I have been hanging out with this girl for about 2.5 months now. We usually meet for lunch once a week (not a scheduled thing, just random times), and hang out once one on one during the week. We are both involved in a church, so we see each other more than that in a group setting. We usually talk, text, or email every day. Most of the time text or phone after 1030 at night. About a month into us hanging out, a conversation was steered in the way of relationships. Not necessarily by me or her, just mutually. I told her that I was starting to have interest in her, and she said she could see potential in a relationship, but didn’t want to rush into a relationship, as she had gotten out of a two year about 3 months earlier. I would say we hang out more now than we did then. We are not dating though. We talk about our families and our past quite a bit. We are both busy, and independent. Neither of us is clingy. The other day I told her that I was gonna get my hair cut, and she offered to do it. Yesterday, I went to her apartment and she cut it, and we hung out for a while after. I was doing some stuff on my laptop, and she said she had to get ready to go so she was gonna take a shower, but told me I didn’t need to leave. I am sure this is very hard to follow, but I am trying to keep it compact. She is 25 and a CPA, I am 21 and almost done with college. Does this sound like stuff that a normal woman would do if she just wanted to be friends? Any advice would be great. Thanks!
2007-11-19
02:38:12
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Dan M
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