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Singles & Dating - 23 October 2007

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Last night I went over to his house. He was calling himself my dater friend. I was like what is that? Then he said "what do you want to call me?" Was he trying to have the talk with me? He calls everyday and there only a few days we don't see each other during the week because he has night classes. I have already met his parents.

2007-10-23 03:44:38 · 14 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3

I dont really like having my picture taken because I look so silly - Im kind of lIke Chandler off friends when he has his wedding photo taken!!

2007-10-23 03:44:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

do girls fall in love with boys who are sweet or do they just tend to say 'awwww your so sweet'???????

2007-10-23 03:39:47 · 20 answers · asked by supermann 2

like from a guys point of view plz help

2007-10-23 03:34:39 · 18 answers · asked by gwenfan113 2

I recently just broke up with my boyfriend and now I really need him back. I love him so much i just don't know what to do anymore. We were so close and were together for 2 and a half years. He just out of the blue broke up with me and I just found out he likes someone else. How do I make him realize that he still loves me and is only using her becasue she is closer to him distance wise and that we have so much together. What do I do I really want him back and I know he just didn't get over me.

2007-10-23 03:27:31 · 8 answers · asked by kylovehope 1

I wrote this poem and am in the process of publishing it, as well as others. I would love some feedback

Stranger Next To Me

I woke up this morning
with a stranger in my bed.
He was laying in the spot
where you’d always been.
I wondered how he got there
and why he wasn’t you.
Don’t remember when I met him
or how this could be true.
I didn’t recognize this man,
as he lay sleeping next to me.
Though he sort of looked like you,
I knew this couldn’t be.
Your loving arms around me-
had once felt so safe and strong;
but with his same arm slung over me
I felt trapped and in the wrong.
His body next to mine
had me feeling ill at ease.
His smell was reminiscent of you
but that offered no relieve.
Then I started thinking of you
and the way things used to be;
I wondered where it is you’ve been,
and that’s when it occurred to me.
All this time-
I don’t know how I hadn’t seen,
that indeed you’d become
this stranger next to me.

2007-10-23 03:25:18 · 17 answers · asked by .sincerious. 6

He's 25 & I'm 32. We have a strong sexual attraction but also are close & have a great friendship. Don't think he was just after sex either. I think I may offended him during and after sex by making comments that we had too much to drink (he was a little drunk) but that was only because I thought he would regret it & we could use alcohol as an excuse. We hardly ever talk on phone..either text or see each other at the gym (he teaches there). Sent him a text 4 days after sex and said I had great time but made comment that it would've been better without whiskey. Now I regret saying that. He's clearly avoiding me at the gym now(won't even look @me) but it almost seems like his feelings are hurt. Is it because of what I said? How can I find out if he's hurt or is just done with me cause he didn't have fun and/or got what he wanted? Don't want to keep making moves if he's just being a jerk but if he's hurt I want to fix it.

2007-10-23 03:24:58 · 8 answers · asked by JES 1

I have a friend that has been cheating for around 2 months. I have encouraged her strongly to tell her boyfriend, but she has not. I don't really know her boyfriend but I know what she is doing to him is wrong, should I tell him?

2007-10-23 03:21:59 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 18. Im in college.There's this girl in my class.She's hot. She stares at me.While having an exam,and after she's done with the paper..She'll just stare. Sometimes,I just freak out.I look away. She'll continue to stare even when I catch her staring. She stares a lot.And also, If you don't like someone, will you keep staring at him/her? or you will just look away when you see him/her? (implying to the girl) could she stare because she hates me?
Its an intense stare. not smiling, but not frowning or scowling either. just normal facial gestures.But she doesn't stop staring,she continues. Why me? could she hate me or something? and no,I check there's nothing wrong with my face or anything. So why the heck is she staring? She stares straight in my eyes. Could it be an intense stare?. She gives me a lot of eye contact,but I look away.She gives me a lot of eye contact.So,does she stare because she thinks that I'm ugly. When she's near she wont look my way.4 days back,she was still staring.I ignored her. After a while,she stopped staring at me.She stares at me everyday without fail.Im a girl btw,SHE STARES EVERYDAY..Two days back,she was walking alone today. Normally,she's with her friends.she was smiling a bit,and looking straight at me This time,I didn't leave her eye contact.She was a bit shy and she looked away...So,what does this mean Yesterday,While I was sitting with my frends and shifted my chair,..Later,I just went to the ladies,when I came back she was sitiing on my chair,talking to my frens and looking straight at me..And I immediately looked at her,She turned away..What does all this mean?And also,I dont know why she talks to all my frens expt me..

2007-10-23 03:18:58 · 11 answers · asked by samantha g 1

I met a man...fell in love...got engaged...got pregnant...shortly afterward, I found out that he had another girl who was pregnant. Now, she was pregnant when he and I met, but he lied to me about even "being" with her. I tried and tried to get past it, but there were a lot of things I felt he was being dishonest with me about. Later, I talked to the girl, and she told me that the baby wasn't his. We still had trust issues, and I told him that we needed time apart, to sort things out.

That was about two months ago. We've been talking...he tells me that he loves me, and wants to work things out..always saying that I shouldn't hold something against him that was in his past. Then I found out he was engaged to the first girl. Days later, I get a message from his girlfriend (not fiance'..a different girl)...long story short...he's got four children on the way now. Two with the girl I knew about, (turns out they ARE his), mine, and another from after me.

2007-10-23 03:18:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think i know someone likes me, and i like him awell
but theres a problem
he's never had a girlfriend and
i've never had a boyfriend.
i'm not gonna question wether he likes me becuase i just know by the way he acts around me and the way i'm around him is almost identical.
Okay so i've never even spoken to him except once on the internet.
He kind of hangs around with [[if i can call them this]] the "Popular" crowd but he's not like them he's different and i cant explain why he's just , well you can tell he's just with them becuase there isn't anyone else to hang with. I'm realy nervous around him so its hard to pluck up the courage to say anything to him or even look at him [ what would be a good way to get over this?]
and well about the people he hangs around with, there "Popular" which makes him that.It makes me feel a bit discouraged to know that well i'm not as popular as him although i have a fair amount of friends it still seems like he's better than me for some reason.

2007-10-23 03:17:23 · 19 answers · asked by Huggles [mozzafan] 4

I'm 6'1 and some men just go crazyy over me, but then again there are some men that are intimidated or not attracted to be because of my height, what do you think?

2007-10-23 03:10:45 · 13 answers · asked by TNsouthernbelle 1

just told the gilr who i really care for that i like her i felt like an idiot but i done it.

But then after i thought she didnt she told me she used to like me as well ..yeh used to i know i was gutted.But then i said do you still have feelings for me she said i dunno im just not ready for a relationship right now which i totally respect .

I mean both of us felt the same and i dont know what to do.she isnt a player no way i know her very well. Iam just feeling a bit sad that what could have been is or might be going?

I told her im ok with her not wanting to be in a relationship iam because all good things come to those who wait right?


so anyway im wondering what can i do to reassure her that being scared is ok and im not wanting her for one thing.

And also is all lost between this situation im in?


I feel happy but sad because i care about her so much and now i cant be with her.


Thanks peeps no rude answers xxxx take care

2007-10-23 03:07:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

especially when you have to be independent and face to a harsh reality of work as well?

2007-10-23 02:57:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

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brief description:

-in relationship for 2 years
-great sex life
-he's from a religious family
-now he wants to become religious meaning no sex before marriage
-he's mentioned this before but always gave in but now i know he's really serious.
-i love him to bits we even chatted about marriage
but with his having a lot on marriage won't be on the cards for another year maybe.
-what should i do? i know sex ain't the most important part of my relationship but it plays some part in showing how much we love one another.
-what wud u do?

2007-10-23 02:49:02 · 17 answers · asked by DaRkAnGeL 4

I will chose real love because it worth more than money and is real....

2007-10-23 02:48:40 · 14 answers · asked by CP 6

Ok so I had this dream about a guy that I know. I dont really see him a lot maybe three times a month. I never though of him as someone that I would like. After this dream, I'm totally infatuated with him. I don't get it. When ever I see him now my heart stops and one time I was talking to my best friend and I totally stopped talking and forgot what I was saying. How lame is this? Its probably the most stupid thing ever. The last time I saw him he was being really goofy around me and I'm trying to figure out if he still has a girlfriend or not. I dont just want to ask him becuase that would be really weird. After all of that, my question is, is it weird to like someone that you had a dream about?

2007-10-23 02:48:17 · 5 answers · asked by ♥love is all that matters♥ 2

a girl i like and i are the same height. is this a problem in a lasting relationship?

2007-10-23 02:48:12 · 21 answers · asked by 5050 1

is it true when they say that size does not matter, honest answers please and what really is too small, and before you ask 8inches and thick.

2007-10-23 02:47:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Fiance feels like she cant get any closer to you for fear of getting hurt but you plan to stay with her forever i have told her this but she is still scared how do you get her past this fear any advice appreciated thanks

2007-10-23 02:44:13 · 9 answers · asked by JUGGALO 1

I asked a girl out the other day. She say "she was very offended that someone so ugly would be interested in her." I was so shocked by this statement that I wasn't quite sure what to do. All I managed to mumble out was "uh... okay". She nice to most everyone, obviously except for me. I didn't ogle her or make inappropriate sexual comments either. I tried to be polite. Anyone else have something like this happen?

I was frankly humiliated and I'm pretty sure that I won't be asking out any more girls for a very long time.

2007-10-23 02:43:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

when you still had to face the hard reality without your partner,,,but now by yourself? I cannot sleep and concentrate on my work now because i am badly heartbroken, but I must get on in my life. I wake up at 5:00 and come home 22:00. I feel depressed, but I must get on with my life... only my freedom is weekend and the commuting time where i can listen to music. Give me some inspiration.

2007-10-23 02:34:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I havent really had a boyfriend before. I was sorta with this guy but hten he broke things off. Im 16 and ive never been kissed!! All my friends have and have done more than that. I just don't know whats wrong with me.

P.S. www.myspace.com/juliz09 is my myspace link if you want to see a picture.

2007-10-23 02:34:13 · 27 answers · asked by Jewyful13 3

I can;t imagine him not being in my life, yet it was real easy for him to get id of me as if I had no feelings, no say so, no opportunity to be the mirror to his faults as well that caused the demise of our affair

2007-10-23 02:32:37 · 8 answers · asked by barbara b 1

i really like this shy boy who stares at me alot and is giving nice comments on my hair and things i do. I'm really nice to him to like letting him copy my work when he can't figure something out. i see him everyday + have nearly every lesson with him. At first i thought he only liked me as a friend but his older brother told me he fancies me and wants me to ask him out because he is too shy to. I think i should ask him out but i'm really shy too! If i ask him what exact words shall i say to him and what shall i do if he says no. Also when abouts at school should i ask him and how do i get him on his own? please help!!!

2007-10-23 02:30:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-23 02:28:46 · 8 answers · asked by lincoln9057 1

and what can we do to get him down on the ground? and when he is down on the ground, THEN what can we do to KEEP him down from ever getting back up?

2007-10-23 02:26:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's a colleguage. We have been friends and kinda flirting with each other for like 3 months. He asked me out on a date. I waited for him for 4 hours, and he didn't show up. I tried calling him. His phone was off. I called many times n sent many text messages. but after 4 hours of waiting, he sent me a text message simply saying 'sorry. i got so drunk last night n couldn't get up'. that was it. i was angry, coz it hurt my pride n dignity to get stood up by a guy. i sent him many text messages. he didnt reply even one. he switched off his phone again. Then the next day he sent me message saying 'sorry' but he gave me the same reason. what i'm angry more is that he didnt reply my messages on that day. even if he truly sincerely couldn't get up, he should have explained to me in a nice way. so u think he's just a jerk who played with my feelings or should i forgive him?

2007-10-23 02:24:51 · 8 answers · asked by rose 2

im like 5ft 81/2 n i feel like a giraffe, should i love my height?
how tall r u?
considering im pakistani its a blow to me cuz paki girls are always genrally 5ft 4 i dont think ill ever find the right dude

2007-10-23 02:20:23 · 10 answers · asked by crazee gash 1

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