Really personal and embarrassing question, any help is appreciated?

Question

I am 27 years old and a virgin. I have a new g/f. We have made out on several occasions and whenever we do, I don't really get much of an erection. Today we were making out and she began to fondel my penis and testes. I did get an erection. Then she began to perform oral on me an I felt myself losing my erection, and I eventually did. I don't understand this. I have absolutely no problem getting or maintaing an erection when i masturbate. Could it be that i masturbate too often and have become de-sensitized? I figured being a virgin that, if anything, I would have a difficult time not getting an erection too quickly or ejaculating too quickly but for some reason, that's not the case.

I find my g/f very attractive, and like I said, I have no problem getting an erection by myself so I know I'm not impotent. Do you think it could just be a case of nerves and/or too much masturbation.

Thanks, sorry for asking such a lame question.

Answer 1

your nerve's are getting the better of you
you are not going with the moment you are frighten to lose control of your feelings and show them(or let your gf see you climax)
what you both must do is have no sex but start slow like let her give you a massage touch every where except your best bits you do the same to her. remember no sex even if you feel like it ,carry on like that for 3 days then on the Fourth day both do the massage but this time ,touch each other but no inter coarse you get the picture build it up slow till your both relaxed with each other .and can abandon your self and not feel embarrassed.

Answer 2

You're nervous that you won't perform well, relax, and concentrate on pleasing your partner....