My boyfriend and i have been together for about a year..and we have had sex one time(yes i am serious). Whenever i try to iniate sex he eventually gets frustrated and says i don't understand. He constently blames everything on being a diabetic. I feel that diabetes is a condition not an illness if you have the right diet plan and keep an eye on his blood sugar. Everytime i try to suggest any kind of advice i.e. going to see a doctor more often he always says they are just going to tell me what i already know. He doesn't exercise, which i know is important if you are a diabetic. I don't want to breakup with him because l love him so much and i want to marry him some day.
We both want kids, but don't you have to practice first to have kids??It's getting to the point where i am afraid to bring it up anymore.
He even said that if i "Need to Have Sex" i can find someone to have sex with!
that is just something i refuse to do because i believe in monogomy.
Please help! serious replies
2007-11-19 20:06:14 · 12 answers · asked by shorty82 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From what he has told me he has known about has diabetes for quite sometime now. He use to be in the military so he can get help from a VA but he just won't make the time or effort to make regular doctor appointments.
2007-11-19 20:29:16 · update #1
It sounds like he doesn't feel confident in himself in controling his diabetes.
Truth be told, diabetes out of control will affect his decision making, his moods, and his ability to get and maintain an erection.
He needs support, but he also needs to take charge of his diabetes. If the tender love doesn't work, maybe tough love will work.
If he's trying to convince you to find sex elsewhere, he may already have lost hope in the relationship being any healthier than he is. Which is sad.
Some diabetics just can not seem to get it together.
Blaming all of his problems on diabetes is a cop out though, yes it makes everything difficult, but if he has the discipline for it, he can live a very happy, healthy life.
2007-11-19 20:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by Nathan D 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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My boyfriend and i have been together for about a year..and we have had sex one time(yes i am serious). Whenever i try to iniate sex he eventually gets frustrated and says i don't understand. He constently blames everything on being a diabetic. I feel that diabetes is a condition not an illness...
2015-08-24 03:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Diabetes is an illness, and a serious one. It's not as simple as you describe. You'll have to do a lot of thinking and possibly a conversation. Is he willing to try to change anything? Is he interested in becoming a little healthier and keeping it in cotrol? Is there any way he sees that you can help him out? If he wants to have children it is his responcibility to make this effort. But first - learn about diabetis and see if he is being ill or he's being lazy and unreasonable. If you say you love him, try to be supportive not pressing about it.
2007-11-19 20:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as someone who IS a diabetic...I say Shame on you! It IS an illness - Diet control and blood sugar monitoring are ways to help you control the illness...but it doesn't garauntee that you'll never feel the symptoms. Stop pressuring him. AND NO you don't have to "practice" to have kids - If he's really said that if YOU need to have sex - you can find someone else - perhaps he's giving you a hint at a bigger issue - or He's testing you - AND YOU are failing the test...badly. Wait for him if you really love him.
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2015-09-04 00:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by Aaron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your guy seems to be having some issues with being diabetic..was he just recently diagnosed? He is using the diabetes as an excuse. Why not get conseling for the both of u to see if your relationship can be saved.
2007-11-19 20:11:01 · answer #9 · answered by yoyo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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