ok when u get married are u gonna let you man get out with the guys for a bacholrs party knowing that he might want to get some thing different before he gets booked????
2006-12-07 07:06:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
ok i do trust him i just dont like the fact of other girls and the hole naked **** because it will make me feel like i am not good enough. do u know what i mean?
2006-12-08 02:44:46 · update #1
Of course I'm going to let my guy have a bachelor party. I trust him 100%, I know that he won't do anything he's not suppose to.
2006-12-07 07:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK if he wants one yes. Being that I am getting married it is safe to assume I trust the man I am marrying! Luckily for me my fiance wants a "guys night out" but repeatedly told his friends he hates strippers. Regardless, not all guys go to strip clubs pick up girls and screw them. Some guys actually go to the strip club to see the dancers, get a few lap dances, and drink the night away. Sounds like you may not trust your man. Does he frequent these clubs and/or has he ever cheated on you in the past or given you any reason to believe he may have?? This is what I see going on here, otherwise a simple night out with the guys is fine as long as it's just that!!!
2006-12-07 15:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first of all If you really believe that your fiance would cheat on you before the wedding you have bigger problems than him having a bachlor party.... do you really think he would cheat???? Then don't marry him! Now secondly I am getting married in May and my fiance and I have already told our MOH and Best Man that we want to have a joined bachlor/bachlorette party so that is what we are doing.... we are going to have tons of friends over and just have a great time..... GL
2006-12-07 15:17:07 · answer #3 · answered by totallylovableandinlove 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to worry about your "man" cheating on you at a bachlor party, then you should not be getting married! This is a bad start to a relationship that is supposed to be for the rest of your life. Trust is a number one issue. If you do not have that and you really think he would cheat on your at his bachlor party, then you need to give him back his ring and end it now!
2006-12-07 15:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him go because I trust him to act in a normal fashion and not get carried away. I would let him do it but the thing is my fiance does not want a bachelor party so I do not have to worry.
2006-12-07 15:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by martini_40727 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was totally down with my husband having a bachelor party. He didn't want one. But I wouldn't have minded him going to a strip club. Look but don't touch. And I totally trust him. He ended up playing computer games with a few of his good buddies but it was up to him.
2006-12-07 16:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by bubb1e_gir1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I'm gonna let him go out. If you have to worry about him having sex with someone else, then don't marry him. But a lap dance, strip tease or whatever is fine. They're men, they like those kinda things. They can't help it.
2006-12-07 15:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by Suga 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My hubby-to-be is not going to have a bacholor party but i've told him if he wants to i'll definitely let him go.
I trust him and i know he wouldn't do anyhting like that.
2006-12-07 16:04:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will, for sure. I trust him 100%. If he wanted anything or anyone besides me, he wouldn't have asked me to marry him. If he wanted anything or anyone besides me, I wouldn't have said yes.
Trust....its what makes it all work!
2006-12-07 16:34:49 · answer #9 · answered by AmyB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course that I'm going to let my man go and have fun, I trust him and I'm a very confident mature woman and I'm very confident in our relationship.
Good luck
2006-12-07 15:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋