My ex girlfriend who ive been with for 2 years wont leave me alone i need help with my situation.
My friends constantly told me that she wasnt for me and showed me all the messed up things she did/ ways she treated me, but i saw a different side of her. when i finally decided to leave her for good. She realized it was serious so she tried tempting me with everything she did before to get me to get back with her. when that didnt work she would start drama with my current girlfriend, who i really care about and who wants nothing with her. ive yelled at my ex, ignored her, ect. but nothing has worked. i am afraid if i do something serious like restraining order(with her past) that she might atempt suicide. and she has talked about it. if this happened i could not handle the stress. please put in mind i am a junior in high school. Please any suggestions.
2007-11-19 19:55:19 · 8 answers · asked by Ashton 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell that situation to your parent or somebody you trust then they will go and see her parent and try to handle the situation in a case where she is threatening you with suicide. her parent will better know how to control her if you have to do not wait to get a restraining order cause the situation is way out of control and if you keep it this way it will get worst.you are young and want a better don t let anyone get that away from you
2007-11-19 20:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by cornelie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a junior in high school and dealing with this? Geez! Have you tried talking with your ex's parents about this?
Have you tried talking to the school counselor about this... perhaps they can contact her parents for a session... which would do more good and get you out of the way.
She is either a total drama-queen trying to get her way or really will attempt to kill herself... that is your approach to get an intervention of some sort. You not the person to stage the intervention.... get professionals involved.
Restraining orders cost a lot of money unless you are in abuse with someone who has a track record for being dangerous.
2007-11-19 20:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur ex in the most polite way ' it's all over between us, there's no way we can get bck together again. find a man better thn me i'm sure u can and pls leave me alone i want nothing to do with u anymore.' simple as tht then ignore her dun even bother to scold her anymore she wont attempt suicide(frm my point of view) she'll survive and its better for u this way ain't it? XD
2007-11-19 20:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by SkyScourge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one u could ask to talk to ur ex?
have u tried talking to her calmly? explaining the situation? tell ur new gf that u will have a talk with ur ex and listen to what she has to say.
Try taking breaking up with ur current gf or taking a break so u would cut all possibility of ur ex going crazy, see her reaction when u're single and explain to her, just then that U DON'T WANT HER for being her and not cz u like someone else.. I wish u luck with that
2007-11-19 20:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that's serious. i think u should sit down with her and your new girlfriend and try and talk about the situation and hear both sides of the story of how each other feel. i think then she will feel better and leave u alone
2007-11-19 20:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by 100% husaina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol agenda dates! i am fully severe. like hooked up dates with each and every man that asks you out and make a decision later when you favored any of them. it's going to hold matters below manage, and no longer whole chaos
2016-09-05 09:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consider her as river and keep drinking water from her , and the water " for sure" is not going to run out.
2007-11-19 20:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by love_u830 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a classic case of dead if you do dead if you don't
My advise: Grow up.. and dump both
2007-11-19 20:00:23 · answer #8 · answered by Gulab 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋