Singles & Dating - 19 November 2007

How to start a new life witout my ex boy,how to move on without pain inside..i know maybe its stupid but i realy need your help!!!!

2007-11-19 22:14:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 22:13:19 · 11 answers · asked by sobujtrees 2

So I was with my ex for 2 months at the end of last year. She dumped me which really hurt me. We became best friends after a while though. I still love her, she knows it. About a month ago I met this awesome girl online. I've visited her twice for about a week at a time. After the first time my ex/best friend got all jealous and we almost got back together. I broke up with my new gf, and then went back to her after my ex was all unsure about us. Then met new gf for the second time. We had sex and I told her I love her, which I think I do in a way. But today, its been a few days since i got back from visiting my new gf, I talked to my ex again and now we really are getting back together. So I have to dump my gf again, 2 weeks after dumping her for the same reason. I reassured her that it was over with my ex last time. I feel horrible about what im doing to my gf who I'm about to dump again. I deserve to. I really don't know how to cope with these feelings. Everything has been so conf...

2007-11-19 21:59:00 · 9 answers · asked by andy1984 1

Sorry to repost, its just that no one can give me a good answer. hey, my gf was skinny and hot when we met, now 7 months later she is getting big. She is getting way to fat, way to fast. She is not pregnant, so don't ask. I mean, what gives women the right to just stop taking care of themselves when they find a man? I still go to the gym 3 times a week and lift. I look good. She has gone from a size 3 to a size 8!!! WTF! And then she dares ask me if she looks fat....i tell her the truth, and she gets all mad at me and cries. She used to wear sexy jeans and skirts, now all she wears is fat *** "juicy" sweat pants and sweat shirts. Am i being unfair? should i dump her? whats the deal guys?

2007-11-19 21:52:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

what does he mean??

2007-11-19 21:51:35 · 44 answers · asked by Loli 2

O.k so I've been seeing this guy for like..3-4 months and he comes round to mine with his mate so we can go for a walk(all 3), We are about to come to a anarrow bit in the sidewalk as a van has parked real close so in a line - 1st goes his mate then him, then me. Then I break wind but thinking as am at the back he won't smell it, I was soo wrong never just assume things like that as it tends to make a (***) of (U) and (Me).
Anyway just as he smells it he's till walking in front of me then he's about to ask if it was his mate when he realises IT WAS ME!! Please make me feel better am absolutely dreading seeing him again!! Please help!!(It may help if you have any experiences*funny ones*


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2007-11-19 21:49:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 21:40:39 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I made some wrong moves on my first date with an older man.This guy and I have been flirting for months and he finally asked me out on a date.The first date was great we were at his place having some cocktails and talking.We talked about the most personal stuff and I felt close to him.Before you knew it we were kiss and that led to having sex.He was very loving so it didn't seem wrong.After a few days we saw each other at work and it was cool.The problems laids with the fact that now that we have had sex where do we go from here.I don't know what his intentions are and if he wants to get to know me and maybe have a relationship or if it was just sex.If it was just sex that's cool cause I made the mistake with sleeping with him.To make matters worse I called for a bootie call and when he answered I told him what I wanted and he said he would call back but never did.So do men continue to date someone they have already slept with or do they blow them off?

2007-11-19 21:40:12 · 12 answers · asked by Mia 2

So...whats a good way to tell a friend that you want some benifits from them?

2007-11-19 21:38:33 · 8 answers · asked by Mothra 1

2007-11-19 21:38:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mates have sex wid prostitutes all the time (even the ones that have gfs) but i never join them because i want my first time to be wid a girl i truly love, but my friends think i just havent got the balls.
my last gf wasnt ready to do it and we broke up about 3 months ago....

2007-11-19 21:37:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

His ex before me was his first serious gf. She cheated on him a year and a half ago.They split up, got back together a couple of months later and finally split about 7 months ago. I met him 2 months later. He said he was surprised byhow much he liked me & that he hadn't expected it because of recently splitting up with her, this was on our 4th time of meeting. We've now been together for 5 months, long distance. He was the one who wanted us to give it a try. He's still friends with his ex & she has a new bf, but he talks to her a lot online, and she always phones him with her problems, which seem to mainly consist of too many men being in love with her, and wanting to cheat on her current bf. I get the feeling she's trying to make herself out to be ohso desirable etc, maybe to hook him back in. He seems to really like me though, and always talks about our future, like in years time future.But could this just be that false rebound feeling?Could he still like his ex?

2007-11-19 21:33:35 · 11 answers · asked by Katrina W 2

2007-11-19 21:31:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 21:29:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I admire a women at the place i work, she is beautifull,nice and very lady like, i mean she is miss universe material but yet she is so down to earth and has no such ego, i used to go around the booth she is working just to see her, i have no intention of telling her, it was just admiring because she is so beautifull yet so down to earth, in my heart she deserves someone way better then me and thats why i kept quiet,

But now one of my collegue told her, dammit, how the hell am i gonna see her agian ? im so embarressed. how do i see her face ? now im thinking of ways of not bumping into her..

2007-11-19 21:28:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

he was my gr8 frnd and we were really close.after 2 yrs he proposed me.i like sumoneelse so i refused.but now he is spreading dat i proposed him and much more. and this news has reached my bf.wat shud i du???????

2007-11-19 21:24:46 · 7 answers · asked by mana 1

Theres this guy i really really like in college!! I have a huge crush on him but it seems like hes playing some game. Im actually confused! First i always use to catch him staring at me and checking me out.(im really hot lol) Then he tried to call me like "Oi oi come here" LooL. ( hes a badboi wanab)I didnt respond him because he made me feel like his piece of meat! But then la8er onwards i talked with him everything.( he does try to talk to me but acts like a jerk so i play it cool. and then some weeks later on when i met him again he started saying "What have you done to your hair" ? I dont like your new hairstyle and colour! you look like a witch!! N i have ignored him ever since. My friend caught him flirting with other girls too. N he was like telling me to text him and i didnt. Part of me feels like he likes me because he really does give me this mix signals like he likes me too. But then he confuses me??? seriously what should i do?????? what is he doing? M i overexagurating

2007-11-19 21:20:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

we r in the same school....
i am in 8th standard n same with him
since 2 years we are together...
i think he is doing double dating now...
today i saw him hugging a girl[putting his arm on her sholder] who was crazy about him since 2 months....
she was my enemy too because she tried that we both have a break up
he was talking and i was looking at him from the back[he didnt saw me]
then he removed his arm and said "i need to leave .... now dont come behind me.....understand....i hope u hv understood that i can/can't[i could not understand] urs......"
what to do????

2007-11-19 21:17:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to go home for Christmas..but I think my BF worries because when I said this before it means goodbye forever! But our relationship is strange he became like a mute after I told him I love him but I know he loves me too but he is a weirdo! lol! He is doing his compulsory military service here in Asia. I send him care packages and he is very appreciative but he doesn't know how to do because he has never hads a GF I am told. But he won't tell me what he thinks or if he minds if I go home because he acts like a mute~so what can I do just go?

2007-11-19 21:14:12 · 8 answers · asked by always4him 1

I was at a guys house (a friend who I've got close to recently) and he was on msn talking to a friend and he said to his friend "i'm ok, just with (my name)"
And the friend says "how is she?"
And then my friend says he's told this guy about me at uni.
The friend says "are you copping it?" meaning like are you having sex
and my friend replied "...maybe!"
I was right there, why is he doing that?

2007-11-19 21:11:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

We dated 3 months and have been friends for 6 months.This girl refused to be with me, but kept on calling me. I told her not to contact me anymore. Last time she called, she was crying about her exboyfriend from two years ago. I was offended by this. I shouldn't have to hear about it. I can't be friends with her but she has made me feel like i should. Well, last time she texted me. I told her flat out. "I don't want to be involved with you because I don't want to be around when you date other guys. I don't want to be a part of that". She sent me a text saying "I am not dating nor do I have any intentions of dating anyone". This was a lie because the day before she changed her myspace profile from here for friendship, to here for dating as well. Should I contact her? Should I keep doing what I am doing, which is staying away from her and refusing her contact? I don't know what to do. When I asked her why she texted me, she said "to see how you are doing". Not "lets get back together

2007-11-19 21:10:21 · 7 answers · asked by D 1

A few weeks ago I was staying over at a male friend's flat, and we've had feelings for each other for ages. We ended up in bed together but it happened so fast I wouldn't sleep with him in case I'd regret it the next day. Instead we just had a wonderful night in each other's arms kissing and he said he wanted to be with me. I said I needed time and space to think about it because I was afraid to commit. He's 12 years older than me and unemployed, which my friends think is a big no-no, but when we're together I feel like we're equals and we get on so well. I'm studying at uni about an hour away from him so after some thought a week later I arranged to meet him and said I'd like to give things a go. He went all quiet and said half of him wanted to but he didn't think it could work- the age difference is too big. If it was such a big issue why did he pursue me in the first place? It's never had any bearing on our friendship. He's also still texting and emailing me quite a bit...

2007-11-19 21:08:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

so wat to do tell me??? is she telling truely or not....

2007-11-19 21:03:58 · 6 answers · asked by piyush_shand16 1

I used to date my ex before splitting up earlier this year.
We used to be very close and spend so much time with each other, that I never found it necessary to meet other people and make new friends.

Now that we’ve split up, I’m having the most difficult time trying to meet new people and make new friends.

Where do I begin?
Where would I find good, wholesome people that I can share my interests and hobbies with?

Everyone here at my place of work, is already married and most of them have kids.

Where would be a good place to find single people that I can just hang out with… and do regular stuff with, like going to the movies, doing lunch and other fun activities?

2007-11-19 20:58:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

If she tells him that he has no personality or looks that a girl wants, is she being completely honest? Or just trying to hurt him?

2007-11-19 20:57:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

When me and my partner have a fight, we make up and he doesn’t tend to mention it again…..
NOW I want to talk about it and for him to understand why I feel how I do and why the fight happened.
Why do women always wana talk things out + men just wan2 move on + not mention it again?
** me +my bf had a fight on Friday night about my being controlling….but we made up b4 goin 2sleep…but in the morning I wan2 to talk it over as I felt rubbish bout it…but he didn’t seem to feel the need to talk about it**….the reason I wana talk as we have had a few fights lately and im concerned about his feelings changing, although hes not changed affection wise towards me??
I have never been so scared of losin someone which I why I think I am always seeking reassurance from him, and when we fight I wana make sure he understands why I behaved how I did as I don’t want him to be thinking in his head ‘’this girls nuts I want out of this’’
Can anyone relate to this…men or women?

2007-11-19 20:43:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

to give a backround, i was in a serious relationship over a year ago. i was torn apart when it ended, i gave my life and soul to this girl and all she did was destroy them. i then started trying to get on with my life, even though i was still in love with her, i was getting on well enough. i dated a few girls after but they were only there because i wanted fun, i had no feelings for them whatsoever. but let me tell you how hard it was to break up with them, they just didnt want to let me go. i had and still do have at least 5 ex lovers that would drop everything to have me back (not that im leading them on they were all aware of the fact that i didnt want a relationship, they just want it) i have however met somone who unbelievably made me happy, i was prepared to let things go naturally and if it turned into a relationship i would put my part in. NOW the Ex who hurt me has begged for forgivness and wants to try again, i still love her i just dont know wat 2 do, what are your thoughts?

2007-11-19 20:37:31 · 17 answers · asked by TEMtogether 1

i love my man so much but all his friends are girls and he has so many secrets it makes me feel like i dont trust him so how can i leave him even though i love him so much

2007-11-19 20:34:26 · 11 answers · asked by charlie 1

My boyfriend and I were having a conversation tonight about his upcoming trip to NY to come visit me (long distance relationship) and I mentioned that it was smarter to fly and he could just use my old Mercedes to drive around because my dad's getting me a Jag for Christmas. He seemed a little stunned and then acted kind of weird. Normally, this isn't a topic I throw around lightly but we've been dating for a few months and he knows my financial situation. We've discussed it before but he always says he doesn't mind as long as I'm okay with him not having a lot which doesn't bother me in the least. I'm beginning to suspect it bothers him, though. After that, I said, okay, who cares about that, let's change the subject. He said, "Let's talk about Christmas." So I told him what I picked out for his daughter (we both have children) and he laughed and said "Jesus, you're killing me." And then said I needed to go to bed and get some sleep. Which he NEVER does. So what's the deal?

2007-11-19 20:22:13 · 12 answers · asked by answergrrl3 4

my partner has been bugging me, every time my daughter crys and my partner goes to get her he ignores her. how do i get him to pay more attention? ive asked him ive ignored him i yelled but nothing works

2007-11-19 20:20:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous