Compulsive Liar?

Question

I met a man...fell in love...got engaged...got pregnant...shortly afterward, I found out that he had another girl who was pregnant. Now, she was pregnant when he and I met, but he lied to me about even "being" with her. I tried and tried to get past it, but there were a lot of things I felt he was being dishonest with me about. Later, I talked to the girl, and she told me that the baby wasn't his. We still had trust issues, and I told him that we needed time apart, to sort things out.

That was about two months ago. We've been talking...he tells me that he loves me, and wants to work things out..always saying that I shouldn't hold something against him that was in his past. Then I found out he was engaged to the first girl. Days later, I get a message from his girlfriend (not fiance'..a different girl)...long story short...he's got four children on the way now. Two with the girl I knew about, (turns out they ARE his), mine, and another from after me.

According to my calculations, she got pregnant RIGHT after he and I separated...He lied to me, to her, and to a LARGE number of other women..saying that he hadn't been with anyone in 2 years...

Now...my question is...is there anything that I can do...legally...about this, besides child support. This man is a fraud, and a compulsive liar...not to mention a sex addict.

I have been tested for std's , and got the all clear from my dr. I'm pretty sure I won't be able to collect child support, as the first girl was underage when she got pregnant (he is 31). Her parents are filing statutory rape charges against him. I won't be able to collect child support until he gets out of prison. Not that child support is a big concern. I make decent money on my own, and can fully support my family. (I also have a ten year old daughter). What I'm wondering, is, do I have any legal recourse against him. I was done having children before we were engaged. He wanted a big family (which he has now) and I wanted a family with this man. This was not a one night stand...This was a relationship that meant a lot to me, I was prepared to spend the rest of my life with him...I'm not some little hussy that jumps in the sack with every Tom, Dick, and Harry. I loved him very much. That being said, I have no intention on rekindling any relationship with him...he cannot be trusted..

Answer 1

Geesh I feel bad for you. I think you need to post this question under the legal catagory instead of the family catagory. Also try calling an attny near you, most all of them give free consultation and can give you accurate advice and what you can do to this freak. Good luck....if its possible try to let us know what the outcome is..

Answer 2

there is not much else you can do about that other than to get the child support and urge the other girls to file as well but I doubt that he is going to have enough money to pay the child support for all of you. If he does go somewhere like myspace to meet these girls you could set up your own myspace to tell people about him and give his name to prevent others who see that from falling into the same thing. The fact that all of you can file for child support is going to keep him broke for a long time and that perhaps is the best revenge you can get unless you see him in public with another girl and you can walk up to him and ask for money for his children.
Just be glad that you did not marry this creep!!