering type of woman. Maybe you want to be in the sack all the time and the correct thing to do is to get marrried .... if it were me ... I;d want to understand my motivations .....
2006-12-07 03:35:06 · answer #9 · answered by Eamon35 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no it's not odd some men just like being settled down and don't want to play around but just know that you have to shop around to find miss right not miss right now good luck
2006-12-07 04:22:07 · answer #10 · answered by charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋