Singles & Dating - 23 October 2007

if one minute he is sweet and wants sex and the next he treats me like crap. Is he trying to push me away??

2007-10-23 18:50:58 · 6 answers · asked by Shiloh 1

we have sex almost everytime we get together its mutual we have a heck of a time not doing this when we try not too.

we have not had many dates with no sex involved but we have a had a few.

2007-10-23 18:49:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Most of us have seen those love movies, like the notebook, where true love is portrayed in such a deep way. Love filled with such passion, care and longing for that other person, where you feel like no one else in the world knows you like that person does. Love where the other person completes you in every single way. Love where even after years and years the feelings are still there and you will always love that person because you know you and they are One. Does that love even exist? Or do most people just never find it? Reltionships these days seem to be lacking all of the above that i mentioned..

2007-10-23 18:46:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is sometimes taking a vacation in fantasyland, when he returns to earth, he could come crashing down on your heart?

2007-10-23 18:42:00 · 3 answers · asked by flannelpajamas1 4

2007-10-23 18:41:14 · 12 answers · asked by Drumrsgirl4 1

My boyfriend is russian, i'm iranian, we met on a biz trip in china and spent 2 good months together & talked about our future together (we decided that i move to russia to live with him & marry later on) afetr he went back to russia, he told me about his previous relationwith another girl & that he doesn't want to go back to her after he had met me, but after one week he says because he is alone there he can not decide to finish the relation with the previous girl & asked me to wait untill he decides. What should i do during this process, shall continue calling him and chatting with him as usual or stop and ask him to decide & then come back to me?

2007-10-23 18:41:05 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am that strong woman, who hangs on, will not let go, knows what I want, but can't have it. I don't know what went wrong or why he broke up with me. No communication , the harder I try, the more resistance. It was love at first sight for both of us... I can't move forward, I'm constantly thinking about him and missing every moment that we shared together. I still love him and can't move one. No one will ever be able to take his place. I feel as though I will never love another the same or with that much intensity again.

Why is it that love can be so strong, even when there is virtually no probability of ever reconciling with this person again who makes it so difficult?? My love for him is very stubborn!!!

2007-10-23 18:40:36 · 16 answers · asked by BeautifulRose 3

I saw this girl like 3 months ago when I was working and got a really good vibe from her jsut by looking at her. I talked to her briefly until I was cock blocked by someone and then she left, for me to never see again. Afterwards I thought that I missed out on someone.

Is this the kind of vibe that people have gotten from someone they loved at first sight? I was in awe by just looking at her.

2007-10-23 18:40:17 · 2 answers · asked by MLeinart7 2

2007-10-23 18:38:03 · 8 answers · asked by flannelpajamas1 4

I've liked this guy since 6th grade and now three years still do, but I know i really just like what I knew him as because now he has changed. I've been trying to get over him becasue it obviously will never get anywhere
But now a days it seems everywhere I look there he is (his locker incidently is near mine) and he's in my first period. I really don't know what to do anymore.
(plus all my friends are totally sick of hearing anything i have to say about him anymore, so i can't ask them really what to do about this. any ideas? *its been killing me T_T

2007-10-23 18:35:44 · 12 answers · asked by Kanna D 2

Does a guy ever say to a girl "I am going to love you forever" and not have any feelings for her?

INPUT from guys please! THANKS!

2007-10-23 18:34:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, I met a childhood friend on facebook and we met up to catch up. We are 25. He has my #, but he emailed thru facebook for a 2nd date "are u free this sat? wanna meet up?" which I find impersonal. y didn't he call instead? He is not shy. Does this mean he doesn't want to get to know me over the phone but just interested in sex? So far, we have not talked bout sex. In his profile, it says looking for friends.
On our 1st date, he asked me few questions but not a lot & it didn't seem like he was trying to impress me. He was blunt about his lack of college degree and when i said everyone has diff pace in life, he said "yea right, 7 yr difference in pace." He said his last 7 yrs was partying. So I said u must've gotten it out of your system by now, but he bluntly said nope. It seemed like he didn't want me to see any good qualities in him. But if that was the case, y a 2nd date? How can i show him i'm more than a hook up? How should i reply to that email w/o sounding eager? I won't hookup

2007-10-23 18:33:10 · 17 answers · asked by S S 1

Guys, have you ever or do you tell a girl you are in a relationship with that you love her and you didn't/don't feel any love towards her.

If so, why?

2007-10-23 18:31:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-23 18:30:55 · 5 answers · asked by bigpumpdaddy 4

Is it wrong to want to see my 18 yr old girlfriend having sex with a couple older guys? This is something I think about alot and wanna see happen.

2007-10-23 18:25:17 · 9 answers · asked by pennsylvaniaboy07 1

I accidentally hook up wit another two men. The 1st one i admit was my fault but the 2nd one was not really my fault coz i didn't want it. I just didn't know what 2do coz he was my lecturer back then. My fault that i accepted it when he asked me out. I thought it's just an innocent scholarly outing. I didnt expect a so called respectable scholar/author/professor 2do dat. It's so gross. I begged him not to do anything to me, however in a split second he just did! He tricked me and i didnt know how to get out of d mess. Though i was very immature& stupid, i was honest with my bf. I know i am to be blamed, i cant live with the guilt until now. I feel like killing myself. Esp after the 2nd time, it hits me so badly coz i didn't want it so the trauma and phobia kicks in as well. But now my bf is abusing me mentally n physically. I'm staying bcoz i feel guilty&responsible 4 ruining everything. He's staying coz he loves me so much regardless wat happen but he's torchering me at the same time.

2007-10-23 18:24:06 · 2 answers · asked by Dark Dickinsonian 4

if you are a guy and clicked on this it is your last chance to click off...


TOO LATE

i got my period like a year ago and it lasted only like 3 days and VERY little blood! but now it has progressed to around 7 days and i lose more blood each time!!! if i had to estimate how much i lost last time i would say around 5 pints( since 1 is average) i feel dizzy and have stomachaches during my period rather than before it( nothing happens before) should i be concerned or is this normal?

2007-10-23 18:23:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i would like to know how common it is for a couple to have a date and not wind up being intamate on the said date?

2007-10-23 18:19:57 · 13 answers · asked by Almost Happy Housewife 1

Okay So...
I started going out with this girl in late September.
Things were great.
Took her on a great date, took and had a great time at a party, talked on the phone for hours, met and found out her parents really liked me, etc..
However, things started to change as grades were coming in..you see, she was struggling in a few of her classes, and asked for a break so she can raise them.Of course, I gladly respected her descision and gave her the space she nedded to raise her grades. But then, she started to avoid me, tried to ignore almost any type of contact I would try to have with her, and gave a very concernd look on her face everytime I would talk to her.

Few days after giving her a week of space, I was talking to her about how she was doing in school. She then all of a sudden said "I think we should break up, I really want to focus on school, I don't want a boyfriend right now, and I really just want us to be good friends."
This made things akward.
What should I do?

2007-10-23 18:15:33 · 18 answers · asked by Eli 1

2007-10-23 18:11:55 · 11 answers · asked by PEACE 5

what do you look for the most internally and exteranlly in a girl?

2007-10-23 17:49:57 · 14 answers · asked by Lena 3

you often see petite girls/women with large guys, why is that?
you don't see medium size women want to be with them..they usually go for more slender size/ any opinion??

2007-10-23 17:46:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

after i finished, she put her clothes back on turned back and said "Don't call me, I'll call you." Its been about six weeks now, shes not calling back is she?

2007-10-23 17:45:54 · 31 answers · asked by Colonel Mustard 2

A guy & I've been dating FOR a long time. II was in love & crazy about him! We started talking about marriage & what we're gonna do in the future. One day, he stopped texting me. [[We couldn't call often cause of school]]. When I got home, I called him & asked what was wrong. He told me that he met another girl 7 started falling for her. Get this though, the girl was bi. I was so insulted. He left me for her!! I asked him how long has that been going on & he answered since last week. x_x . He then said that he couldn't choose BETWEEN US. By that time, I was heart broken & then Insulted! I told him that I'll make the choice & I broke it off with him. A week later, he begged me to take him back & that he was sorry. I refused to take him back, told him that he shouldn't have had to CHOOSE between me & the bi girl. We parted after that. I was still crying about him. Now, a year later, I still think about him & I'm still in love with him. My heart still aches for him.

2007-10-23 17:38:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

should i leave him

2007-10-23 17:35:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-23 17:31:58 · 1 answers · asked by ? 2

a 13 or 14 year old girl i hear d them talking bout this the other day on t.v. and i was just wondering what you were thinking bout it.... But one more question u know some guys just go from one kiss to another girl..( No offense to anyone if soo) So y do they kiss girkls that young do they even care bout it?

2007-10-23 17:24:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my b/f and i have known each other for years. we just recently started dating we don't have sex but we sleep together he came home from a 10 month tour in iraq and i was the first person he met when he stepped off. we have been together ever since. is it possible to sleep with someone and not have sex? we have the urges we just want to wait to make it special.

2007-10-23 17:23:18 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ Ash ♥ 2

what do they do for you, how do they set themselves apart, etc

2007-10-23 17:19:35 · 7 answers · asked by niugirl1114 3

I met this guy on a dating site...we chatted for like 30 min online and talked a couple of times on the phone...now we are going on a date tomorrow night...but I am considering canceling on him because during our last conversation he seemed concerned about my body type. On my site, I have 4 pictures...you can clearly see my face but not my body. The site makes you choose your body type and I am listed as Big&Tall/BBW. This is the truth. So I think he knows what he is getting into....but then again, he might just think I am one of those girls who is like, "Oh I'm sooo fat." and not really actually be fat. Yes, of course, if he is that shalow I don't want anything to do with him....but I just don't know if I can go through a first date and feel this huge rejection because he is disappointed in my looks! He is very cute, tall, has alot going for him....advice, please? If it helps, here is my page http://www.plentyoffish.com/member3970677.htm and here is his page http://www.plentyoffish.com/member5340037.htm

2007-10-23 17:16:52 · 12 answers · asked by Courtney 3