Singles & Dating - 19 November 2007

Is it getting harder and harder to find a good guy with a job and his stuff together?

2007-11-19 06:37:47 · 8 answers · asked by Jen Yo 5

I just started working at a new job, great right! Well their is this lady that has really latched on to me, she an older lady (late 50's) it started out she'd come sit with me during lunch and we'd talk, then she started giving me advise then she started saying that she's my mentor, I've noticed that no one talks to her, the reason is she's crazy- she always snapping out on people ( I witness it twice) and she gossip a lot, she has not did anything to me but I think it would be best to disassociate myself from her, how would you go about doing it or would you?

2007-11-19 06:37:10 · 3 answers · asked by Kiki from K-town 4

2007-11-19 06:33:48 · 20 answers · asked by salearts 1

There's this guy that I've been dating for quite some time now. I wanted to see him before Thanksgiving Day. He told me because it's a short week, can we do something the following week. I told him that I was sick of seeing him on his terms and that he's not worthy of my time. Now, I never heard back. ANy advice? Thanks.

2007-11-19 06:32:39 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

i don't think so....what can you do when they are playing you???
winning isn't everything......winning fair is ...u people agree???
I don't need to cry???I never do............

2007-11-19 06:24:45 · 44 answers · asked by trytostopme 1

2007-11-19 06:23:57 · 10 answers · asked by Blond&Tall 4

So I'm having trouble with the big O. This guy I'm seeing is really rough in bed, and I don't really like that. I can't ever have the big O with him and he gets mad. I have told him several times to be genital, but he has done nothing to change. Like he's not even listening. How else can I tell him, or should I just break it off now?
Regards,

2007-11-19 06:21:43 · 21 answers · asked by Tee G 1

I just started dating an ex of mine, he is an ex because he cheated on me. Anyway, we go out on the weekends and I see guys that I know and I will leave him sitting there and go talk to my guy friends. I just do it to make him jealous and it works. It makes him really really mad and this past weekend when we went to a bar where we live close to I saw a guy friend and went and talked him for like 45 mins. and my guy went up to the bar, even though he was the one who was suppose to drive home and started takin a bunch of shots and got a little tipsy. He was very upset. Do you think it is ok to do this to him. I mean, I really do love him and want to be with him more than anything but should I really be doing this on purpose?? Why is he getting mad after what he did to me??

2007-11-19 06:19:35 · 17 answers · asked by Floridagirl 3

yes we all know what we're talking about....Getting Nooky!

2007-11-19 06:10:59 · 41 answers · asked by justinfaucher 2

I'm sooo confused. Theres a guy i like and i sent him an e-mail with the line ' hello, is it me your looking for?' sad i know but he sent back a reply saying ' funny enough it is! ' what do you think this means?

2007-11-19 06:09:22 · 4 answers · asked by Jazzylas 2

2007-11-19 06:08:15 · 22 answers · asked by GERADINE K 1

I was in a "relationship" with this guy for about 3 yrs. When I asked him where it was going, he said he doesnt know what he wants, but in the end told me he doesn't want a relationship right now. Basically, he was going to do what he wanted to do...which was date/sleep with other girls. Of course, being naive as I was, I didnt let go because I thought if I stayed around long enough, he would change his mind. We used to have fun, and I know he cared about me. But every once in a while I would get upset when he didnt return my calls or ignore my text messages. Then one day, I just had enough. I told him he was being very selfish, and taking advantage of me...because he knew I wasn't seeing anyone else, and I would always be there for him. I thought I made it clear to him to never call me again, but a month later he called (I didnt pick up), his birthday came and went (I never called to wish him), and just last weekend he called me at 1am. Why is he still trying to contact me?

2007-11-19 06:06:11 · 8 answers · asked by Lola 1

i'm not thinking about it !! but i'm now 13 and i'm starting to feel the pressure ...:Slool a few of my friends have had sex one was 13 and lost it in a bush with a twig somewhere...i personaly don't want to loose it that way but she doesn't regret it so thats her choice ... i don't see the big deal in waiting to have sex...though thats proberly bkoz i've never had sex... my other friend had sex when she was 14 i don't know if she regrets it but i know thats shes happy and now indulges in this activity frequently ... also another friend of mine was pressured into having sex in my opinion and she was drunk she wasn't very young but she wasn't old enough in my opinion ... my mum lost it when she was 16 and she said thats she was glad she waited...i don't want marrage or kids at least at this time in my life i'm sure of it !! children ruin your life thats what i've seen i'm not gonna wait till i'm married, thats not happening but i don't want it yet but i don't see the big deal with SEX?

2007-11-19 06:03:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

well you see i like this guy he says he likes me we plan on kissing but i told one person and she told a whole bunch of people and now people are saying he is blind and that they think i am lying.Advise please.

2007-11-19 06:01:47 · 3 answers · asked by Senica 2

2007-11-19 06:01:28 · 67 answers · asked by bettyboo 4

2007-11-19 06:01:18 · 6 answers · asked by naosha H 1

2007-11-19 06:00:38 · 7 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

My boyfriend recently broke up with me after a bitter confrontation. He called me names, spit in my face and wished me dead. He then said he was sorry and wanted me back. I am not sure I can trust him to change his ways. I have since met someone else and he is everything I could ever hope for in a man. He treats me with respect and is a true gentleman. Problem is I still have feelings for my ex-boyfriend but again I do not see him changing his violent temper and addiction to internet porn. I feel terrible because I do not want to hurt either of them.

2007-11-19 05:58:44 · 16 answers · asked by jrseydi 1

I think they look amazing! as bad i want to I'll never be that thin cause no matter how much wieght I lose i have wide hips and annoying muscles on my thighs. Im comfortable with my body as it is but if anyone has any tips on how to look like Lindsay Lohan, Victoria Beckham or Gisele Bundchen.......please pass them on.

2007-11-19 05:56:52 · 6 answers · asked by ... 4

and im not gonna wait, can someone give me some advise on what i should do

2007-11-19 05:54:01 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 05:53:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in my 30's hehehe and I get extremely shy when I like a man hehehe........I am independent and confident of my attributes but I act or say become like a little girl with a crush for three years...and I miss out on opportunities that are there for me to get to know another better................

2007-11-19 05:49:16 · 20 answers · asked by Rita 6

he cares a lot about his friends and his friends hate me! wat do i do???

2007-11-19 05:37:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay... my boyfriend and I haven't spoken in 5 days. He won't return my calls or anything. I'm extremely confused because this is all out of the blue. The last time we saw eachother, we got along great. It's not like we got into a fight or anything. He's just being really unattentive and I have no idea why. Here's the thing... I still have feelings for my first love. He wants to pursue a relationship with me again. He makes me so happy and at this point, I'm really tempted to end things with my current boyfriend so I can be happy again. Then, in the back of my mind, I think about the good times I've had with him and I can't fathom ending it... WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-11-19 05:33:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I remember when I was younger (15/16) I was always horny. I'd have to touch myself almost everyday. Now, I'm 20 & in a 1.5yr relationship and my sex drive has vanished. My boyfriend is great in bed, and on the rare occasion that i am horny, the sex is fantastic. I can seriously go a month or more without any desire.

I still have sex to satisfy my man because it's not fair to him! It feels like a chore even though he does EVERYTHING to try and pleasure me. He is so UNselfish.

I want to be horny SO badly. Not even foreplay really gets me in the mood. It makes me so frustrated!I would love to want to do it 3 times a day... i just CAN'T!

I've been on birth control since 16... but that's the only thing I can think of. What is wrong with me, and what can I do to get a CRAZY sex drive? I'd even settle for a NORMAL one :(!

2007-11-19 05:24:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex girlfriend and I have been broken up with for 4 months. She broke up with me. In the last 2-3 months she calls me like every 2-3 weeks and tells me that she misses me and things about our relationship. She has been seeing someone else and she has told me more than once that she doesnt like him that much and that they dont have the same connection that we have. About a month ago I stopped taking her calls and havent answered her texts. She saw me a week ago with another girl and she called me at work 2 days later and told me several things about how she misses me and how special I am and then she started crying and told me she wanted to see me, and that she is thinking of leaving the guy she is with, etc. She never acts on her statements so I told her that I am moving on and that I think it would be best for her not to call me EVER again. When I said that she hung up on me(immature). I think I did the right thing, but I DO love her very much. What is she doing this for?What to do?

2007-11-19 05:18:38 · 12 answers · asked by zarro 1

i just turned 14 and i'm a freshman in high school. I am 5 10. Am I so tall that I scare guys away?

2007-11-19 05:14:13 · 3 answers · asked by animal luver 5

OK, this might seem a little random or "really obvious" to you sex enthusiasts out there. But really, what is so appealing about it? Hmm? Because so many people love it, we have overpopulation. Because so many people love it, we have sexually transmitted diseases springing up everywhere (herpes, genital warts, HIV, etc.). So, what's there to love?

Not trying to be gross or rude to anybody who loves sex and lives for it, just wondering.

2007-11-19 05:07:25 · 15 answers · asked by the fire within 5

I have been with this guy for a little over a year and before him i have never had a boyfriend. Well im a virgin and he is not and he says that it bothers him that we have been together for so long and i stil wont give it up.. what should I do??

2007-11-19 05:05:54 · 17 answers · asked by ripcityangel 1

I guess I have a friend with benefits, and I'm starting to regret starting this. I'm falling for him and he just doesn't understand why I get jealous when I know he's with someone else. He says I don't have a right to be jealous because I'm with him almost every single day. That's not the point, I just can't stand the idea of him with someone else, and I don't know how else to explain it to him...Also, when I told him how I was feeling and how I didn't know if I can keep having benefits with him and he said he felt like he should just end the friendship because that's what I would end up doing anyway, when that's not true. He says he has feelings for me but couldn't care less if I hook up with someone else. What do I do? I'm in too deep and don't know how to stop.

2007-11-19 05:04:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous