I think i know someone likes me, and i like him awell
but theres a problem
he's never had a girlfriend and
i've never had a boyfriend.
i'm not gonna question wether he likes me becuase i just know by the way he acts around me and the way i'm around him is almost identical.
Okay so i've never even spoken to him except once on the internet.
He kind of hangs around with [[if i can call them this]] the "Popular" crowd but he's not like them he's different and i cant explain why he's just , well you can tell he's just with them becuase there isn't anyone else to hang with. I'm realy nervous around him so its hard to pluck up the courage to say anything to him or even look at him [ what would be a good way to get over this?]
and well about the people he hangs around with, there "Popular" which makes him that.It makes me feel a bit discouraged to know that well i'm not as popular as him although i have a fair amount of friends it still seems like he's better than me for some reason.
2007-10-23 03:17:23 · 19 answers · asked by Huggles [mozzafan] 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl! Girl! Girl!! Where is your confidence.???? Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself "I Love You" So if the guy is popular or not, if he is the right one for you, It will certainly work out. Just hold your head high, Tell yourself" I am the most beautiful girl in the world' there is no one like me"" and walk up to him and say"HI!" "wanna have a cup of coffee???" and if he is interested, he will smile first and say" why not"?? if he's not interested ,!! he will give you a strange look . Thats your cue to walk away. He might not have been worth it after all. So cheer up girl, there are plenty fish in the sea. Some good ones too.!!
2007-10-23 03:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by angelic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well firstly you need to get over the whole "he's better than me" thing, it's crap and not a good head space to get into. You need to get more confident in yourself! He might have more friend but I'm sure they are bitchy and manipulative.
I am English and so never experienced the "popular crowd" thing, (thank god!) but you need to start by believing that you are just as good as these people.
Try to strike up conversation with this guy, maybe when he's alone or not in a big group of people if it would make you feel more comfortable or even online. Try to get to know him and a relationship will blossom forth, whether friendship or otherwise... I hope this helps a little. Good luck.
2007-10-23 03:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by Clementine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you sure have alot of asumptions about this guy and you have never even spoke with him except on the internet?!
When someone assumes something, there is a really good chance of making an as s outta yourself. Why dont you just continue the conversing on the computer for a bit, get to know him more. If he starts talking to you at school too, then thats a good thing. If he only talks to you on the computer and no where else, then id move on with your feelings.
2007-10-23 03:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by louie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isnt better than you darling, never think yourself inadequate to anybody! You say your sure he likes you - GREAT! Then get to know him through the internet and see what happens. it doesnt matter youv never had a boyfriend, you'll get one one day I promise, you sound so nice and kind! I think though that if you are that akward around him you either need to leave it or gather all the courage you have and talk to him. When you really like someone, it shouldnt be awkward and uncomfortable, you should just click. Good luck sweetheart! xxx
2007-10-23 03:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you make yourselve seem more confident with yourself then that will probably make him talk to you. Just because you know you like him and he likes you - does he KNOW you like him? Blokes are not mind readers and if you aren't giving him the knowing looks and smiles he probably doesn't know!!! There is no way to get over your confidence problem then just grinning and bearing it - the first time is always hard!!
Is there anyway you could chat to him again on the internet? that might be the best way to approach him, say i always want to say hello at school, but im too shy as you always have someone with you, that might make him come to you in future.
2007-10-23 03:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by LISA B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok,you have a fear that if you tell anything he will live you.So don't go directly to talk just make a best friendship with him because
JISE DIL KA QALAM AUR MOHABBAT KI INK KEHTE HAI
JISE LAMHO KI KITAB AUR YAADON KA COVER KEHTE HAI
YEHI WO SUBJECT HAI JISE LOG FRIENDSHIP KEHTE HAI.
make him that his only your's best and best friend and slowly he only fall in love with you this is the relationship of friendship at end everyone will fall in love.
Life is a Flower and Love is its Nector.
So every person will have Love in their Life but if make as your best friend than it is compulsary that he will Love it is absulately correct in Films and in Really Life
2007-10-23 03:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by mohammed g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look love don't ever think of yourself that way always remember that all that popularity is just school when you are older in the real world those things do not count .now i don't know about you guys dating the thing is that if u guys start that means you will have to leave your friends and be with his or he will have to leave his own friends and hang out with yours .that means thing you should think about is you what ever makes you happy and males you fill good with yoursel
2007-10-23 03:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would either go up to him and talk to him like u have known him forever and then that will make him comfortable with u and then u will begin to talk and all or write him a lil letter and tell him that u want to get to kno him for ur own lil reasons and he will be noisey so he will talk to u and then later when u guys are talkin and he asks about u u tell him that he'll find out soon enough then when u guys are even closer and he askd tell him that u wanted to talk to him cuz u liked him! lol
2007-10-23 03:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by Paige M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably just as shy as you are...take that into consideration....the thing with men is they are usually one extreme or the other, so if he's not very forward it probably wont change....Do you have the opportunity to bump into ,like taking your dog for walk past his place, because guys are usually different (better) when away from friends.....try to make the opportunity happen to be alone or semi alone with him....patientence will pay, until it either happens or you end up liking someone else
2007-10-23 03:29:52 · answer #9 · answered by andianaplus3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like you are more comfortable talking to him on the net than in person which is entirely normal as it does give you more of a sense of distance, and cos he can't see you getting nervous etc.
why don't you try to talk to him on the net a bit more, get to know him a bit more first, and see what happens.
2007-10-23 03:24:20 · answer #10 · answered by You'll Never Take Me Alive!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋