I need to try to get over being jealous about everywoman my husband talks to. he works with pretty women that are younger then me, (i am 32 and he is 47almost 48) we have been married 10 years and together for 12. he has always been a flirt, but a couple years ago he was talking to this girl he works with( texting her) and playing a game with other guy co workers to see who could get her to like them best. he told her all kinds of lies, like we were seperated and getting a divorce, that he hated me, and so forth. he knew he was wrong, and admitted he was wrong, but swears nothing sexual happened, and I believe him. but he still talks to other women, and says its just friends, but how do i get this past thing out of my head? I want to trust him again, but my mind wont let me stop thinking he is doing the same things with other women. Im afraid I will lose him if I keep going in this direction. please help me, serious answers only, I will not leave him, so please serious answers only.
2007-10-17
11:21:40
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