we cnt leave without eachother, but she cant leave her parents also, one thing more she is sikh bt i am punjabi hindu, thats the problem her parents have. we leave everything on god, but pls help me how can her father convince?? pls meri jindgi aur maut ka sawal hai. pls pls........ help
2006-10-12 21:05:21 · 17 answers · asked by sonu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Ask Them to do it soon....
2006-10-15 07:15:27 · answer #1 · answered by Muttama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The are some ways to solve it.
1. Try to talk to them yourself. Take some gift to them, dress nice, and be BRAVE, show them that you love her that much.
2. if they ignore you, find the people that they trust and talk to them, you and your girlfriend together.
3. Be friendly and nice to her brothers and sisters, Do whatever it takes to impress and prove them that you are the best man to your girlfriend!
4. Talk to your mom and dad about, ask their opinion and help, They're the ones that will really care about you and will find you solution from situation.
5. Take your time with marriage. You should not be in a rush for those kind of things.
6. If you go to school or your work somewhere. Find the professor and whoever (the person with big influence and respect), you and your girlfriend explain him situation ask for help. Tell them that her parents might listen them
7. The last thing, you are a man, do not forget that. Starting solving the problem from the mother of your girlfriend, because she is the best person to convince her dad. Buy flowers, take her to the dinner, just try to talk to her and show her that you are good guy.
2006-10-13 04:13:38 · answer #2 · answered by Napster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welll is full of sacrifices if u think u are having no trouble with ur parents the n go ahead and talk to them abt ur girl.. i know its still scray but when tides are high grab to something which float.
if both disagree i have seen lot of my friends who have married against parents and got married by strongly holding on just one person and one resolution, but if u really thinking of marriage is 1 & only solution then think u after 10 years from now if u are financially stable earning then go ahead else just hang on to ur resolution (both) slowly both will come to an agreement... ALL THE BEST FROM ME GOOD LUCK
2006-10-13 04:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by deepak_y3ks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you love each other alot & don't want to let each other go but if the parents are that stubborn to know that u are her future & not theirs than that is selfish of them. At the same time i understand that religion plays a big part in her parents lives but they should also understand that once she gets married to u that u guys start ur own family & believe what u guys want to believe than that is the choice u both have to make together. If they are that serious about killing themselves than u should let her go only for the best. If u love her enough & don't want her to go through losing her parents than learn to let her go. If it was meant to be than you will find each other later. I will pray for u.
2006-10-13 04:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by smartie2828 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her parents. Try your best to explain how much you love her and will take care of her in future. Imagine your daughter going thru this, then picture yourself as the angry father. What would you do? What will convince you, apply the same techniques. If that fails get your parents to support you. And if that too fails tell them you really cannot live without her. And when all else fails.......... you might just have to let go.
I hope you get your heart's desire fulfilled.Uparwaale se tumhaare liye zaroor dua mangoongi.
2006-10-13 04:16:28 · answer #5 · answered by MintyMint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your gf that her parents are willing to commit suicide she marries you, and tell the father and mother that you cannot live without her and that she is the only one you want in your life. If they still say no, I'm afraid YOU'LL have to commit suicide! LOL JUST JOKING. Just walk out very sadly and slowly, but deliberately say: I was hoping we could get along well, but we're just too different to her parents. They will probably feel sorry for you and, out of pity, say yes!
2006-10-13 04:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They won't commit suicide but they really are against the relationship. Try to personally talk to them. Tell them that u really love each other and you respect their decision against this relationship but you would like to get a chance to prove to them that you cud be a gud husband and son in law. Watever differences exist u are sure u can overcome that but for that u need a chance from them. Tell them that you won't do anything against their wishes.
2006-10-13 04:20:21 · answer #7 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a terrible fix to be in! I wonder if her parents would really do this or if they are just trying to scare her! It would be nice if they could remember when they were in so in love with each other! Hope that some way you will be happy together!
2006-10-13 04:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i recon they dont under stand how you feel about each other.
If you think that it is a good idea to get married then do it i am sure they will under stand sooner or later
And if they really love her they will except you xoxo
2006-10-13 06:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by Kiss_Kris_xo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think how difficult relationship hard,so involve religion it will be very hard, i have been in the situation that i did go out my parents was against it, i didn't get married i do not regret for a second,we still friends today,he is happily married,
2006-10-13 04:12:48 · answer #10 · answered by kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better you leave her da,if you leave her you an get someother gal friend but if u marry her you cannot get her parents back so think
2006-10-13 04:30:43 · answer #11 · answered by ice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋