My girlfriend wears diapers at night!!?

Question

Ok, I planned to stay at my girlfriends this wkend because her parents are out, so supposly i thought I will indeed sleep with her at night.

However she has told me she has heavy bedtime incontience (I think thats the right word) and she has to wear some adult diapers at night.

Its all abit strange for a 18 year old girl to be wearing diapers at night.. Nonetheless it didnt bother me, at first, untill I woke up the next morning with a girl lying half on top of me wearing a heavy sagging diaper.. i mean, you wouldn't want to leave her lying next to you in a soggy sack of her own urine, right? yes gross as it may seem..

I still love her I find this abit "werid" in a way. Does anyone have any advice? Its all I strange situation so advice would be helpful . Thanks

Answer 1

i had a colon problem and had to wear a bag attached to my stomach for a year it sucked but i am alive
it may have been grose especially if and when it fell off at inconvtant times as they do but my wife didnt stop loveing me for that if you cant handle it you need to move on as she deserves better thain that

Answer 2

Would you rather be lying on a wet bed? Night incontinence is not that rare, many people suffer with it. Some people at times sleep so deep that the muscles that control the bladder are relaxed causing the incontinence. Keagle exercises will help, as well as restricting fluid intake 3 hours before bed, setting a alarm to waken during the night to use the bathroom are all things that can help. There is treatment for this using a moisture monitor that attaches to the under garment and will sound a alarm, and other forms but many people are embarrassed to admit the problem to a doctor or anyone else. She must care a lot for you to tell you, so protect her confidence. Without daytime incontinence this may be something she will out grow. My son had the same problem and it continued to age 20, he is now free of it.

Answer 3

Incontinence ~~ is sometimes brought on by stress and many other health issues, and it is NOT her fault and it is NOT gross! I have been a nurse for many years and I can say from experience that she could someday be free from this OVER NIGHT! if it is due to stress at home, if there are other reasons it may be something she will never overcome. I am POSSITIVE she did not wake up one day saying GOD I WISH I could wear diapers FOREVER! I think your an AMAZING GIRL for not judging her! Incredible for her to have a friend so relaxed and understanding, I wish there were more people in the world EXACTLY LIKE YOU!!! You understand in a way~~ that she cannot control this ~~~ What an AMAZING friend you ARE!!!! Don't be worried about waking up to a wet diaper, chances are she wears them just in case she has an accident. Incontinence is so embarassing and she just fortunate to be able to have a friend that doesn't judge her by her misfortunes. You truly are an INCREDIBLE FRIEND! One in a million!

Answer 4

It is not her fault and I know if she could help it, she would not wear a diaper. She may have a weak bladder and should not be looked down on because of her condition because she did not ask to be that way. She must really love and trust you to share something as big as this. You think that you are embarrassed, can you imagine the humiliation she must feel to have to go through such extremes of putting on a diaper? One day, we all will grow old and have some part of us that won't work the way it used to but we would still want to feel love.

Answer 5

She might have a medical condtion that makes her have to wear a diaper. Did she tell you anything? If she is wearing it because she doesnt feel like getting up to the restroom then something is wrong with her mentally. You should talk to her about it because the whole situation is might I also say weird.

If she has a medical condition is understandable but if she is just doing it to do it then no lol get as far away as you can.

Answer 6

If she cares about you and you all have a good relationship tell her how you feel! Tell her you still love her but you would prefer if she didn't lay on you at night, simple as that. She should understand-I'm sure she wouldn't want someone wearing a used diaper laying on her. It doesn't have to be mean cuz she should understand how you feel.

Answer 7

Has your girlfriend sought medical advice? There are medications and surgeries that can help the problem. My son went through a similar problem with a reflux problem of the bladder combined with heavy sleeping. Nice to see that you did not runaway.

Answer 8

i really dont know waht to say except, your a good guy for still loving her for who she is, a lot of guys would totally blow her off but i also understand your slight disgust with that, since you know about it though, it shoud bring you two closer and you can talk to her about it now so try researching ways on how people can get out of the habbit of needing a diaper, i know there are ways, maybe soon she wont need one anymore

Answer 9

Try and cope with the fact that not everybody is as lucky as you.
My best advice is to tell her how much you love her whether she wears diapers or not, and then help her with her problem.

Answer 10

if you love her all you can do is help her find ways around this problem it is usually caused by a trama when younger or could possibly be a medical condition, however like you said nonetheless you still love her and if you love her that much you will help her through this problem