Singles & Dating - 19 November 2007

If not, then why did mankind choose to switch to monogamy (mostly)

2007-11-19 20:19:18 · 4 answers · asked by Gulab 6

I went out with my friends this saturday and she went out with hers. the next day she told me she saw her ex-boyfriend of 5 years(her first) and they began talking.

then she said he wanted to talk and it was closing time so they went to her house(she lives with her parents) and hung out on the patio. she said he leaned in and they kissed a few times for a total of under 10 seconds. only that one time. then she said he slept on her bed until 6 in the morning because she didn't want him to drive home until he sobered up a little. she said that they never did anything other than that under 10 second kiss and he just fell right asleep on her bed until she woke him to leave.

i believe her when she says that is all they did but i still don't get why she didn't turn away when he tried to kiss her. what should i do? what would you do? any help? thanks.

2007-11-19 20:15:32 · 30 answers · asked by Mike 1

Says she loves me tremendously forever. Shall I stay or or shall I go?

2007-11-19 20:06:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and i have been together for about a year..and we have had sex one time(yes i am serious). Whenever i try to iniate sex he eventually gets frustrated and says i don't understand. He constently blames everything on being a diabetic. I feel that diabetes is a condition not an illness if you have the right diet plan and keep an eye on his blood sugar. Everytime i try to suggest any kind of advice i.e. going to see a doctor more often he always says they are just going to tell me what i already know. He doesn't exercise, which i know is important if you are a diabetic. I don't want to breakup with him because l love him so much and i want to marry him some day.
We both want kids, but don't you have to practice first to have kids??It's getting to the point where i am afraid to bring it up anymore.

He even said that if i "Need to Have Sex" i can find someone to have sex with!
that is just something i refuse to do because i believe in monogomy.
Please help! serious replies

2007-11-19 20:06:14 · 12 answers · asked by shorty82 5

Ok well I'm a 19 year old girl and a virgin.I just want to get some opinions on something here!
Do you think two virgins having sex for the first time together can work?
Alot of virgins say they'd rather their partner was in the same boat as them.
I don't agree though.I think it could be very akward and even more painful for the woman.
In my opinion a virgin girl would be better off with a more experienced lover who knows what to do and can be gentle.
I think I'd like a more experienced guy for my first time.
Whats your take on this?

2007-11-19 20:00:33 · 22 answers · asked by Mossy 2

My ex girlfriend who ive been with for 2 years wont leave me alone i need help with my situation.
My friends constantly told me that she wasnt for me and showed me all the messed up things she did/ ways she treated me, but i saw a different side of her. when i finally decided to leave her for good. She realized it was serious so she tried tempting me with everything she did before to get me to get back with her. when that didnt work she would start drama with my current girlfriend, who i really care about and who wants nothing with her. ive yelled at my ex, ignored her, ect. but nothing has worked. i am afraid if i do something serious like restraining order(with her past) that she might atempt suicide. and she has talked about it. if this happened i could not handle the stress. please put in mind i am a junior in high school. Please any suggestions.

2007-11-19 19:55:19 · 8 answers · asked by Ashton 2

Last year when I used to work, I worked very long hours in a retail store. School took a lot of my time too with classes and homework.

Basically, when I wasn't in school, I was working. When I wasn't working, I was in school. The small times in between, I was doing homework, studying, and sleeping.

School is really hard for me, and working is not something I enjoy either.

Yet people I know - who go to the same college as I and worked at the same job, sometimes with twice as many hours, manage to go out drinking and have a social life.

How do people do this? I tried, and all it did was make me start slacking on homework, etcetera.

When I got home from work, and assuming I was all caught up with school, the *last* thing I felt like doing was leaving the house *again* to go party. I just wanted to veg and watch TV, play computer games, or sleep.

As a result, I didn't get out much.

Like, I'd really like some insight?

2007-11-19 19:50:44 · 10 answers · asked by tryandfindus 5

so me and my ex bf broke up. when our break up was still fresh we were still flirting and stuff cuz i guess we just miss each other? i dont know

but anyways, that faded and we didnt talk for like 4 months. the last thing i heard from him is that he likes somebody already. i heard him say that on speaker when he was talking to my cousin. and so after i heard him say that i totally avoided him, deleting his number his email pictures and stuff.

so yeah, we didnt talk for like 4 months. and just today he IMed me. saying whats up and asking if i found somebody new and stuff like that. and of course i asked him back. he said NO. that after me he didnt like anybody else. and i said "i thought u moved on" and he said "i never really did" and then he said he needed to leave for work so we said our goodbyes. after a few hrs he texted me saying whats up.

then later this night, he sees me OL and IM's me but i pretended not to be there

like wtf. i dnt understand. y all of a sudden he does this

2007-11-19 19:48:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

For both husbands and wives ..

How would you feel to catch your husband in action with another women in your bed? (for wives) What would you do?

How would you feel to catch your wife in action with another man in your bed? (for husbands) What would you do?

PS- Its ok if you answer only your part.

2007-11-19 19:39:45 · 5 answers · asked by ryan.rookwood 1

Hi!
I am smart, bright, confident, and quite good-looking. I get asked out but I usually turn everyone down because I have higher standards, and because I am waiting for the fate / destiny thing to kick-in. In the meanwhile, I spend most of my time on myself...What do you think...am I being narcissitic?

2007-11-19 19:30:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am many times think who is more sex having man or woman many times man i think women did not have more sex she wants clothes and money man is interested in sex and love woman is attachment after children. Women did not have more feeling similar to man which type of creation is god made. in this world. I several times thinking.

2007-11-19 19:27:30 · 10 answers · asked by MANJUNATH S 2

But we have nothing in comment and no way to see each other. She's a friend of a friend of mine. My friend is opening the pub the end od this month and I'm pretty sure she's gonna be there. Coz, they work at the same place. I still have good feeling for her but she's kinda avoiding me for some reason. What to do when I see her? I'm sure I'ma go talk to her. It's kinda exciting.

2007-11-19 19:24:04 · 5 answers · asked by Rungkit V 2

is it hard to look in someones eyes and lie to them?>?

2007-11-19 19:15:04 · 12 answers · asked by Tim M 1

I am a nice guy. I always have and always will. I come from a single parent household where my mother taught me too respect women, and treat them with the upmost respect. I want to know why women go for the ghetto thug asshole over the nice guy. I mean do you think that the cocky asshole will change? Or that you will be able to change him? Is it an image thing? I remember going on a date with a women and I was holding the door while she enter the resturant, she told me that NO guy had ever hold the door for her???? I think that only show the level of respect that she had for herself and I have noticed that a lot of women must really have low self- esteem. Women or men could you please explain?

2007-11-19 18:56:17 · 24 answers · asked by devil boy 61 1

2007-11-19 18:46:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf & I spent 4 years together, know that we have no future together, we can't stop due to attractions each time we talk about separation, is it better to stop gradully (every week first, every 2 weeks then ...) or stop & say goodbye suddenly for ever at a point of time?

2007-11-19 18:45:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

NO this isn't something perverted. I teach history at a high school and this is only my 2nd year teaching. I teach it for grades 11 and 12, in Missouri (I wont say school or town for privacy reasons) . I also have had a recording studio in my basement that I have been using for about 6 years. I use it with my band, and also use it with other local bands who want to make an EP for some extra money. ( I master all the work and it's very professional) . Anyways, 4 of my students who have their own band asked me if they could pay to use my studio and if I'd master and mix their songs. Only 1 of those for students is not a minor. If I was to let them come to my house and charge them to use my studio (the same as I charge all other bands) and help them with their EP, could I get in trouble in anyway legally since they are my students? Would my job or reputataion be at stake in any way? Please let me know what you know. Thank you.

2007-11-19 18:43:10 · 9 answers · asked by Maxwell 1

...and we are both virgins who believe in saving ourselves until marrage. Well, we get married tomorrow :D.

Question: My Johnson's circumference of 6" be painful for my soon-to-be wife?

2007-11-19 18:41:40 · 7 answers · asked by ScottNukem 1

Ok, every guy I have been with has been a dud. I'll screw him whenever he wants me too, cuz I have to admit, I like it too, but then I just feel like he doesn't appreciate me after we have sex. If I was screwing you, would you appreciate me?

2007-11-19 18:33:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anna N 1

there is this kid and he is my friend and all,but durring science class we watch videos and he always comes to sit next to me.
now he started talking to me on mspace every time im on.do you think he likes me?[if you did this would you be doing it because you liked the girl***he also used an excuse of home work to get my number

2007-11-19 18:29:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have noticed that younger men get attracted to me

2007-11-19 18:25:17 · 16 answers · asked by secret 2

Any tips to figure out if a guy is running a game on you - if he says and does all the right things - is that fishy? Especially if he has nothing to lose and the chic has her life together?? What questions could I ask or what boobie trap could I set to see if he will trip up???

2007-11-19 18:24:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

First off im a girl and hes a guy.

I joined swimming this year and the coach I train with is HOT and hes pretty cool, he just graduated from college this year so Id say hes about 21 or 22 and Im 18 so hes only 2-3 years older. Oh and this is a school team although he DOES NOT teach or work at my school.

Now would it be wrong to flirt with him? Or kinda hint at the fact I have a crush on him?

And would it be illegal if anything were to happen even though I am 18?

2007-11-19 18:15:54 · 8 answers · asked by RebelPrincess 6

known her for two weeks we have kissed, she writes me notes on how she likes me but,all of a sudden she tells me i think were going to fast and she wants to take it slow...so i wanna know what is happening does she still like me or does he want to see other ppl what should i do???

2007-11-19 18:13:56 · 3 answers · asked by Dios 1

I feel extremely embarassed bc I have never did it , but how do you do it? I want to with my bf but am afraid that he will hate it because im so unexperienced. Is this a turnoff? I need tips on how to do it. thanks.

2007-11-19 18:13:54 · 9 answers · asked by Tiffany H 1

this guy that we really like each other and have been tlaking a lot, wound up druinking and got frisky on the web cam, that was a week ago. he was avoidng me, so two days after i blew up about him avoidng him cussin him outin offline msgs. he still has not responded so i just sent him an apolgoy letter tellin him i love him. i must have sentr him 100 offline msgs cussin him out and pusheed the buzz button a whole bunch of times and pushed a million holloween audibles. do i seem desparate . do u think i will hear from him again?

2007-11-19 18:11:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

She told me this a few times without me asking her anything about it! Is she trying to tell me something? She is a virgin and is pretty young actually. Psycology experts....??

2007-11-19 17:58:19 · 5 answers · asked by AriS 2

How to deal?
I've had a lot of issues with relationships. I'm single...so obviously something went wrong.
All starting with the one that died in a car wreck, the next hit me around, the next didnt give a damn about me and my son(a "man's man"), the next two guys i dated cheated on me,& got me pregnant again(i'm to blame too) abused me mentally, emotionally and sexually, after that i was alone for a year. DONE! Then I met someone else, who played me for a fool and then said he couldnt be with me because my children caused "problems with his families beliefs" (lie).
I obviously am going to have trust issues, sex issues, & more. I've reciently met someone who seems promising, he enjoys my kids, respects me and what i stand for(or dont) but as soon as i started feeling happy i kind of freaked and got paranoid. I've said nothing to him about it and have taken no further action with how i feel[vulnerable&scared]Has anyone ever felt like this? Normal?
What should i do to get through this

2007-11-19 17:38:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

but how am i going to not do it with out being a tease?
because it has already been brought up

2007-11-19 17:35:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am planning on losing my virginity (i am 14) to whom i really love. it feels right. but idk if i am too young. and i really want to. because i love him. we both talked about if i got pregnant and he had an std test (i dont need one because i am a virgin). but did you regret it when you lost your virginity? and do you think i am rushing into it? i have been with him since 7th grade and i am in 9th grade right now.

2007-11-19 17:28:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous