Well I finally talked to my ex boyfriend on AIM the other night. Please see all my previous questions for more details except the "whats my next move question" which is about someone else. He said the reason he has not spoken to me is because he feels that we both have said what we needed to say and that I repeat myself then he signed off without saying goodbye. I have been doing really well the past month or so and I know I need to stop thinking about him and move on. Its obviously he has no concern for my feelings at all but i just can't seem to come to terms with how he changed so much. He used to be so nice and caring supportive of me and now I guess he thinks I nagged him too much about our problems...I dunno....any thoughts??
2007-10-23 08:51:59 · 20 answers · asked by beachgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank You all so much for your comments. I went shopping for some clothes at my favorite store and decided to spend a couple of days with my parents and its helped get my mind off of him. Yahoo Answers has been so great in helping me vent my concerns. Thanks to everyone who has helped.
2007-10-24 15:26:00 · update #1
it happens...my bf has changed so much...he used to be caring and do nething for me now hes a stubburn s.o.b. and the best thing to do is find a new guy or focus ur thoughts on a hobby u always wanted to learn
2007-10-23 08:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. You can think, and think, rehash, until you make yourself crazy. No one is worth that kind of torment. You are doing it to yourself, the only thing you can do is remember what you did, so you don't repeat it in another relationship, which you won't have if you keep obsessing about the ex. He said it like it is, everything that could be said has already been said. Have you heard the old saying" you can't beat a dead horse, " well you are beating a dead horse.
2007-10-23 08:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i does not carry her to blame for what occurred with you ex bf. supply her the income of the doubt except she aspects reason to no longer believe her. I propose i does not be telling each and every thing and something yet to this point as you could tell she went by way of the comparable ingredient and you men could in all probability strengthen a very great friendship because of the fact of it. Your ex is the asshole and you mustn't blame her for what occurred. Like I mentioned, except she aspects a reason to be disenchanted or mad at her... be friends!
2016-10-04 10:52:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, typical! That's a good word to sum the male emotions in a nut shell...... & sometimes there is just noting left to say that can change a thing! Possibly, only make the cut deeper, so if you have parted on speaking terms you have done something most can't do. I would leave it at that! If you continue to try to talk to him he won't even speak. Maybe this way in the future both of you will be civil. Time to turn the page in your life, if it was meant to be, then you would still be together!!!!!!!!!! Everyone has a destiny, he must not be yours & you must not be his either. I'm sure you will find yours in time. I'M POSITIVE!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-23 08:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think if he's shown that he doesn't want anything to continue that it's unfortunately time to move on. You will never forget him of course, but you have to move on with your life and not let memories control you. It's not worth wondering what could have been now that it's over. If you think it was your nagging, then in y our next relationship try to supress the nagging if you can. If anything, try and learn from the mistakes you think you may have made. Apparently it was not meant to be for the two of you, but maybe the next one will be.
2007-10-23 08:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to get him out of your head but once someone falls out of love with a person ... they do just that. they have no care for the other person and it's better to not talk because moving on from him is going to be hard. believe me, when my ex and i broke up it took me a year and a half and a hell a lot of alcohol and chocolate to keep me looking for someone better. now i have an awesome boyfriend who loves me and would do anything for me. it's hard to say "move on" if you haven't been in your situation but i understand you. it took me a long time but you'll see one day as clear as it can get that you need to really move on and in fact there are other men in the world for you. haha... good luck and don't look for him whether it be online or wherever he usually is. don't make urself look pathetic and lonely by looking for him. it makes him feel better about himself and you don't want to degrade yourself for just a stupid guy who doesn't even have the manners to say goodbye to you. good luck.
2007-10-23 08:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your Ex, then it's time to leave him alone. By repeatedly bothering him you are only fooling yourself into thinking there might be a slim chance he wants you back. Time to return to the real world, take a walk and see who might be just around the corner.
2007-10-23 08:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Steven D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your'e right, you need to move on, ..."go silently", ...because you are making a fool of yourself. NO guy is worth your own self dignity. So just do, ...get rid of anything that reminds you of him, ...everything!!....put it in a box, and in the attic when your'e able to handle it.
The right one will come along, dont look for him, he'll find you one day, .....He is not the one.
2007-10-23 08:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sounds to me like he doesn't want to be involved in your life at all anymore, which is really too bad for him. You just need to confide in your friends more and cut all ties with him. The sooner the better
2007-10-23 08:56:02 · answer #9 · answered by brina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are nagging him when they turn into your ex that means cut off from communication period!
find some goals sweetie and someone new will come along faster then you can say our ex's name!
hard yes but everyone has to do it! and i know you can !!
2007-10-23 08:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋