and im not gonna wait, can someone give me some advise on what i should do
2007-11-19 05:54:01 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 16 and I'm to old to still be a virgin
2007-11-19 06:06:07 · update #1
and i ment but not nut
2007-11-19 06:08:48 · update #2
Well trust me if you really really want to, go into any bar in town with your assets on show (boobs/legs/bum...whatever's sexy about you!) and you can pick up some guy and take him home in 10min flat, believe me you could do that.
Do I think you should do that? NO. I
'm not going to tell you to wait forever and ever on some Mister Right that may never come, because I don't believe in that, but at least make sure the first time is with someone you know and care about and are comfortable with, like maybe a friend if you really don't want to get a boyfriend. The first time can be uncomfortable, awkward or even painful so make sure you trust the guy not to hurt you.
OH! Don't forget to use contraception. It would really screw things up if you got pregnant from a one nighter your very first time, wouldn't it?!
2007-11-19 06:03:00 · answer #1 · answered by munchkin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't mind being a 1 night stand and lose your virginity with some scum ball man who will probably laugh at you after he has sex with you and make fun of you with his friends and have you known as the tramp of the town and then you start regretting you didn't wait to lose your virginity with someone who you love and they love you back then go ahead and have sex with some random guy.
I just hope you don't get an STD or have to go on the Marry show to prove to a guy that he is your "baby daddy" and you get to hear him call you out of your name and everybody gets to see you on the T.V. crying a screaming. Then you have to sit at home with a baby wondering when your going to get your next child support check.
Your 16 and your too old to be a Virgin??? I know people who are 20 and up and they are still a virgin. losing your virginity is not some grand achievement in life. I mean any body can do that in 5 min come on now. I know you have to be smarter then that. have some respect for yourself.
2007-11-19 05:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sammy B 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Well, if you really want to lose it you shouldn't have a problem finding a guy who's willing to help you out. Do you have any close guy friends that you could ask? I mean you could just go to a party and pick someone but it might be better if it was someone you knew a little bit about. Really it's up to you. If you really feel you're ready then just pick a guy and go for it.
2007-11-19 06:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait when did 16 become to old to be a virgin ? i must have slept through that announcement .... why would anyone think that 16 is to old to be a virgin ? are you desparate ? do you think loosing your virginity will make you wiser , older , smarter , sexier , more respected or what ?(because it wont) loosing your virginity should be special and with someone you truely love , you can only loose it once ..you can only give it to one man one time ... i cant understand why you would think you have to loose it now
2007-11-19 07:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What's your hurry?! Don't treat or think of yourself as a commodity with a best before date for gods' sake! All yoy're going to attract are "vermin" eager to accomodate you (and themselves!) , and treat you like a used kleenex. Come on , your sexuality is very special, beautiful. Please, don't make it a contest or race against time. Your sexual health and emotional health are inexorably connected and if you abuse it/yourself you may do irreparable damage to both. I know it's a cliche you probably have heard over and over again, but do a little growing up and maturing and I mean emotionaly, intellectualy and spiritualy. Be smart! Don't be a tart! Good Luck.
2007-11-19 06:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by hessanfefer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WAIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!OMG!!!!!!!!! WAIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I don't know how you are and its really none of my buisness.
But,Don't lose it to someone that you don't know.
In this day and age you have no idea who lurks around what door or alley.They can say all the right things and the next thing you know you are on a milk cartoon or the post office wall.
Go to a adult store and buy the things you need before you
take on a stranger..You can catch "STD" or worse have a child 9 months down the road. Nothing says love like your fingers>They can do the magic!!!!!!!!!!
Sooooooooooooooooooooooo>Don't be foolish!!!!! Love thy self before you do a stranger!!!!!!!!!!!
Take care >D3K
16 is still too young! AND> I will just say it again! Love thy self and then wait for the right one! Thats all you need to do!
And for the 2 guys that just answered! Get a life and leave hers alone!
2007-11-19 06:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by dokken3kiss 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Get a nice, caring boyfriend who respects you.
Date him for a while.
Surely you can wait for a bit, give it a few months to get to know him and feel comfortable with him before you do anything, then take things from there. Even if you're desperate to do things now you will enjoy it a lot more if you're close to the boy you are with.
Don't just sleep with anyone, you WILL regret it.
2007-11-19 06:03:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
get a bf, but u should wait...how old r u? if ur 16 or up then go out sumwhere and get a bf but if u have sex w/ him then ya'll break up, you'll most likely regret it l8er
*dont regret anything cause at 1 point in time it was exactly what ya wanted*
2007-11-19 06:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by ♥BitterSweet♥ 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
From your question, I can tell you are probably lacking in the areas of common sense and maturity. Why do you want to give it away so badly? Will it kill you to stay pure until you're married? I don't think so. Even if you did have a boyfriend!
Aren't you at all concerned that people will think you're a fast girl?
2007-11-19 06:03:34 · answer #9 · answered by bootslarue 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-09-29 12:51:44 · answer #10 · answered by lacie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋