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2006-10-12 16:36:59 · 77 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Simple answer... YES!
2006-10-12 16:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
I got married at 19. Both myself and my ex-husband were far too young....even at that age. There is a lot that you are just about to learn about yourself when you reach your early 20's. Even after this time has passed, what you want now and what you might want later is subject to change.
Why not just date for a while a longer? If you are meant to be together anyways, then waiting won't hurt. It will give you two more time to have fun doing stuff independently of one another while still being able to appreciate the relationship you have. Trust me, if you are in LOVE.....then there is no need to rush to marriage this soon.
On the real, at least wait until your 21 so you can drink on the honeymoon. ;-p All jokes aside, take your time and just enjoy being 15 years old without all the responsibilities that come with being someones spouse. Enjoy boyfriend and girlfriend.....
2006-10-12 16:46:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that 15 is too young for you to get married. However that doesn't mean that the love you feel for your boy/girl friend isn't real, it just means that you don't need to get married to prove it. Have you considered exchanging "promise rings"? This would signify that you love each other and in the future, when the both of you are older (preferably over 20) and are ready to take on the VERY LARGE responsibility of being married that you will. I believe waiting would be the mature thing to do.
2006-10-12 16:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by Princess Veronica's Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15?? You should hardly even be dating yet...Do you have any idea how many changes you will go thru in the next few years?? You are still a child!! I don't want to sound condescending, but you don't even know yourself well enough yet...you need to learn about yourself as an individual before you start a life with another person...forever (I know there is always divorce if it doesn't work out but that should not be a consideration going into a marriage). Sorry I'm ranting, I'm not trying to lecture but 15 is still so young (regardless of what you may think at the moment).
2006-10-12 16:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by just me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My person opinion of this matter is:15 is too young to marry. You haven't even had a chance to experience your teen years yet! Get out and have some fun! But honestly, on this matter, you must follow your heart. If you love the person that you're thinking about marrying, and if you are certain that your spouse-to-be loves you, then go for it. Just don't do something you might later regret. And whatever you do, don't quit high school! You need a high school diploma. If nothing else, try to graduate early. Just remember to follow heart in whatever you do. Also, don't forget personaly safety.
2006-10-12 16:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by Destine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, really it is.
I know you have probably heard this a thousand times before, but when you get older sometimes it's easier to see.
I grant you that I know some people who married very young and stayed married their whole life, but that is the exception to the rule these days. Marrying too young, with too much inexperience in life can thrust you into a world you are wholelly unprepared for.
Stay in school, get your diploma, go to college and assure yourself of your ability to take care of yourself rather than being dependant on someone else, then if things don't work out when you do get married you have the credentials to build a good career and take care of yourself and your kids.
God Bless
2006-10-12 16:41:24 · answer #6 · answered by raven_21633 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, dont neccesarly listen to those people. They may not understand the situation. I got married young, he was 17 and I 18. We are still married and have been almost 7 yrs. We are very happy, and no we dont have kids!
Anyway, why do you want to get married? If your in love thats really your choice. If your pregnant, I wouldnt do it so soon. Have you talked to your parents? Whats the law in your state? You need to check into that!
I wish you the best of luck!
Remember, dont let people tell you whats right and whats wrong, back in the older days people were married by 15!
2006-10-12 16:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by lil_carebear2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitly! I was engaged at 15 to a guy who I ended being with for 3 years. We ended changing so much as we grew up that we were so unhappy together. I am so lucky we didn't end up married or with children that young because it would have been a huge mistake. It may seem perfect right now but if you still feel the same at 20 or older than go for it. But you really have so much growing up to do. Don't limit yourself to one person at your age. You may think mariage shows maturity but I promise you the more mature thing is waiting rather than rushing in. Be smart and use your head. good luck!
2006-10-12 16:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be kidding! Why on earth would you want to get married no less that serious with someone at 15? If you think that you're in love now, wait 5 years and see if you feel the same. And DO NOT get pregnant...
Finish school, go to college or trade school and learn about yourself and the world! You'll be a much better person if you do.
2006-10-12 16:43:37 · answer #9 · answered by njsueb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I may be too old to answer this, but I feel compelled to say be careful, I was 15 once and I married a man whom I had only known 3 months. It was the one of the biggest mistakes of my life. He was abusive, on drugs, and very dangerous. (I had to leave state because he threatened to kill me if I left him) I did not find any of this out until it was too late. I was lucky to get away in one piece, and I know your situation may be different, but please think it through. You have the rest of your life to get married. Also about a year after I left he was prosecuted for raping a 12 year old girl. If this guy is considerably older, I would watch out. My ex was 21 when I met him. I am 25 now, hope this helps you. Good luck and best wishes.
2006-10-12 16:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by newstudent06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yesss.. i think it is.. every year that i get older i look back on the years before and think.. dang.. i was young.. and stupid.. even if just a day ago i was that age.. for exanple.. im 17 now.. and wen i was 16 i obviously thot of myself as high and mighty and older and sofisticated and all that stuff.. i look back and lafff... i knew nothign and know nothing.. ud be surprised how much more there is to kno.. so yes 15 is toooo young... a person doesnt know enuf to have a family.. a normal... strong family... and skool??? work??? o wow no we still need ot have fun until we get married b/c wen u do.. nio matter how chill it may be.. u wont have the some life
2006-10-12 16:43:04 · answer #11 · answered by ballroom babi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋