What changes in a guys mind to make him want to go from bed buddies to a relationship?
2007-11-19 07:29:42 · 44 answers · asked by nessa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uhmm i am in no way angry, nor a whore, thank you..this question doesn't even pertain to me personally, I am just curious as to why guys change their minds about that sort of stuff
2007-11-19 07:46:12 · update #1
An emotional connection.
2007-11-19 07:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by pocket68rocket 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all. If he's screwing you all this time and you never brought it up, he probably isn't going to want to be in a relationship now. Ever heard the saying "Why buy the cow if you get the milk for free"?
And two, if you guys are close and you think it might work, tell him you dont think you can continue sleeping with him unless you take the next step. If the sex is really great, he'll agree.
Hopefully, i'm wrong and the guy genuinely likes you....
2007-11-19 07:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by Safrole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some might think that question was back to front :O) going from a friendship to a relationship .....
Anyway, sometimes there's good sex and sometimes there's love, trust, friendship, companionship, sharing, laughter (there really should be a lot of laughter), and some sex thrown in for good measure. It can be ok to enjoy either type of relationship - as long as you can acknowledge it for the type it is.
Be patient - don't put pressure on him - make sure you've got a life of your own as well as spending time with him.
If you're meant to be together, it will happen in its own time.
M
2007-11-19 07:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by mar_macgillivray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, generally, if I enjoy activities with someone other than sex. If we have meaningful conversations and enjoy each other's company, then I see something as potentially more than a casual hook-up. I try to be open with my partner/partners about what is going on in my mind. Confusion and miscommunication often lead to hurt feelings. If you are curious about the nature of a relationship, it is always best to talk about things with your partner. You will definitely get more information that way than by playing a guessing game.
2007-11-19 07:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by Benny G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way of having a relationship with a bed buddy, becuase most guys wouldnt trust having a relationship with a prior bed buddy, they would be too worried she might become a bed buddy with someone else while in a relationship. cant trust bed buddies as girlfriends, but you must admit, they are fun to have just as bed buddies, they are no good for anything else
2007-11-19 07:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by kj k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman if we change our minds about how to go about something like that. If we start out as sex buddies with a woman and she turns out to either be incredible mentally, emotionally, or sexually, ....we'll want to hang on because great women are rare these days.
2007-11-19 07:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by DuaL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when it's a prolonged hooking up relationship, somebody always starts to like the other. its human nature. you're so used to this person making you feel good physically that your brain decides its a good idea. the thing of it is that you can't help who you get feelings for....it just sorta happens. from there, if the other person isn't feeling the same way...you need to break it off because that other persons feelings won't go away if they are still hooking up with the other person.
2007-11-19 07:57:26 · answer #7 · answered by J the answer man.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general, I'd say he stops focusing on having sex and begins to think about other things. He needs to be less self-centered and more loving and considerate. When the only thing holding a relationship together is sex, it makes a poor cement.
2007-11-19 07:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by Mover50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bed-buddies is if u like the girl but u dont have alot in common and u just wanna f uck her
relationship is if u were bed-buddies and u see that u have alot in common and u just think u could make a relationship work really well
2007-11-19 07:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you have sex with a person for a long time you get feeling for the person. its a natural thing. if you dont then maybe your a cold hearted person. you better let your walls down befor its too late. after time sex it not just for fun, it becomes a was to comunicate closer then other people do to that one person. becouse not everyone is getting in bed with that person. but you are. see what i meen. ether let it go or go for it all. but what ever you do--realy think about it 1st good luck!
2007-11-19 07:39:15 · answer #10 · answered by the wild child rock star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What comes first? To be a bed buddy or have a relationship?
2007-11-19 07:33:17 · answer #11 · answered by YASH B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋