Singles & Dating - 19 November 2007

me and my bf have been dating for 6 months. in the beginning he was calling me everyday, even 2ce sometimes. Now its been less, some days it'll be 1-2 days btwn calls.

i asked if he was losing interest in me & he said no, he wants to be with me. his reasoning is that he doesnt feel the need to be calling me all the time anymore, that in the beginning he was getting to know me and had more free time cuz it was the summer and such. now hes back in school and super stressed cuz his program is really intense and so hes pretty much overwhelmed. i told him that when he doesnt call i dont feel like he cares or is thinking about me. he told me i shouldnt base his affection on a phone call and that hes always thinking of me, hes just not the type to flaunt it...hes told me before hes not a phone person. if he needs me or has something to say, he'll call. but he told me that if i feel like talking to him, i can call him whenever i want

is this okay? or am i being needy?

2007-11-19 11:33:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been dating for a while now but I want to go farther with him...
Is the age difference too much?

2007-11-19 11:33:25 · 33 answers · asked by Carol A 2

He broke up with me nearly 2 months ago. I made myself look like a moron and begged for 3 weeks then gave up. Yesterday Im at work I see a missed call, of course the ex which I didnt call the number back. He goes to my best friend and asks about me when he said we needed to move on. I cant deal with his crap anymore. I want him to stay away from my friends if hes going to ask about me and move on like I am trying.

2007-11-19 11:30:39 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 11:30:25 · 14 answers · asked by GiRLS like BOYS 2

Personally, I know the answer to this question. I have a very strong opinion on these things. However, my niece thinks that I'm old fashioned as hell. Help me to form an answer in a context a 21 year old girl can appreciate.

She met a nice guy. I think they talked on the phone a couple of times. He called and missed her at home a couple of times but was persistent finally got her. They went to dinner. According to her, they hit it off really well. He seemed into her, she was into him. They talked candidly about everything.

On the way home, for some reason that I cannot phathom, this girl ends up giving him a hand job. LOL. I'm cracking up just thinking about it. I think it's so ridiculous! They go to her apartment and watch a movie. She ends up giving him oral sex. They didn't have sex.

By the end of the night he hugs & kisses her. He tells her he wants to see her again. Said he wasn't gonna let her go. She's a beautiful girl and has alot to offer. But he never calls. Why?

2007-11-19 11:25:42 · 3 answers · asked by HRH PrincessFreestarr 3

2007-11-19 11:22:15 · 23 answers · asked by ShakeDatLaffyTaffy 2

How often do you think about sex?
And Have you ever wondered or wished you could do a one night stand without being judged?

I ask because the majority of people would say men are dogs, but I'm sure ladies think the same way, we just dont openly show it like guys do because of reputations out there. So lets be honest!

2007-11-19 11:16:43 · 32 answers · asked by Déjà Vu 5

theres this girl who went out with this kid that cheated on her and 3 times

2007-11-19 11:12:44 · 22 answers · asked by keyla_vega 1

What do you guys think about seduction experts like Mystery of VH1's Pickup Artist and Tommy Orlando, the guy who wrote Player's Handbook?

Are these guys for real or just playing a cruel joke on lonely men?

2007-11-19 11:11:53 · 2 answers · asked by David 3

I think I have a really creative and good way to turn a guy on but I'm curious to if any of you have a more creative way than mine.

2007-11-19 11:03:19 · 1 answers · asked by Liz 2

its going to be long distance for about 6mths

2007-11-19 11:03:16 · 1 answers · asked by spdy 5

I'm Kinda of Mad At My BOYFRIEND. How long should I wait to call him?
He was been pulling back lately. there is another woman involved(his wife). I'm trying to get him away from her. I'm going to let her mess up other than pressuring him. I need to some advice on being the perfect mistress for now. I mess up before by demanding too much time. I got it but the kids started school. I just need to know what makes the perfect mistress?

2007-11-19 11:02:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love to have ******* with my best friends mom and he likes to have with my mom.
what should we do?
my mom is hot and more ****** than his

2007-11-19 11:02:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I was at a party with a couple of guys and I was in the bathroom and the guys opened the door and saw me and all of them left and said they were sorry, but I am still really scared if they tell everyone at school, what should I say to them?

2007-11-19 11:01:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey, I was wondering what guys like to hear from their girlfriends. Like do they like compliments about looks, accomplishments, personality? Thanks so much.

2007-11-19 11:01:34 · 1 answers · asked by C J 1

Is this being a whore?
Ok i flirt alot..But when i have a boyfriend i don`t flirt at all..Well theres this girl and her boyfriend that calls me a whore just because i`m nice and flirt with em
Is that being a whore?
I know what a whore meansbut what is your defention of a whore?

2007-11-19 10:33:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay. So Me and a friend have been talking on the net for almost 3 years. we've never met and he tells me he is comign down next month and he wants to see me. Problem is, i told a white lie at the beginning of our friendship that I was 5'11 and slender model, and never set the record stra8 over the years. Everything else we talked about I have been truthful on, like relationships family, preceptions etc... However the truth is I'm 5'7 and have curves (not fat tho). I feel as tho i need to set the record str8 with him ahead of time b4 he gets here but not sure how he will take my white lie:(. Advice? Would yall forgive me? P.S. He has seen real pics of me however, just never full body shots.. Adult answers please. ( 21 and up)

2007-11-19 10:13:23 · 19 answers · asked by Malc T 1

i might pass my bosses office and people at work, and there like "Hi, how are you? So what have you been up to" i dont go out, im something of a book worm, who likes watching political news and doing weird little projects around the home cause i dont have many friends and dont go out. so i have nothing to say. i turn red, and half leaning out the door...my body trying to leave, im like
"ohh, the usual"
"as in?"
"ohh around the house stuff. ya know."
and all along im wondering when theyll stop asking so i can slip away to what i was doing. my question is: whats the best thing to say in this situation- or how do i talk about the boring things i do and not feel that im making them think im a weirdo?? or if the answer is that i need to direct the conversation to 'all about them' then how do i talk to people cause im not very good with smalltalk and asking questions that make up a conversation (or answering questions).

2007-11-19 10:12:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 10:11:32 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

(KEEP IN MIND THIS IS A QUESTION, I'M NOT TRYING TO JUDGE ANYONE). I was watching the Tyra show today and she did a study on different raced women. Do men really not like black women? Only one guy(a black man) choose the black woman to take home, and none choose her as a fantasy women? I personally think black women are beautiful, smart, and sexual all in one. And being a black woman that's attracted to white men that really was hurtful. And why do guys make such a big deal over women like Beyonce or Tyra, if they are girls you would never be want to be with (nor would they want you) anyway?

2007-11-19 10:11:21 · 31 answers · asked by kalin 1

2007-11-19 10:08:41 · 15 answers · asked by SHOCKWAVE 3

Sometimes I say "Sh" to someone near me, not someone I like, but just someone who's being loud. I am very smart, not bragging, just saying. I am very tomboyish, does this turn off guys? And what about looks? I'm not ugly but not super gorgeous either. I'm not overweight, not really thin though.
Does this turn off guys?
Any of this?
I can be very quiet too.

2007-11-19 10:05:22 · 9 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 2

2007-11-19 09:53:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

once i know someone for a little while im fine, but like i changed my classes around a little and in my new math class theres this really cute boy and how do i go about starting a conversation????

2007-11-19 09:48:22 · 31 answers · asked by Lisa 2

For backstory, there is this girl I like a lot, and I think she liked me too, but I think I waited too long, and she acts like she doesn't even want to be friends now. I am wondering if it would be a waste to tell her exactly how I feel, which is this:
Look, I'm not sure if you felt the same way about me I feel about you, but if you did, I know I waited too long and there is likely nothing I can do or say to possibly make up for that. I'm not asking for anything more here than to explain why. Through high school, the majority of my interactions with women, and people in general have been failures, and in fact, I do not seem to be anything more than a school friend to anyone here. I have gone through rejection time and time again, and when I saw signs from you, instead of going for it, the constant thought of rejection continued, and I couldn't bring myself to tell you how I feel. (continued in details)

2007-11-19 09:44:33 · 3 answers · asked by JL 1

i'm 14 years old. my boyfriend and i have been together for about three months now. i haven't told him i loved him yet, and i don't plan on it for quite a while now. Am i afriad of commitment or being mature on this onee?

2007-11-19 09:37:45 · 8 answers · asked by Notyret 2

stuff like sex, boys, drugs, peer pressure, all the stuff that everyone should know sooner or later,but don't want to ask.

2007-11-19 09:34:30 · 2 answers · asked by me m 2

There is this guy who is my age, 16 and we have been hanging out a lot lately. We went out for ice cream friday night and then on Saturday we hung out at my house for 5 hours. The next day, I went out to breakfast with his family and then me and him watched a movie on tv in my basement. We held hands and made out for a while but he never officially asked me out..so idk if he just assumes we are going out or what. I don't want to ask him because that would be immature and could be embarrassing for both of us. Help!

2007-11-19 09:32:18 · 17 answers · asked by charley 3

So, the first guy I've liked since my ex/son's father has decided that we should just be friends. Except we were never officially dating because neither of us wanted a relationship. I fell incredibly hard for him, and I know he didnt quite like me as much. I've never even been dumped before, so I'm not sure how to handle this.

The signs are obvious, so please nobody else tell me It's a shame not to fight for love. . .

My question is, how do I bow out gracefully when all I want to do is talk to him? He was very much a part of my daily life, and it all of a sudden just stopped. It's really hard. I know that "just be friends" doesnt ever work, and i've got self-respect so I dont plan on being that dumb girl who hangs around a guy who clearly doesnt dig her . . . but I need something to help me get over this.

2007-11-19 09:32:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

guys, do you even like this?
how do you do this effectivley without him thinking you're not interested?

2007-11-19 09:30:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous