my in-laws 50th annv. is may 2007. In May of this year my in-laws asked that we all 4 kids and thier familys go to florida for thier annv( this was the way they wanted to celebrate).i don't know what happened to that whole idea but in the next couple months that was a no-go and thier oldest daughter sent an email that now mom and dad wanted to do a hall, band, food, open bar, invites and the whole 9 yards which i think is wonderful for them (oh this would be for 200 people) it sounds like mother-in-law is telling sister-in-law what they want and sister-in-law is planning it as if it were a surprise?????? no-one has said lets get together and plan this thing and how much should we spend & we can't get any straight answers. they have a habit of doing things and then sending a email that our portion is this much. i wonder if i should assume this is expected of us and wait for the bill. or should i assume it is not up to us to pay for this
2006-11-12
16:23:32
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Kim N
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