I recently just broke up with my boyfriend and now I really need him back. I love him so much i just don't know what to do anymore. We were so close and were together for 2 and a half years. He just out of the blue broke up with me and I just found out he likes someone else. How do I make him realize that he still loves me and is only using her becasue she is closer to him distance wise and that we have so much together. What do I do I really want him back and I know he just didn't get over me.
2007-10-23 03:27:31 · 8 answers · asked by kylovehope 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't waste your time. Channel efforts into something else, something better, something worthwhile and productive, and eventually that'll get you to someone worth all that you have to give.
And that's not the ex.
Harsh, hurtful, cold and mean, but true nonetheless.
2007-10-23 03:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you may possibly be in denial.
Maybe he felt as though things were "too serious" and decided that he doesn't want something so committed.
I don't think that it is possible to "win" people back. If he loves you and wants to be with you, the two of you will get back together. But if he doesn't, I wouldn't take it personally.
Sounds like you guys are young, there will be plenty of gfs/bfs in your futures.
I think that you should deal with you emotions as sensibly as possible and not focus on negative things about yourself.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe you will meet someone that treats you better, etc.
Hope this helps!
2007-10-23 10:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jae Rae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont make him realize anything, he has to do that on his own. You dont know the actual reason he went to this other girl and you may feel you had so much together but he may not have. Time will only tell what is gonna happen and you shouldnt sit around and mope and wait for him to figure things out. You gotta live your life too, so go out, have fun.
2007-10-23 10:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by louie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it sucks but let it go. He broke up with you and you need to respect that if you want ANY second chance at all. If he was meant to be yours, he'll come back around. In the mean time...go out with friends and keep yourself occupied with ANYTHING but obsessing over him. It's sometimes hard to accept that someone doesn't want you. It doesn't mean they don't care or that your time together meant nothing, it just means that it's time to move on for one person or another.
2007-10-23 10:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by seafires1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make someone love you, I think you just need to move on girl.
2007-10-23 10:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he don't want you, hes moved on, you can't make him love you. Accept it. Sounds hard but the soon you face facts the better.
2007-10-23 10:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by kate d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gonna really put-out, I mean to the max.
2007-10-23 10:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there was a reason why you split! just move on
2007-10-23 10:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋