I have been talking to a really nice guy lately and I think he might be into me but I'm not sure. He said that our kids look good together so is he hinting that we would have a nice blended family? We had a date set up and he had to cancel but then a few days later he bought me a gift to make up for it, but we have yet to reschedule the date??Some days he seems really interested and other days he doesn't. I can't read him very well and I usually don't have a problem with it!
2007-10-17 05:05:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay I have asked him to do stuff (had good tickets for a football game and he couldn't make it because of work) and we were at a bonfire last week together through mutual friends and taking it slow IS fine but I just am not sure if he's interested or scared I don't like him.
2007-10-17 05:18:28 · update #1
So why don't you call him and reschedule it.
2007-10-17 05:08:34 · answer #1 · answered by tetlitea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to sound negative (as we all want to find the right person), but it sounds to me like you may not be the only person he has "interests" in.
From my "single" days I remember blowing a little hot and cold based on who was in my life at the time and how that was going. I wasn't seeing multiple people or anything, but if I was spending time chatting to someone and met someone else, it would sometimes change the way I treated the first person... Sometimes it was lack of interest, sometimes confusion. That doesn't read too well, but I am sure that you get the point.
I may be wrong, but please, tread carefully to protect your emotions.
Good luck!
2007-10-17 12:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His little loves, the ex-wife and his parents all take a place ahead of you...then the job and friends. so you feel skitzo? that is how it will be, you'll be on/off, in/out, up/down all because you will not be the #1 priority. think about this NOW, i wasted 2 and 1/2 years trying to "blend" oil and vinegar!
2007-10-17 12:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by LuckyEddie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's a case where sometimes there is a lot on his mind like maybe work, etc; I think this guy really like. you need to display a little more patience and see where it leads to. Let him know that you are a little confuse because sometimes you are not sure if he is really interested and hear what he has to say about it.
2007-10-17 12:14:41 · answer #4 · answered by anny f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right. He is very hard to read. He might be seeing somebody and wants to break up with her, then come back to you. Go about your life and if somebody else asks you out, go for it. Don't wait on this guy. If he comes back, then tell him you are interested in a relationship with him then ask him if he is available and ready.
2007-10-17 12:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by Frank 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry too much about it. If he asks you out again, go and have a good time. If he does not, then focus on other aspects of your life, like your family and friends. You can have a fun even without him.
2007-10-17 12:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should ask him, if he says no then move on and find someone else, and if he says yes then goodie for you, just hurry up and gte it over with cause you dont want to look back 2 months later and think, wow that guy was a huge waste of time.
2007-10-17 12:09:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know why he cancelled?He seems to be giving you mixed signals.OK try being more forward with him and have a heart to heart with him.Good luck. ps.I know you will anyway but consider the children on both sides.
2007-10-17 12:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by HIGHWAYSTAR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are both adults, i'm sure you both have had other relationships, communication should now be a bit easier. talk to him. dont sound needy or obsessed, just be easy going and keep it light. but he does sound kind of married....
2007-10-17 12:37:46 · answer #9 · answered by Holly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bottom line ...not enough interest!!
He is probably weighing your qualities against 3 or 4 others!!
he is just playing the field!!
Source: me
2007-10-17 12:08:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe he is busy with life, and forgot how to forget everything like an 18 year old when he falls for someone, if you like him, go for it, do something incredibly romantic to see what he does.
2007-10-17 12:09:10 · answer #11 · answered by pantiquay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋