So I texted her 2 days after I got her nr. Arranged to meet in her place for sushi; so we did. Then she said she wanted to show me photos of her holiday (we were talking about this at the bar). Out of the blue, she mentions her boyfriend, nothing too detailed, but was telling a story and she mentioned her boyfriend. We were laying in her bed, quite close to each other. Then she says: what do you want to do now? I say, I don't know. Then I phoned my friend, he's going out for dinner with his girlfriend. Asked her if she wanted to go, she said yes. So we went. She was checking me out the whole night. At the end of the night I was expecting a kiss, but instead she gave me two kisses on each cheek. Then we met again, 2 days later for dinner, (I have paid everything since we met). Eye contact was good, then we were talking about stuff, then again she mentioned her boyfriend. This really turned me off, it was SECOND time. Saw her 3rd, 4th time, still nothing has happened?Help, pls!
2007-11-19 07:47:21 · 20 answers · asked by salearts 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont understand why you didn't just confront her about her boyfriend. The truth is she probably like you but she feels guilty and a little uneasy about the situation but she probably digs you. If you ask her be preparted for the answer. She either say:
1) she does have a boyfriend but likes you. If you are okay with this then your fine. You'd be surprised how many girls cheat on their boyfriend.
or
2) she's just looking for friends. If you've already gotten this far and you think there is chemistry, she may jus be playin hard to get.
Either way i think you have a shot so be aggressive with her and don't let her think about it. just make a move and i bet she'll forget all about him
2007-11-19 07:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by Rina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be point blank with this girl. Ask her if she does in fact have a boyfriend and what she views is happening between the two of you. Upon getting her answer you can then decide if it's something you are willing to be around for. i.e. she does have a boyfriend and views you as "just a friend." OR, she does have a boyfriend but has no problem with seeing someone on the side. Only after you have an honest conversation with her can you make an accurate judgment of how you feel about this new relationship.
2007-11-19 07:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jen G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no! Do it! It's 2008 and people are meeting others online like crazy, especially off of Myspace. I've seen some really successful relationships come out of that! You guys hit it off so well, what would be the problem if you did. The worst that could happen would be her not responding or telling you she's not looking for anything, but isn't it better to have acted on it and find out an answer then never doing something about it and always wondering what if?
2016-05-24 05:32:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like she is confused my friend. Maybe she isn’t happy with her current situation, and is looking elsewhere for comfort. I would talk to her and tell her where you stand. Are you okay with her being with another guy and you at some point in the future? From being cheated on in the past, I can tell you that if she is willing to cheat on this guy, she will be willing to cheat on you if things get serious between you two. Ask yourself if you need the extra drama.
2007-11-19 08:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by Lenka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a friend not date material. She's making it clear that you are just a friend. That's why she's mentioning the BF. Stop taking her out and paying for everything. Either be a friend or move along.
Sorry dude, better luck next time.
2007-11-19 07:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose her. She has a boyfriend. Dont contact her. Move on. You dont need to start something with a girl with a boyfriend. Why are you doing this to yourself? She sees you as a friend or someone to string along in case it doesnt work out with her boyfriend.
2007-11-19 07:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok either she is mentioning her bf because she wants you to know she has one so nothing can happen between the two of you but she can still enjoy her free meals, or...she continues to mention it because she wants to know if you are ok with her sleeping with you and her bf. Be careful.
2007-11-19 07:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by fantasy gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask about the boyfriend, DOH!!!!
If she is just looking for someone to hang out with, then she will do EXACTLY what she is doing now.
If you want to know for sure, make a move, that will tell you.
2007-11-19 07:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by David G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to get laid then forget about that chick. If she is seeing you behind her boyfriend's back then she'll do the same to you. You don't need to be worrying about that when she's not around. It would drive you crazy. Too much drama.
2007-11-19 07:51:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time boyfriend came out of her mouth i would have asked imediatley... text her and say you have been wondering about it andhave her clear things up
2007-11-19 08:16:24 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋