The other day a friend of mine came over to cry about how she and her boyfriend broke up for like the 7th time in like 2 years. Every brake up was a bad brake up and they always get back together thinking this time is different. Over the summer those 2 talked alot on the phone and they would talk about getting back together. She asked for my advice. I told her not to and so did another friend. Then when they did i kinda stoped talking to her. she came over the other day crying. She said that they broke up again. I told her that this was going to happen and then said i didnt care and closed the door on her. was that to harsh or the right move?
2007-10-23 07:38:44 · 8 answers · asked by Jon G 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the whole closing the door on her was kind of harsh. but no when a friend and their bf/gf breaks up all the time and acts like it's the end of the world and your supposed to keep saving them it gets annoying. i'd would get sick of telling them the same advice and them neva listening to it. so no good move!
2007-10-23 07:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha1029 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So? are you her real friend? See, real friends don't care how many times they get dumped or how many times they act stupid.. They are just there to listen and give them a good advice.. I don't know, maybe you need to open up and not be so strict on your friends. Closing the door on her, totally harsh.. Don't get me wrong, I do find it silly when situations like this rise in between my close friends, yet, I've never been able to close the door on someone. I believe you should of taken another alternative... Well, since that wasn't the case, you should talk to her and try to apologize.. It's hard to know or to suggest anything since you know her and i don't.. I do wish you the best of luck though..
2007-10-23 08:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ON some level, they must enjoy the turmoil. I would think that it's just their way of being the couple that everyone talks about, and they must get off on breaking up and getting back together. I think you did the right thing by not playing into it. If their relationship is going to last, they have got to get off the rollercoaster and find a long lasting satisfaction in each other.... You are helping them realize what their relationship needs to be, and I think that's great! Keep up your efforts.
2007-10-23 07:47:34 · answer #3 · answered by soccrian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You went to far with the closing the door part.. As a friend you are suppose to be there for her as annoying as it can be to hear the same story over and over. She has to learn for her self there is nothing you can tell her. In time she will get sick of this and end it for good.
2007-10-23 07:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by KORIN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first you easily need to take a deep breath and funky down. now definite, what he did wasnt precise and it injury your thoughts yet he did say sorry. hes a guy and purely like women men want on my own time the place they are in a position to be men. its completely wide-spread to no longer have your lady buddy with you while its purely you and the boys.i propose heck, us women want on my own time too bear in mind! so as that we are in a position to do female issues. its purely an identical for men. and ur boyfriend proably left by way of fact nicely there wasnt plenty he ought to do approximately you crying. he proably felt undesirable for making you cry yet i propose im constructive he didnt think of that the international grew to become into coming to an end. one evening on my own at your place won't be able to kill you. and he additionally could have concept you have been crying for interest or so as that he could stay. so decrease him some slack. he cared sufficient to stop by making use of and clarify that he couldnt carry out relatively of purely phoneing you. supply him that.
2016-10-07 11:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that was too harsh. You need to be there for your friends even if they dont listen to you. If she is a horrible friend to you, then you shouldnt care. But you need to be there for her even though she hasnt learned her lesson yet
2007-10-23 07:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by solelone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you be ok with what you did no matter what?
Would you be ok with your decision if she went back with him and was being abused?
Would you be ok with what you did if she committed suicide?
You should never end anything like that.
2007-10-23 07:54:20 · answer #7 · answered by melissa44241 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD job man ~!~!
2007-10-23 07:45:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋