Singles & Dating - 17 October 2007

2007-10-17 06:10:10 · 31 answers · asked by Krystina 2

And she got involved with this guy sexually with a white guy(she's black)She told me that this guy never been with a black woman sexually,and he doesn't want a relationship with black women just his own race only.I mentioned to her that this guy was just playing you,cause of her race,but she don't want to hear it,and now the guy don't want anything to do with her now.I'm concerned what should I do?

2007-10-17 06:03:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 24 and been having this problem ever since highschool, I never been on a date, or kissed or even received a girl phone number. Its been getting worse, its like I don't want to be near any group of females for a sustained amount of time.

2007-10-17 06:01:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

depending on the sex:

rough wild sex: Closer-NIN
sweet sex: Fade into you-Mazzy Star

2007-10-17 05:59:16 · 20 answers · asked by L 4

imagine you got in an argument, a big one, and they were yelling at you telling you were selfish and self centered, so you said f*%$ you and hung up. if you were the other person, would you just up and leave and say you never wanted to talk to them again? or would you work it out after the two of you calmed down?

2007-10-17 05:57:53 · 67 answers · asked by *~§air§~* 2

was wondering if my guy friend likes me as a friend or more. Here is a list of the following things that have happened.
1) He texted me asking how work went, if anything was going on later and if I made it home ok.
2) He has asked me to give him rides before
3) Asks to go places with me
4) Borrowed a pair of my sweat pants when he slept over my house during a party and kept them
5) He once joked with me when he slept over on how he was going to walk home at five in the morning to prove to everyone how close his house is to mine. He pretended to leave but really went downstairs and then laughed when i found him...then we ended up sleeping on the couch
6) He came over my house to watch a movie
7) Laughs at the things i do or say
8)wore my necklace
9) gave me a massage
10) Gave me the first cd that he ever made
11) Hugged me goodbye leaving for college
12) apoliges for small things
13)remembers small things about me
Do you think he likes me more than a friend and how do no

2007-10-17 05:56:46 · 7 answers · asked by Beeskneez 1

what i really want to know is when is the safest period to have sex without getting pregnant. my last period dated to 08th october...and the next one will be around 6th-8th november.
some say its 5 days after period and 7 days before the next period...... i would really appreciate if i cud get an accurate answer to my question.
Counting on your prompt reply.
regards

2007-10-17 05:55:45 · 15 answers · asked by angy516 1

my ex-girlfriend broke up with me about 8 months ago, and just recently in like the past month or so she started to try and talk to me again, so i went with it. We spent a few nights together, and hung out a few more times. She tells me shes in love with me, and that she wants to be with me, have kids, and get married oneday, but she tells me that she has alot of stuff on her mind, and just cant be in a relationship right now. Ive even herd that she loves me and wants to be with me from other people she has told, but when it comes to me saying something about us dating again, she just says eventually things will work out, and that i do want to be with you, but i got alot of things on my mind to think about that right now. i mean is she just needing her space? do you think she is affraid of something? she also told me that she would cry, not thinking she would ever get another chance with me, and that she made a mistake, but she isnt doing any thing about it. im so confused. HELP.......

2007-10-17 05:52:45 · 14 answers · asked by wyte529 1

There is this guy that I like. But now I am giving up I do not know if im just give "meanings" on everything that he do like smiling talking to me or being nice to me. I want to convince myself that he is just being friendly. But there is this feeling inside of me that he likes me too, that is why my mind keeps telling me that he does not like me more than a friend but my heart does not what should I do

2007-10-17 05:49:47 · 5 answers · asked by shibereta 2

Is it that he doesn't have a ring? He asks me all the time if I love him and makes me promise and swear I do. He constantly pulls me to the jewlery counter or store and asks me tons of questions about if I like this ring or that diamond, if it is big enough, if it is thin enough.... What is his deal? Is he leading me on or what? How should I answer those questions? And he has major trust issues cause his last wife did him so wrong--- will those ever go away or do I just have to deal with it?

2007-10-17 05:48:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

She lives far away from me, and ive lost her phone no, but i ave her email addy/her home addy
Anyways she is 31 and in a " relationship" with this 27 yr old who lives a 4 hrs drive away from her, who is still a member of match.com!? left his relationship status on facebook as blank ?( she has hers as listed in a relationship), she lives in his home town where he has friends and family, he stays the weekends with her about twice month. he still has pics and msgs of his ex and former conquests,on his phone. i know 1 of them and he was sending her sexy txt asking her 2 meet up wiv him? I just think he is using her as place to stay and a back up sh@g.
I think he is a slimeball and( NO, i have no interest in getting wiV him, before all you cynics start)
im tempted to send her (anon) that book called "he is just not that into you" and write a brief note saying he is on match and his user name is x.
I dont want to be mean 2 her but what sort of things can i say?

2007-10-17 05:44:47 · 20 answers · asked by raggyann 3

on suday on of my friends who is 18 asked me out and i sayed yes i like him alot but im not sure if my dad will aprove when he meet him. what should i do. and when my brother meets him is going to give him a condom and he is still a vergin

2007-10-17 05:41:39 · 15 answers · asked by angle f 2

Okay so Mine an my boyfriend's one year is coming up in 22 days.. he asked me to make him one of my cakes that he loves, but i was wondering what should i do or get for him.. by the way im 17 and he is 18.. thanks for the help ;-)*

2007-10-17 05:41:24 · 14 answers · asked by JBaByGurL 1

Im losint my true love. We been friends for 10 yrs & been together 3. he's all i have in this world. Literally. But i have issues & the help i need costs too much. I cant seem to get things right, and im losing him more everyday. I have a really bad attitude, mostly because of the way i was raised, and i take it out on him which i dont mean too, but hes all i have to vent on. & when im mad and ask for space, he keeps on asking me then i snap beign the heat of the moment. When i left i made a choice which basically left me with no family or friends he's all i have. Please someone help me to where i might be able to get my attitude under control & not be so mean. I dont mean it & when i try to hide from it so i dont be that way it just gets worse. Please help. If i lose this i lose my love, my home & my best & only friend. This is it. I have no where else to go, no home no family, no friends.

2007-10-17 05:36:56 · 15 answers · asked by cherrios85 1

2007-10-17 05:33:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love that 50's look almost like Betty Boop, classic cars, that Dita Von Teese look. Is it sexy and attractive?

2007-10-17 05:30:47 · 32 answers · asked by spleefarella 2

I am looking for that special someone. I have tried online, through friends, dating, and going out. I just cant found that special someone. Why?

2007-10-17 05:30:10 · 11 answers · asked by pencil1212 1

him I found him on myspace and sent a message, and everyday I am obessed to know if he cheaked his messages? I was 14 when I dated him now I am 26years old it was so long ago do you think deep down inside I still love him and not admiting it to myself? PLease help/ I do love my boyfriend very much though this is just to confusing?

2007-10-17 05:26:06 · 12 answers · asked by jennifer 1

I broke up with my ex boyfriend last summer. We are still good friends though. The other day I told him I missed him and he said he missed me too. Yesterday he told me he knew I missed him before I told him so. So I asked him, "what else do you know," He said "I know lots of things , what would you like to know?" So I asked him to tell me what he wants me to know, in the hope that he would tell me how he feels about me. he answered ," you are a clever girl, anything you need to know I am sure you already know."

I can feel he still has feelings for me but I am not quite sure. All I know is he still compliments me and tells me he thinks I am perfect and I am the best company. and that he wishes I was there to greet him after he gets home from work. He is coming see me later this year and its going to be a 12 hour flight for him.
Does it sound like he still has feelings for me? How do I get him to tell me how he feels

2007-10-17 05:25:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

after a long drawn-out break-up with my first love, I am soon to be leaving the area (for job reasons, not because of the relationship).

Deep down I want to go and see my ex, only briefly, to say a proper farewell, even though a lot of the time I get annoyed at him when we talk, because he keeps bringing up issues regarding the relationship.

I'm going to miss him very much, even though we don't really talk much any more. I know he'd probably want to see me.

What should I do?

2007-10-17 05:24:52 · 16 answers · asked by nypherbel 2

Have you ever thought about someone you really like constantly but when they called you, you found yourself lost for words? I've been talking to this guy I met online for like 9 months now but we've never met in person because he's in the military and is in a different country right now. He says he really likes me and wants to meet me and I could see it happening. Lately we haven't been able to talk on the phone as much as we used to because I got a new job and the time that he would normally call me I would be at work. Yesterday was my off day and I was sleeping but he called me late in the night and I was glad that it was him but I just couldn't talk to him there were alot of these long awkward pauses on the phone and he would ask "why are you being so quiet?" I was really happy to hear his voice so why the silence after almost 2 weeks of not being able to talk to him???????????

2007-10-17 05:24:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, I am a 30 Yr + normal person living in HK. I have a steady BF. We got along fine but he is more adventerous in bed than I am. Recently he stopped taking any interested in me. I found that he is seeing a fillipina in his office. She is 20 yrs old. I confronted her. She said that she is married, her husband works in Saudi Arabia, and she is only trying to supplement her income. She will leave my BF the day she finds a richer man. Meanwhile, she is giving my man everything he has wanted in bed but I am not willing to provide. Blowjobs, coming in mouth, applying chocolate syrup on the body and then wiping it clean, handcuff. They even videotape their sessions!!! I am concerned about my BF. I can forgive him if he forgets this slut immediately and emerges clean from a medical checkup. But I don't think I can ever match this girl in her actions. My man is a good one at heart and I can tolerate his mistake. But how to ensure that I can retain him for good? Anyone with similar experience?

2007-10-17 05:19:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this adorable little freshman (Robert) in my class (seniors and freshmen are mixed in this class) and his friend heard me say that i thought he was so cute,( he really is he's like 4 feet tall) and he told Robert. I wasn't expecting him to this cause i know its an insult to a guy especially when it comes from an older girl, and now i feel bad. Then Robs friend(the one who overheard me) came over later and said Rob wanted to talk to me. So i told him i was really tired and he'd have to come over to me, then he never did. What do you think he wanted to talk to me about, and i feel really bad what do i do?

2007-10-17 05:17:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I moved into a new apartment building about two months ago, and have had my eye on a guy that lives above me. We've talked superficially (small-talk kind of stuff), and have just recently started to hang out. He asked for my number and he seems really cool. We both smoke pot so that is something cool we have in common. We have good conversation for the most part and I can tell he's not a weirdo or anthying. The problem is I looked him up on Myspace and his profile picture is really douchey. I couldn't look at his profie because he has it set on private, but his picture really turned me off. It's like a web cam pic with a really douchey half smile and a Hurley hat sideways. It's like he's trying to look hot for the ladies but it's not working. Myspace can tell a lot about a person. What do you think of all this? Am I just being stupid?

2007-10-17 05:15:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

guys, what are your pickup lines?

2007-10-17 05:08:04 · 9 answers · asked by blonde_chick 2

I have been talking to a really nice guy lately and I think he might be into me but I'm not sure. He said that our kids look good together so is he hinting that we would have a nice blended family? We had a date set up and he had to cancel but then a few days later he bought me a gift to make up for it, but we have yet to reschedule the date??Some days he seems really interested and other days he doesn't. I can't read him very well and I usually don't have a problem with it!

2007-10-17 05:05:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

k well me and this guy have been friends for the longest time...to make a long story short a friend of his that is 21(im 15) got my number from his phone and he wont stop calling me...he is a nice guy and i have tried to give him clues to stop calling me...but he calls everyday like 6 times and if i dont answer he will leave a message saying to expect his call later...ive already told my friend about this and he has tried almost everything to get him to stop calling me and he wont....what can i do to get him to stop calling without being really harsh!

2007-10-17 05:04:52 · 21 answers · asked by SimplySweet 2

I am engaged to the man of my dreams however he is a virgin and I am not. Please dont judge me!!! I have been baptised since and I have been forgiven I have attended church three days a week every since. I only did it once. And i have regreted it ever since. But it makes him mad at me when he thinks about it because of what I have done. We have not had sex and are not going to until the honey moon. I just want to know what i should say to him. I cant imagine what I would do if it was the other way around. I have told him that its not like I cheated on him. It was 1 year before we started dating. I feel bad but it is starting to make me mad. We have been together for almost 3 years and he has know this from the start . I dont want to loose him over something that happened before we started dating. What should I do? Please help. Thanks.

2007-10-17 05:00:21 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I planned to stay at my girlfriends this wkend because her parents are out, so supposly i thought I will indeed sleep with her at night.

However she has told me she has heavy bedtime incontience (I think thats the right word) and she has to wear some adult diapers at night.

Its all abit strange for a 18 year old girl to be wearing diapers at night.. Nonetheless it didnt bother me, at first, untill I woke up the next morning with a girl lying half on top of me wearing a heavy sagging diaper.. i mean, you wouldn't want to leave her lying next to you in a soggy sack of her own urine, right? yes gross as it may seem..

I still love her I find this abit "werid" in a way. Does anyone have any advice? Its all I strange situation so advice would be helpful . Thanks

2007-10-17 04:49:02 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is a nice guy but unreliable, disorganised, a drug/alcohol abuser and an idiot when drunk. i think i should finish it but will i be throwing the baby out with the bathwater? i will miss the sex, the affection, the companionship, etc

2007-10-17 04:45:49 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous