Singles & Dating - 19 November 2007

we always lie on the couch and she usually puts her feet in my lap. we watch tv while i massage her feet which i dont mind. last night she said she realy enjoyed the foot massages every night but they would be even nicer if i would kiss her feet and even suck on her toes and she put her foot up to my face. i dint mind it but just wondered if this was a normal thing for a girl to want? should i keep doing this for her?

2007-11-19 05:04:00 · 10 answers · asked by coach 1

Here's the thing. I am talking to someone I haven't met in person. We were introuduced by someone via the telephone.

This guy and I started e-mailing each other everyday for 2 weeks. He would also call every now and then but mostly e-mail. All of a sudden, he stop responding to my e-mail. And if he did response, it would be a short "hi I am doing good, how about you" Keep in mind we were writing long e-mails for two weeks saying cute stuff to each other. All of a sudden, it stopped. Now he is slowing coming back and telling me that his internet is broken, he left his phone at his grandparents for a week etc.etc. I feel so stupid because I have written him lots of e-mail and leave messages and he hasn't reply or address any of my question/concerns. What do you think? He's only 21 years old and I am 27. Am I dealing with someone who is just too young to get this kind of thing?? You know, common curteousy kind of thing??

I haven't met him in person so maybe he has a GF?

2007-11-19 05:00:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got a handwritten letter from my ex 3 months post break up. She basically said she didnt like how things ended and I did mean a lot to her and she does care. She said I was one of the most important people in her life because I made her realize she needed to change. (No she did not cheat) I decided any girl who cared that much was worth giving a friendship a try. I can tell a difference in her. Its been 8 months since the break up and our friendship is very strong. Whats different from her then my first ex is my first ex cheated then slept with everyone after our break up yet wanted me without changing. Im developing feelings again for my ex who changed should I give it more time still?

2007-11-19 04:57:08 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

It really sounds like my bf has the symptoms of ptsd. He was abused by his dad, almost got raped by him, then his dad was arrested, him and his mom lived on the streets for a year, his cat caught on fire and watched it burn, he seen his best friend get killed by a buss right infront of him, all his gf's verbally abused him accept me, etc.....he tells me he feels emotionally muted, cant show his feelings, even though he makes it feel like he really shows his love for me. Yet, he recently told me he wasnt sure if i wanted to be with him when i took him back(together 8 months, he dumped me, saying he was confused, didnt know what he wanted being too busy with his music)i told him i really do want to be with him and when he told me this : just keep in mind that my music comes before everything'' how can he say that? he also says he feels worthless all the time and never ever let go of his past. Im the only gf whos treated him good, and its complicated to know how hes feeling... plz help

2007-11-19 04:54:16 · 10 answers · asked by Canadian19 2

2007-11-19 04:52:53 · 13 answers · asked by Soda 4

Generally I hate boyfriends and relationships because they're too restricting on my free spirit. I hate limiting myself. But I'm noticing more and more how guys seem drawn to want to hook up with the "girls with boyfriends." It almost makes the girl look more "wanted" i.e. attractive, or perhaps less likely to blab about her fling w/ him in case he has a girlfriend himself.

I'm thinking of finding a "cover boyfriend"...it'd work the same way as a "cover business" that drug dealers operate simply to cover up the huge cash flow generated from illegal sales. I'd pass him off as a boyfriend, but be cheating on him haha. I'd have someone to show my family, since I'm 25 and hitting the "you-should-be-married" age. I'd draw in the guys that always go for the girls w/ boyfriends. I'd have someone to use in case I'm too lazy to go out. Haha isn't this a great idea?

I'd look for the cheating scumbag type to be my cover bf. That way, I won't feel bad cheating on him b/c I'd know he...

2007-11-19 04:52:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

im with a guy who cheated for 2 weeks with this other girl that he doesnt love as much as me. he really wants to marry me and loves me a lot, thats why i think it could work. so i took him back and gave him another chance because i think his feelings are genuine. however, i heard from one person that he asked a lot of other girls to marry him and that he cheats all the time. i like him alot, and i think we really have something going on between us. thats why this scares me. i feel that im just another girl he fell for and asked to marry and claimed to love.. however, he is dead serious about getting married, he says im really the right one for him, his soulmate, etc., he dumped his girlfriend on the phone 3 way to be with me, and claims that i can trust him from now on. i dont know what to think. b/c of the rumors i remain skeptical of his sincerity but on the other hand, i get the genuine sense he changed for me... what do u think? could it work? can cheaters change their ways?

2007-11-19 04:46:25 · 11 answers · asked by Vern 2

2007-11-19 04:46:11 · 18 answers · asked by DaisysMumma13 5

Heres the deal, ive been attracted to a friend of mine for a little while now but she has a boyfriend and despite him not being the best guy in the world, it seems unlikely for anything to end there. She doesn't know about my attraction for her and recently i've also become somewhat interested in her younger sister, who is one year younger than us and i get on really well with.
Ive recently broken up with a girl i've been with for a fair while and dont know whether i should ask my friends sister out or not, if i do i think i would probably make sure my friends ok with it first but im a bit perplexed on this one.
Any ideas would be appreciated.

2007-11-19 04:44:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

and is it only fair to return the favor?

2007-11-19 04:41:41 · 19 answers · asked by justinfaucher 2

Are there any inhibitions or boundaries U won't cross in order to find love? What are they? And have you crossed them before, but will not do it again?

2007-11-19 04:40:16 · 7 answers · asked by Andy K 6

done something intentionally to make your bf jealous?I asked because a while back this girl asked me out in front of her bf

2007-11-19 04:40:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i was watching a commercail the other day and it was about a guy talking to his friends niece and like planning on going on a date with her and then the friend tells the other friend that it would be wierd for him to go out with his niece and the friend responded SHES LIKE YOUR COUSIN TWICE REMOVED ive always heard that saying but i never could get it what the heck does it mean????

2007-11-19 04:39:23 · 4 answers · asked by cynthia o 2

I moved on with a new boyfriend,and he moved on.On the weekend he talk to me on the phone,and mentioned that this woman that he cheated on me with has a baby by him which I had a feeling,but he just now telling me about it.He said that he wants my kids to be in the baby's life.My children who's 7 & 9(boy & girl)doesn't know about the baby,and I don't want to tell them,cause they'll ask questions,and might be confused.What should I do?

2007-11-19 04:38:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your man (or lesbo partner) said that they liked your big rear end. Would you be mad because they think you have a hippopotamus butt or be happy that they look past that and love you despite what idiots on tv think about what are "proper" looks?

2007-11-19 04:37:56 · 4 answers · asked by SUMMERWE 3

Recently, I decided that I am repaying everyone in my life for everything that they have done for me, but the one person that I can't think of what to do for is my boyfriend. We have only been together for 3 weeks but he has done so much for me before we started going out. What would be something nice to do for him? Thanks a bunch!

2007-11-19 04:35:36 · 1 answers · asked by <3 3

2007-11-19 04:31:38 · 7 answers · asked by Sinead 1

or, how do you teach him the way you like to be kissed?

2007-11-19 04:31:08 · 3 answers · asked by Bambi 1

I have never been very good at this activity, but someone suggested writing the alphabet with my tongue. I guess some comedian said it in the 80s but I wondered if it worked?

2007-11-19 04:30:10 · 2 answers · asked by butnozzle 2

I'm not a very insecure person so I'm a bit of a realist on the topic but why is it that when a gf/wife catches us looking at woman who's better looking than her we are dogs and the girl is 'probably a *****', but when the situation is reversed and a guy says 'at least be descrite about it' , suddendly we get a feminist speach about being controling and supressing a womans sexuality or "excuse me.. first off.. I look at what the f*ck I want to look at, do you see me f*cking him?"

I think it's wrong on both sides to do it blatanely in front of your partner but I'm getting the impression guys aren't allowed to complain or correct anything a woman does without being of accused of being controling

2007-11-19 04:29:34 · 3 answers · asked by Undead 3

but they had herpes.......would you repopulate the world?

2007-11-19 04:27:25 · 36 answers · asked by justinfaucher 2

2007-11-19 04:23:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

was dating this girl for a few months. everything was going good and seemed like we both wanted to continue getting to know each other. became intimate a bit early in our dating. then an accident happened. the condom slipped. we immediately got plan b. after she seemed fine with what had happened. she even was affectionate and wanted to be intimate again later that day. she seemed fine, then became distant after a few days. i asked her about it. she said shes trying to figure things out. that what happened brought back feelings and emotions from the past. that instead of a long drawn out talk she thinks its best if we just don't say anymore. i tried to talk about this again a few days later. she said she didnt want to talk. she said basically she got her friend and was moving on. what the happened here? she had an abortion from a previous bad relationship. could this have been the emotional issues from the past?why would she not want my support or never want to talk to me again?

2007-11-19 04:21:22 · 3 answers · asked by curious question 2

I'm 20 and I don't want to be in a relationship. I'm focusing on school right now...and then after I graduate I'll be focusing on my career. Causal sex is still fine, though :D

Maybe when I'm like 34 or so I might commit, but definitely not anytime soon. All the girls I know want commitment. Maybe it's because I'm a guy, or is it just a double standard that it's okay for guys to not want commitment?

2007-11-19 04:16:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I used to be able to talk to both boys and girls about a year ago without feeling uncomfortable and alot of my friends were boys then but I hung out with a few girls.
About half a year ago I met my exgirlfriend's bestfriend and then I met my exgirlfriend and we're bestfriends and I gradually stopped hanging about with boys and lately alot of my exgirlfriend's exboyfriends have been around and I found it really uncomfortable and I've talked to these guys before when they were going out with my ex and I didn't feel this uncomfortable and I was also being very moody around other guys today and felt the exact same and one of my ex's exs made me abit angry and I slammed him against the wall without thinking about it and then my ex's boyfriend made me angry and I slammed him against the wall and I just felt really uncomfortable today around any guy and I was very moody around them, when I was just with the girls I was ok but I just felt like killing any guy I saw.(Oddly my exgirlfriend...

2007-11-19 04:08:01 · 6 answers · asked by Lily R 6

We came close. He withdrew when I got more involved. I fell in love. He has some feelings but not enough. He says he just wants to be good friends. he calls everyday. We meet each other (we are long-distance though) as often as we can. I have decided, that although it will be painful, I will be "just his friend". We have ended up coming physically close (no, no s** yet) so we eventually end up coming close when we do meet. But in our next meeting, if I don't give him ANY indication that I want to come close, and just play it 100% platonic (afterall, he just wants to be friends), will I be doing the right thing? I do want to win his heart eventually though. But by stopping myself and being 100% platonic in words as well as actions, will I be doing the right thing and will he actually admire me more for that?

2007-11-19 04:04:51 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6

I want to let my date know that I'm attracted to her. I was thinking over dinner would be a perfect time. Advice?

2007-11-19 03:56:53 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok she dumped me 5 months ago and the other day she said she wanted to figure out if she wanted to be with her current b/f or me so she called me and we were talking and she said that she wanted to start her life ( she's 18 and im 19) so i asked what she meant by this and she said she wanted to be engaged b4 her b-day ( this June) and married when she's done school ( she has 3 years to go) so I agreed that I could do those things for her then we got of the phone and I thought about it for a bit and realized that I would also like to do those things but not on a schedule like her...so I called her back and said that I couldn’t give her what she wanted and she also seemed to be pushing me away by bringing stupid stuff I did from the last relationship. like oh u weren't with me all the time at my house u chilled a lot with my bro ( witch I now know is a mistake) so then I tried talking 2 her yesterday, cuz I’m still great friends of the family and well( my friend was with me, who is a chick- and she said to me (the ex) oh i thought u were just friends acting all jealous, I thought and I asked her if ur with ur b/f y does it bother u so much and she said cuz she's ugly and has shaggy hair and some other negative things about her ( and she's not ugly she’s cute) and I asked her well by what is seemed the other day u were just pushing me away and it felt like u didn’t even want to be with me u wanted him...and she said that she wanted me and that I made it pretty clear that I wanted nothing to do with her but I told her that wasn’t it that I wanted to be with her but I didn’t like the fact that she wanted everything planned out and scheduled...cuz I feel like if I propose to her that I should do it on my terms and that it should be a surprise, and now she's saying that its not that big a deal if she got engaged b4 her b-day and stuff and well she was kind of ignoring me so I said glad to c u matured up and left her room...when she was leaving she was acting all nice, sayin bye smiling and well saying bye like 3 times….should I tell her this? Thanks

2007-11-19 03:52:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 03:50:02 · 48 answers · asked by porsche d 1

This girl works in the gym I go to everyday, so I don't want to make a complete as*hole out of her or me, after all I'll have to face her nearly every day. Im quiet comfortable and confident around women in general, but you know how cramped gyms can be. The trouble is I can never seem to catch her on her own. I reckon she is reasonably interested but cannot come up with a clever enough tact to discreetly talk to her about it.

Any ideas what I could do or opinions on how I could approach her without giving the game away to her collegues?

Thanks

2007-11-19 03:49:54 · 4 answers · asked by Point 3