This is personal, and I appreciate your care in answering:
My GF and I have been together 3 years and usually have no problems in our sex life as a whole. It is healthy, fun and we are both content with each other's abilities and performance. However, she has always been very "shy" if that's the right word. Lights off during love-making sort of girl. She talks a lot about how uncomfortable she is with her body and stomach, even though she is 5'4" and 120 lbs, which seems very healthy to ME. I love her for who she is, but I thought she shared my sex drive when I first got into the relationship. She basically doesn't. Again, I know for a fact she has no issues with me or my performance, but I this self-image mentality is starting to affect our intimacy. Since we have sex less (from every other day to now twice a month), I have been going out of my mind! She tells me she WANTS to have more sex, badly, she just feels "not confident". Is this for real or is the issue something with me?
2007-10-17
09:57:26
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