this girl i know had a guy break up wth her twice. said he wsa cheating and all. calld week later said he loved missed her needed her. sent flowers and said text him next day if he still had chance, she did. then he brought another girl to her workplace. she asked him why she takin out another girl, then kept an eye on them for bout 10 minutes, then asked her boss to leave early. she then text him at 3 am sayin hes lame and ddnt have to bring other girls if he wants to see her. then for the next 2 weeks he would txt foul messags like dirty whre and said her vagina smelld like ahole. she always delayed meeting himor played games with him. then he asked for another chance, she said she dont think she should love someone like him. he askd to fix thngs, she said ok but she startin fresh things arnt gonna be the same.even threatnd to put restrain order on him, but responded to his txt 3 hours later. why cant she shut this guy out?is she playn games with him?he hasnt txt back in 2 weeks now
2007-10-17 09:52:34 · 5 answers · asked by Terry J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after cursing her one night he told her to tell him its over, she said fine its done. then he said are you sure? she said i dont know, everythime i want to give you another chance you insult me. when they were together, she told him she belonged to him, has she changed her minds?
2007-10-17 09:55:16 · update #1
She likes the drama.
2007-10-17 09:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am struck by your strong investment in what this girl does. She has no doubt been treated very poorly at home and while part of her sees the abuse of the old boyfriend another part of her lacks the self-esteem to tell the guy to 'NO and that's final!" and mean it.
I suggest you stop wasting your time trying to figure this girl out. This could go on for years. She is not available to you now or probably ever would be. She is used to being jerked around and will continue to seek these kind of guys out partly because that is what is familiar to her.
Look for some one who is available and wants to be treated well not jerked around.
2007-10-17 10:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by KathyL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She most likely still has some feelings for this guy, and she thinks she could change him. It will probably continue for a while until she gets fed up. The best thing she could do is get away and stay away!
2007-10-17 09:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by Dinchan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, she'll probably keep going back to him. I hope she finds a way to break free.
2007-10-17 10:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she prolly cant get anyone else or she really like the dumb lozer. if that were me i would kick him to the curb the day he cheated.
2007-10-17 10:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by redcarpetchic15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋