2006-10-12 16:45:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
A coupla minutes ago, you were asking if 15 was too young.
Why do you wanna know?
I think that 15 is too young, at least in this culture, but 19 is kinda in that fuzzy grey area. Some 19 year olds, yes, it is too young, but some of them, no.
2006-10-12 17:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by Queen Queso 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 21 now. I got married when I was 18, my husband was 20 and now we have 2 kids. 2yrs and 8 months old. We've been married for 3 years. We were very lucky, but marriage at that age is very difficult, if you are not living with your parents, then you can't afford to go out, because of your rent and groceries. I feel like you might miss out on fun things and once you have kids there's no more going out at night or even during the day! Everything will put pressure on your relationship and guys don't really mature until they're like 40 years old. I got lucky and have a man who wants a family....but it's unbelievable how much responsibility comes with just being a young couple! Don't let me discourage you, but marriage is not something that you just take care of in one day, it's something that takes time and hard work to sort of grow with. We've had a few hard times, but I have NO REGRETS at all! NONE, I have a wonderful family and I thank God for them everyday:) If God asked me if I wanted to go back and redo that part of my life I would not redo anything:)
2006-10-13 00:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by josiedickelman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think so. Don't rush. The world is before you at 19. You are just old enough to go out on your own. If you both love each other it doesn't matter whether you get married now or years from now. You will be thankful later on!! Hope this helps.
2006-10-13 01:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by tiger4mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
19 isnt what it used to be. When our parents were 19 they were alot more mature. Back then school wasnt as important and alot of people didnt go to college. And if someone didnt go to college and got married at 18 that was normal. But now days school is important. And 18-22 are when you figure out who you are. Ive changed so much since high school. I think it depends on the situation. But at 19, you are going to be a completly different person 5 years later. Which makes it hard on your spouse. Youll either grow together or apart. But id say its too young. Only because your still a kid and you still need to grow on your own before you put yourself with someone else.
2006-10-12 23:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by amtech33 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes,it's way too young you haven't finish school or figure out what you want to do with your life.You are just getting a head start,but I'm 23 and I just got married july 16 sometimes when you are young you want to try something different while young cuz life is too short.Please re-consider that's your only bet.
2006-10-12 23:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by Sister Queen Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lord No ! I got married when I was 19 and my husband was 18 and we have been married for a year and a half. We are doing great. You have to ask yourself if this is for you and if you love her or him and if you could see your self with the person for the rest of your life and you truely will be happy and if youu say yes to those 2 questions then go for it. Good luck
2006-10-12 23:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by Love Bug 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it is, at that age you really don't know who you are. You should get to know whou you really are and what you want out of life. This is the time when you should be in college getting an education, and planning your life. When it comes to marriage it takes hard work, and sacrifices, something you must be willing to give. Take the time to figure your life out, and she should do the same. I think that if it is meant to be, it will happen when you have both worked on yourselves, and finish school. I would also advise getting premarital counseling before making that move, as you well know the chances of a marriage lasting for young couples is very slim. When you do get married make sure you put "GOD" at the head of that marriage, and it has the chance of lasting a long time. There are going to be some good days, and then some bad days, but you have to be willing to keep working hard at it to make it work.
2006-10-13 00:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by venita.bryant0149@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i guess it depends on the relationship, and your financial situation. money is a big issue to think about. but i think it depends more on how well you know the person and how the relationship has been.
i had a friend from my college who decided to meet, get engaged and marry the guy from the beginning of college... all before her sophomore year...... so lets just say they didnt work. she really didnt know him and he went a lil crazy, and now she's 20. not in college. going through a divorce. and living back with her parents....
so all i'm saying is if you truly know the person then there is no reason not to get married.. but there isnt really a reason to not wait.. i think if you really want to get married then you could wait a couple years unless there is another reason (like a baby, parent situation, etc.)
2006-10-13 00:18:35 · answer #8 · answered by Bridget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no - it's not too young ~ 16 - 18 is - but 19 is an adult age - you'll only think that 19 is too young if you are not sure what life is - if you're not sure what you really wants -but if you are confident enough to settle down at 19 - then go right ahead - it don't matter what anyone else says - but wat really matters is what you think - you are the one that will either regret something or praise something - it's all up to you!!!
2006-10-13 02:46:20 · answer #9 · answered by Sammy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you know for a fact that you are with the one you love and want to spend the rest of your life with than no that is not to young just make sure that is what you really want to do before you do it.
2006-10-13 00:03:47 · answer #10 · answered by britt7 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋