Singles & Dating - 19 November 2007

And why?

Please, no remarks about how you should save yourself for marriage because you'll be happier in the long run and blah blah blah, I just want answers.

2007-11-19 08:06:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 08:04:32 · 19 answers · asked by Argo 3

I'm a sophmore in highschool, and iv'e liked this boy for a year and a half now, and i finally want to tell him. I think he already knows, but im not sure. people have told him before that i liked him but when im around him i don't act like i like him even though i do. I want to know whats a better way to tell him, over the phone, or in person? ive asked my guy friends, and a few of them said in person, and some said over the phone. Also, how would you tell somebody that you liked them? I guess my problem is that im scared of being rejected by someone that i like sooo much. But the good part is, that he might like me back from the way he acts around me, but im not too sure.

thanks alot, everyone, and please be specific :)

2007-11-19 07:59:58 · 26 answers · asked by :) 3

Ive been cheating on my girlfriend and now I got 2 girls pregnant one has jus given birth the other has just announced shes pregnant.Living with my girlfriend and her kid became stressful and rather than moving on I just had some fun on the side.Now I feel very stupid and guilty for being such an irresponsible asshole.Both these other girls knew I had a girlfriend and live on the same street as me I know the truth will
emerge and I dont know what 2 do I feel so ashamed of my actions.Has this happened 2 any1 else out there ? if so what did you do ? what advice can u give ?

2007-11-19 07:56:27 · 44 answers · asked by 007 1

hurt his friends feelings.

2007-11-19 07:56:24 · 2 answers · asked by kimberly k 5

me and my new bf been together for 7 months and now we have had sex okay we had trouble having sex he couldnt stay hard for some reason he said that had never happened to him and then this morning he wanted to try again and so we did and he kept having that problem again and then by that time we ran out of condoms and then we decided to not do it but that thought didnt last long then we actually did it wothout a condom yes i know im stupid but we have all been there caught up in the moment so for some reason i started bleeding and then we stopped and then we started again i still was bleeding and also he came but he withdrew but i dont think he did it the correct way yes i know i was irresponsible yes i know stds' can be involved and even pregnancy but us as women why cant we stop when we are caught up in the moment?

2007-11-19 07:52:52 · 1 answers · asked by omarionsgirl1983 4

"I love him to death but i just dont know some times he does things that just tick me off and i just want to say for get it.But i just dont know ,sometimes i think he raither have some one else.But thats just me.He wont see this cause he doesnt even look @ my page any more, and i knew he changed when he went up north,And if you looked at his page back then and now.You would know for your self. He tells me to tell him when he is changing and i do.And we go through this big over night thing.But he always goes back to his same ways . i also know that all of its not his fault. But it seems that way "

i Try to change every day i was a bad boy when i met her but i acted sweet but when it comes to her changin sahe dont even try i mean she so clingy she acts like a baby when she dont get her way and she wines bout everything ,like the other day some boy kissed her on the cheek and she told me but she didnt want me to be mad so i held it in and she was mad what should i do cuz I LOVE HER

2007-11-19 07:50:00 · 6 answers · asked by LaZi Boi 1

I am 27 years old and a virgin. I have a new g/f. We have made out on several occasions and whenever we do, I don't really get much of an erection. Today we were making out and she began to fondel my penis and testes. I did get an erection. Then she began to perform oral on me an I felt myself losing my erection, and I eventually did. I don't understand this. I have absolutely no problem getting or maintaing an erection when i masturbate. Could it be that i masturbate too often and have become de-sensitized? I figured being a virgin that, if anything, I would have a difficult time not getting an erection too quickly or ejaculating too quickly but for some reason, that's not the case.

I find my g/f very attractive, and like I said, I have no problem getting an erection by myself so I know I'm not impotent. Do you think it could just be a case of nerves and/or too much masturbation.

Thanks, sorry for asking such a lame question.

2007-11-19 07:48:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 07:47:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I texted her 2 days after I got her nr. Arranged to meet in her place for sushi; so we did. Then she said she wanted to show me photos of her holiday (we were talking about this at the bar). Out of the blue, she mentions her boyfriend, nothing too detailed, but was telling a story and she mentioned her boyfriend. We were laying in her bed, quite close to each other. Then she says: what do you want to do now? I say, I don't know. Then I phoned my friend, he's going out for dinner with his girlfriend. Asked her if she wanted to go, she said yes. So we went. She was checking me out the whole night. At the end of the night I was expecting a kiss, but instead she gave me two kisses on each cheek. Then we met again, 2 days later for dinner, (I have paid everything since we met). Eye contact was good, then we were talking about stuff, then again she mentioned her boyfriend. This really turned me off, it was SECOND time. Saw her 3rd, 4th time, still nothing has happened?Help, pls!

2007-11-19 07:47:21 · 20 answers · asked by salearts 1

theres a girl tht i like and likes me 2 but theres a wall between us by wht are friends will think so she is going out with this prick shes ngoing 2 break up with him but wht do i do 2 get her ?

2007-11-19 07:47:16 · 5 answers · asked by The___OUTCAST!@!??? 1

I love my boyfriend. And I know he is going to ask me to marry him soon. I have always been afraid of commitment, but he changed my mind about that quickly. Is it normal to WANT to have a baby with the man I love? I feel like a would be a great mother and a fun loving wife...so what do you guys think?

2007-11-19 07:44:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my ex broke up 7 months ago because of lying and cheating on his behalf. we dated for 2 years. he gave me a diamound ring worth alot of money? i want 2 pawn the ring but a piece of me would feel bad ? wat should i do?

2007-11-19 07:42:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

he say i dont communicate with him

2007-11-19 07:42:09 · 3 answers · asked by SleepingBeauty 3

How can a guy like me develop a ferromagnetic stage that will attract the opposing charges of the female species?

2007-11-19 07:41:34 · 2 answers · asked by TPCAN 3

i've learned from my friends experiances that no one likes clingy, so now i just got my first boyfriend and i'm trying so so hard to not be clingy to him. but it's really hard because i like him so much. but i'm also scared that by my not being clingy (or attempting not to be) might seem like i don't care about him or our relationship. please ANY advice to help me out???

2007-11-19 07:38:54 · 13 answers · asked by ashley k 1

This guy and I have been hanging out for a couple of months now and he's cool. I don't want to be with him I just like having a good time. I'm beginning to really like him and I would like to do this for him the only problem is he's not my man. I only do these type of things for the "exclusive relationship" not only that he's so up and down I don't know. He's kind of flaky and although I do like him he annoys me. I've never met anyone that frustrates me as much as him. Sometimes I think he just gets to me because I like him that much.

2007-11-19 07:38:38 · 2 answers · asked by luv4mybuddy 1

I've had a boyfriend for the past 5 1/2 years who I see once a week.

Recently, a new guy came into my life, and we got engaged.

Now, of course, I need to dump my old boyfriend. However, I have no idea how to do it. We have a lot of history. He's been there for me.

The reason I'm dumping him is that I want a normal relationship and marriage. He said clearly that our relationship would never go past seeing each other once a week.

Help! How do I dump him in the least painful way possible?

2007-11-19 07:34:15 · 26 answers · asked by Loon-A-TiK 4

What changes in a guys mind to make him want to go from bed buddies to a relationship?

2007-11-19 07:29:42 · 44 answers · asked by nessa 1

2007-11-19 07:26:18 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

For a long time I cared for this guy, but recently after "making love" with him I felt disgusted. Even in the middle of performing I gagged!! I knew my feelings for him were slowly fading, but didn't realize how much I must dislike him now. I am now concerned that because of him it will take me some time to want to be with someone physically again. Has this ever happened to you? Do I need theraphy now??? I feel confused!!

2007-11-19 07:20:15 · 28 answers · asked by C 2

what should i do if someone tells me that my bf wants to break up with me what should i do

2007-11-19 07:18:42 · 6 answers · asked by chelsea o 1

Okay, so my fiance is white. People who have read other posts from me probably know that by now. We are very much in love, my whole family has met him and they all love him because he loves me and I'm happy. I have spent a lot of time with him, his parents and his sister who's his only sibling. They all love me. Me and his mom are very close, I call her mom. But, on Thanksgiving I will be going to his sister's house for dinner. Like I said before, his sister loves me. But some of his other relatives will be there. Relatives I have yet to meet, and he has described them as "Red Neckish". His grand parents, he has been kind of estranged from for a while because of the whole interracial dating issue. He's said they've kind of mellowed on the idea of it, because they have learned that he is attracted to black women and that is who he chose/chooses to be with. But honestly they don't like it, but accept it for the most part. So, I am nervous about meeting them. Advice pls

2007-11-19 07:04:35 · 10 answers · asked by Opinionated 2

And Steph(mine and Charley's(myexgirlfriend's) bestfriend) said I should ask her out. The only problem is I'm really good friends with this girl and even though me and Charley are still bestfriends even though I still have strong feelings for and I was bestfriends with her before we went out, I'm worried that if I ask her out and she says yes we'll split up and we'll never be friends again and that if she says no we'll be awkard around each other like what happened with me and Steph when I asked her out and she said no, it was a month until we started talking again. Also she doesn't hang about with me and Charley that much and only really hangs with Steph and Charley's even though she's my ex is a big part of my life and has never ditched me for a guy(she has had boyfriends but she's made sure she hangs about with me when she has a boyfriend) and I know if I got a girlfriend like April(the girl I fancy) I'd end up ditching Charley when she's never done that to me even when she's got a boyfriend.
What can I do, I like this girl but I don't want to ruin any friendships in the process?
I'm 15, April's 14 or 15, Steph's 13 going on 14 and Charley's 12 going on 13.
By the way this isn't affecting my school work, I'm getting A*s and As in science and maths without revising and with revising I'm getting college acceptable grades in English and other lessons.
Me and April talk alot in RE and she's quite helpful in that subject and we also talk about life at home in RE.

2007-11-19 07:04:24 · 11 answers · asked by Lily R 6

I have this boyfriend and we have only seen eachother once everytime we go to meet he always makes up excuses =/
is he using me or is he just busy with other things?

2007-11-19 06:51:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

How should i behave around his parents, dress..
Any advice you can give.

They're conservative but cool about the fact their son is dating a pakistani girl.

2007-11-19 06:45:17 · 23 answers · asked by zurious 2

me and my boyfriend are now together for 2 years..i feel that i love him more than he does or maybe he just doesnt know how to express it..i talked to him many times and noithing changes..for example i am the one always running after seeing him, callin him, spending time together...he never sacrifised something to do me something special...wat should i do?

2007-11-19 06:44:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 06:43:49 · 19 answers · asked by foke88 1

2007-11-19 06:41:31 · 17 answers · asked by dokken3kiss 2

2007-11-19 06:39:22 · 3 answers · asked by dokken3kiss 2