k well me and this guy have been friends for the longest time...to make a long story short a friend of his that is 21(im 15) got my number from his phone and he wont stop calling me...he is a nice guy and i have tried to give him clues to stop calling me...but he calls everyday like 6 times and if i dont answer he will leave a message saying to expect his call later...ive already told my friend about this and he has tried almost everything to get him to stop calling me and he wont....what can i do to get him to stop calling without being really harsh!
2007-10-17 05:04:52 · 21 answers · asked by SimplySweet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like if you let this continue he will become a bigger problem following you around. Tell him straight up to stop calling you, you are not interested and that you have a boyfriend.
2007-10-17 05:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Hottie#1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in the exact same situation as you are. i was 16 and the guy was 23! i don't think you have to worry about being too harsh, sometimes that is really just the only way to get rid of him. i even triend practically hanging up the phone on him. or just simply tell him right out that you're not interested.... i know2x, if you've tried all of this and its still not working, well... what i did (after about a year of his "stalking" me with the constant phone calls) was tell him i had a boyfriend. i didn't really. just some close guy friends who pretended to for my sake. that pretty much did it. unfortunately, he still sometimes calls my house once in awhile. luckily, my current boyfriend is with me on those times and he talks to guy. that pretty much ends the conversation and i don't hear from him for like a month or so... then he calls again hoping my boyfriend and i have already broken up, which fortunately we haven't and probably neber will! good luck!!!!!!!!
2007-10-17 05:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by einah1422 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Dont answer the phone at all.
2.If you do decide to answer dont talk much. Give short answers or something.
3. Tell him you have a boyfriend.
4. Tell him your parents wont let you talk on the phone wth him anymore b/c or his age.
2007-10-17 05:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by Melly18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already tried telling him to stop calling you get your number changed or block his
2007-10-17 05:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by Murders Princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a good friend of yours to pretend to be your boyfriend and answer the phone for you. Believe me it will only happen once. And the guy helping you out doesn't have to be really mean or anything. He just has to let the other guy know who he is (your boyfriend).
2007-10-17 05:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by miarmyguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mother and ask her for advice. Block his number, that will stop him calling you, you might need her help with that. Obviously this guy is a predator and you can always file for a restraining order. Trust me, he is NOT a nice guy.
2007-10-17 05:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by Wiz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what you do. Nest time he calls, open up your mouth, and say:
"Stop calling me".
You can follow up by telling him you don't like him, and his obsessive calling is creepy, and would be immature on a nine year old, but for a 21 year old it's pathetic.
2007-10-17 05:10:36 · answer #7 · answered by supafly_fresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all YOUR 15 and he is 21 - he can go to jail very easly if you report him.
Tell him your not interested and your mom is monitoring your calls now and has indicated that she is going to report this to the police if he calls anymore because you'r a minor.
Don't grow up too fast !!!
2007-10-17 05:14:00 · answer #8 · answered by jtabor5740 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u need 2 tell him harshly 2 leave u alone & that there is an age difference. Tell him straight up that u r not interested. Hope my advice helps.
2007-10-17 06:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by Rose J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but you need to be harsh or he wont stop. and if after being harsh, he doesnt stop, file a restraining order. He will be arrested if he calls you
2007-10-17 05:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by sexy_nena707 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋