Singles & Dating - 23 October 2007

Well I finally talked to my ex boyfriend on AIM the other night. Please see all my previous questions for more details except the "whats my next move question" which is about someone else. He said the reason he has not spoken to me is because he feels that we both have said what we needed to say and that I repeat myself then he signed off without saying goodbye. I have been doing really well the past month or so and I know I need to stop thinking about him and move on. Its obviously he has no concern for my feelings at all but i just can't seem to come to terms with how he changed so much. He used to be so nice and caring supportive of me and now I guess he thinks I nagged him too much about our problems...I dunno....any thoughts??

2007-10-23 08:51:59 · 20 answers · asked by beachgirl 1

i met this kid over the weekend at a band competition and i gave him my number. we've been talking on the phone for hours over the past two days (i met him on sunday). i wanted to hook up with him but now im starting to like him. we have so much in common except we live about an hour away from eachother.

im going to see him this weekend and next weekend at the last two band competitions, but im not sure if we'll ever see him again. my friend doesnt think its a good idea to want to hook up with him (she doesnt know that i like him) and she doesnt even think its a good thing that im talking to him. i really like this kid, but i dont know what to do...if we did go out, it would be really hard to see eachother, and some if my friends might get mad at me for having a kind of long distance relationship. neither of us drive so we would have to have our parents drive us. i dont know what to do.

advice please.

2007-10-23 08:51:42 · 7 answers · asked by chicacubana1109 2

Do non-feminist guys actually exist? Does an educated woman who wants to be a stay-at-home wife/mother have to settle for a country boy or a man 20 years older to make her dream come true?

2007-10-23 08:46:45 · 18 answers · asked by Kate Winter 2

About a week ago my boyfriend out of no where accused me of something. (no not cheating). I let him know that his accusation was false, but he continued to accuse me. In all honesty I had done nothing, he wouldn't listen. So after that plus insulting me, he said he was leaving, and infact left me. He called the next day, we talked, he did not apologize, but said if I wanted to be with him he would come back. Stupidly, I said okay. A few hours later he again told me to "***** off" and left. A friend of his informed me that since he left me, he has been hanging around a girl he just met, but that it is "nothing serious". He came back again last night saying we'd work it out, but soon after, once again, left. I have known him six years, dated for two and a half. I love him to death and don't understand why he is doing this to me. I don't know what to do, wait around and hope he'll come to his senses, or just move on. I really don't want to lose him though.

Any advice or thoughts?

2007-10-23 08:41:59 · 23 answers · asked by Life..or something like it. 1

Hi am a 13 year old boy that does not know much about style, fashion or being cool. I am between chubby and slim. I am not the coolest boy in my grade. The girls in our school are so hot and are difficult to ask out. What is the best thing to have or to do to make them like me more. What do girls like? I have medium dark brown hair brownish black eyes.

2007-10-23 08:41:04 · 17 answers · asked by Ivan V 1

I am 54 and recently separated from my husband. I'm, independent and I'm not looking for a meal ticket but I would like some kind of a steady relationship in the future ( not just platonic)
I have 'dipped my toes into the water' but find it difficult to know how to play it. I told the guy i thought he was amazing in bed.... and that I loved making love with him...I think he thought i wanted to marry him!!! I don't want to scare him off but I do want to tell him how good he makes me feel.... help?

2007-10-23 08:32:33 · 29 answers · asked by madlady 1

A small chest and perfect credit?

2007-10-23 08:26:02 · 6 answers · asked by Kate Winter 2

The SOB says that he loves her in a nonromantic way, though.

2007-10-23 08:25:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

An old flame, whom I haven't seen him in about a year, sees me jogging down the street. He stops, we talk for awhile then he says its getting dark you shouldn't be out here. He offers to take me home which was only about a mile up the road. He knows I live with someone, but he deliberately takes the long way and kept me with him for an hour. What's up with that?

2007-10-23 08:22:26 · 27 answers · asked by Dancer3d 4

tell me some signs

2007-10-23 08:18:53 · 11 answers · asked by yanksrule4691 1

I am not understanding the whole logic of "look at me"... I have this house, this car, this,etc.??

Please enlighten me!

2007-10-23 08:16:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a guy told his girlfriend that he wanted to go on a break so that he can get his life together (job, school...ect.), does that mean he isn't interested anymore?

2007-10-23 08:11:49 · 11 answers · asked by Crystal♥of♥Iris 6

I have never been in a releationship where we break up and after awhile we get back togther. I have stayed good friends with some of them. but I have never had the urge to get back together. I have broken up with girls that my best friends will brake up with their girl for the same reason, they get back together and we dont. so what goes through your head when you try to get back together. What are the chances/odds that it will be different this time, and is it different?

2007-10-23 07:56:11 · 7 answers · asked by Jon G 7

purely based on body type, its the only thing i can change and im goonna change it any way so im just tryin to figure out what my goal is gonna be

2007-10-23 07:45:10 · 7 answers · asked by Boo! 2

The other day a friend of mine came over to cry about how she and her boyfriend broke up for like the 7th time in like 2 years. Every brake up was a bad brake up and they always get back together thinking this time is different. Over the summer those 2 talked alot on the phone and they would talk about getting back together. She asked for my advice. I told her not to and so did another friend. Then when they did i kinda stoped talking to her. she came over the other day crying. She said that they broke up again. I told her that this was going to happen and then said i didnt care and closed the door on her. was that to harsh or the right move?

2007-10-23 07:38:44 · 8 answers · asked by Jon G 7

I'm 19 and recently lost mine.I have no regrets at all because i'm in a loving relationship.
I don't really believe that it should necessarily be saved for marrage.As long as you are in love and have trust in the relationship thats what really counts.

2007-10-23 07:35:37 · 9 answers · asked by Pixie-Flames 2

I am looking for a good "punishment" for somebody. It is more of a consequence incase they do not change how they promised to change. They promised to answer questions and overall work on opening up. Any ideas would be appreciated.

2007-10-23 07:26:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

under new management please refer downstairs?

2007-10-23 07:23:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I saw this girl for like 3 months before we broke up. She had changed because summer started and I don't know some girls are confusing. Anyhoo now that school started again (12 grade) shes back into what I call her "school mode" (Less partying, ect.). She Has a current boyfriend but we have been talking for like 2 hours a day and she has even come over and cuddled a bit. this has been going on for about a week. I don't know how to tell her that I still have feelings for her and I am afraid that I will scare he off if I come on too strong. Help me?

2007-10-23 07:22:20 · 3 answers · asked by John Doe 1

Hey guys,
I am Single and am searching for someone. I never meet women in bars or nightclubs I prefare places such as Library, Book Stores, Malls, Coffee shops and even even STREETS. And honestly I have met really attractive women with amazing personality responding positively to me and they were very welcoming to my approach. But my question is that sometimes I can't get out of my head and get SKEPTICAL and I wanna ask you GIRLS, DO YOU LIKE and ENJOY and get FLATTERED when a guy you HAVE NEVER MET BEFORE APPROACHES you in the STREET or LIBRARY or GYM whatever and tells you SINCERELY that he FINDS YOU 'ATTRACTIVE/CUTE/CLASSY/CHARMING etc...)??? and than starts to flirt with you because that is what I do when I approach women I like I Honestly tell them why I came to talk to them a compliment and start flirting and getting to know her and MOST IMPORTANTLY IF YOU LIKE THE GUY WOULD YOU DATE HIM REGARDLESS of his LOOKS?
Most importantly, DO you know that it is hard for GUYS to approach?

2007-10-23 07:17:25 · 10 answers · asked by Abond008 1

I've never especially liked the Cowboys, but I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE football & he's taking his roommate instead. Who thinks that he should take me instead?

2007-10-23 07:15:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you found that your gutt feelings are Usually right?
I have this gutt feeling today that is eating me alive today.. what do you think?

2007-10-23 07:11:25 · 12 answers · asked by Grace's Mommy.. 3

How do you approach some one with something you heard on their voice mail but they don't know you knew how to access their voice mail? So one your wrong for listing to the voice mail but what you heard may lead to other problems in the relationship.

2007-10-23 07:06:33 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents say they will only pay for my wedding if I wait but if they find out I did not they will disown me.

2007-10-23 06:56:27 · 10 answers · asked by Princess J 1

Ive had this guy friend for over a yr..we met in school and I moved to another state but we've kept in contact. Recently I visited him and we kissed but never talked about our feelings (as I had to head back home). Then he contacted me and I invited him to visit me. He said he'd love to once he gets some free time (he's a huge school load). Last conversation he asked how long I'm going to be around (as i'm thinking of travelling). Told him at least a few mths so he said maybe at next vacation he will visit but he's thinking of going to his parents instead (who live in another country). I told him I wont invite him again. This is wrecking my head. I know family is important but I feel I'm wasting my time. What do you think? Also, I'm the one who is now saying 'hi' on chat. Maybe its that its so long distance its difficult. Please help me? ps we get on really well. Guys in particular what do you think?

2007-10-23 06:53:12 · 1 answers · asked by profe 1

Has anyone else experienced this?
Most parents I come across show an immense interest in the lives of their kids, from what they're studying in school, to where they're working, who they're dating, etc.
My parents seem to show absolutely no interest in our lives. It was as though they were completely oblivious to the fact that, surprise surprise, kids grow up, and we won't always just want to play catch in the backyard.
It goes further than that though. They're downright dead-weights. My brother is marrying into an Italian family next year, and the first thing out of my mother's mouth was a complaint about the location -- barely any congratulations!
Anyone else struggle with parents who seem inconvenienced to have children? Both of them make great money. Additionally, they haven't put any money aside for our weddings, educations, etc.
I'm independent and can manage on my own two feet, but it's simply about the fact that they don't seem to really care. It's a HASSLE for them.

2007-10-23 06:51:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have met this girl online that I am talking to. She is planning on coming over with her friend soon, when she comes over as my Friend's Girlfriend. She expressed to me yesterday that she has these feelings, and I expressed them too. But she said that it seems like it is happening too fast; I agree. However, we both came to an agreement that we should just let things happen as they come, if they come. But now my friend seems to know about everything we talk about. Seems she talks to him, but I don't like it. This friend was know to screw me up, especially with girls in the past. He's an evil sob, that will try to control my relationship, and make sure girl doesn't fall for me. He's done it before. I've know him 17 years. I didn't talk to him for years. But I met here through his girlfriend. So, how do I tell her I don't want her to talk to my friend about us, without pushing her the wrong way? I can't tell her about our rivalry thing can I?

2007-10-23 06:47:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I do it and how long will it take. I need to
complete this right away.

2007-10-23 06:42:25 · 4 answers · asked by John 1

I really care for this girl and she says she thinks the world of me. We did go out with each other last month and had a good time. But, she was still hurting over her last relationship and we both agreed that it wasn't fair to carry on seeing one another while she felt like this. Since then, we've remained close as friends. At the moment she feels as if she will never be ready for another relationship. I told her she should be single for a while despite it paining me to say that. The problem is that while I love hanging out with her, I still want to be with her and while being friends is easy, I somehow feel a bit guilty for wanting her as a girlfriend. It's as if I've got an ulterior motive in the way I act around her. I guess I'm scared that she doesn't feel like "that" for me anymore. But on the other hand just recently we've started getting a bit more flirty around one another again and in texts, where as for a while it was all too serious. How should I play this? I'm confused!

2007-10-23 06:27:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-23 06:27:35 · 17 answers · asked by rush 1