Why do women feel the need to always talk about the relationship.....?

Question

When me and my partner have a fight, we make up and he doesn’t tend to mention it again…..
NOW I want to talk about it and for him to understand why I feel how I do and why the fight happened.
Why do women always wana talk things out + men just wan2 move on + not mention it again?
** me +my bf had a fight on Friday night about my being controlling….but we made up b4 goin 2sleep…but in the morning I wan2 to talk it over as I felt rubbish bout it…but he didn’t seem to feel the need to talk about it**….the reason I wana talk as we have had a few fights lately and im concerned about his feelings changing, although hes not changed affection wise towards me??
I have never been so scared of losin someone which I why I think I am always seeking reassurance from him, and when we fight I wana make sure he understands why I behaved how I did as I don’t want him to be thinking in his head ‘’this girls nuts I want out of this’’
Can anyone relate to this…men or women?

Answer 1

They can't do that again. They know, and they don't care why. It is just another rule. We want to know why, how, when, where, etc.. They just want to know what it is that they need to do.

They are not as complicated as we are. Just tell them what they need to do, and if they want to do it, they will. If they don't think it is worth it, they will leave. It is just that simple.

Answer 2

We want to analyse it and hope to learn what went wrong and how can we fix it. Or maybe we want to communicate our wishes and learn their needs too.
I don't know what the guys think. But I noticed it too that many (not all) don't like to talk about relationships. Maybe they are afraid to make it worse as the conversation can turn into a fight again. Many are afraid to show their feelings because "it's not manly" to even have them.

Answer 3

I completely understand I am the same with my man, I just think guys once we have made up dont see a point to keep talking about it they are simple creatures. Why are complicated hahaha if you get a good answer pls let me know cos I would love to know too :)