This is the dilemma,my eldest daughter is getting married august,my youngest daughter has just had her first baby,our first grandchild 3wks ago.Now the problem is my eldest daughter is having her two sisters as bridesmaids and 4 others,her partners niece and 2of her godchildren but when she was asked could her own niece who will be 11months by then could be one the answer was an emphatic NO.It would disrupt the service,it would look stupid etc.All the youngest wanted thinking her sister would think it was a lovely idea was to follow the little bridesmaids in to the church holding the baby and once in there hand her to me.What else does the brides mother do on that day any way.My eldest daughter i agree should be the one to choose who she has as its her wedding,but its hurt my youngest girl as she feels like her babys being rejected,we by the way are paying for the reception but have made no other requests.I want them both to be happy.I cant take sides as i love them both.What do i do??
2006-10-12
18:21:37
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Big momma
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