Singles & Dating - 17 October 2007

There was this Special Girl worked for me at this business which is now going out of business. I used to be wild and OOC. I used to be with girls who I did not even know their name. I could do this without getting emotionally involved with the person. I change my life and ended up becoming this person who could no longer have sex without being emotionally involved. I am now married to a beautiful woman (a drop dead knock-out). Anyway I had great time working with this Special Girl. Before I knew it I had crush on this Girl. I could not disclose my true feelings to her because I was married and the vows I took, I intended to keep. My feelings for this girl became stronger and stronger. I am sure she pick up on the vibes and I could have been blue steel hot for her, if I allowed myself to go there. One night when we were at the business by ourselves, she said "My name" and then "let's just do it!" She probably thought I was weird because I pretended I didn't hear her. I am conflicted

2007-10-17 08:25:19 · 32 answers · asked by Chuck 2

Ok, I so I'll admit that I am really small (3.5 inches max). And she did apologize later about laughing. She said that it was "just a stupid reaction at the time".

I accepted her apology, but what was up with that really?

Have any girl on here done that before? Or could you see yourself laughing if it was really small?

And what do you think was going on in her head honestly?

2007-10-17 08:14:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was walking to class this morning and I noticed a beautiful girl and I think I was staring at her.

I've noticed her around campus before and I looked at her previous times before and I don't think she saw me, but today was different, I think I was accidentally staring at her while I was walking towards her direction.

I get close to her area and she looks at me and says "Hello" right as I walked passed her, and then she starts walking the opposite way from me, and so I look back and reply "Hello" and then continue walking. It happened so quick and unexpectedly that I didn't catch her tone of voice.

What do you think she meant by "Hello"?

Did she mean it like "excuse me, what are you looking at me for?" or like "hello, I want to be on you"?

What should I do next time I see her?

Thanks in advance!!!!!

2007-10-17 08:13:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-17 08:13:04 · 20 answers · asked by ♣Social Butterflygirl 4

okay i like this boy in my civics class his name is Thomas S. he sits behind me and i love it. okay first off i passed him the text books and he and i made major eye contact then he blushed so i turned away than all of a sudden he drops them all on the floor. then the next day he insists i dropped them so when i passed him the text books the next time i said don't drop them and i trew them at him but he caught them all i giggled. okay he also puts his feet on the back of my chair and tapps out a beat and starts beat boxing on one i herd him singing under his breath "Sarah" by thin lizzy http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c5AWfX8vc0o&mode=related&search= and my name is Sarah and he tas tapping on the back of my chair then the girl beside him threw his pencil on the floor and she wouldn't pick it up so he asked me to and i did and he said oh well at least you are nice to me?? and he smiled so i smiled back and turned around and did my work ?? does he like me or am i crazy ???????

2007-10-17 08:09:26 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

kissed a boy before?
i have never kissed a boy before or even had a boyfriend well not a proper teenage one and i am 16!! YES 16!! well i have to admit i REALLLY wasnt looking for one beofre because i just really wasnt that sort of person or maybe at the time i didnt see myself as "that sorta person." but in the past 2 years or so i have wanted one and I have found NO ONE I LIKE or anyone that LIKES ME!!

Do boys see me as weird and really unattractive? Will I ever find true love (lol-joking aside this is a serious matter coz its really fustrating me)

Your views please:

2007-10-17 08:08:24 · 13 answers · asked by g 3

Maybe at 33 I need some new ideas.

2007-10-17 08:08:02 · 16 answers · asked by dollydagger 4

i am 17 years old and my boyfriend of 4 years who i am madly inlove with who just asked me to marry him went and had sex with my little sister of 15! and now she is going to have his child. i really love him and i have dedicated 4 years of my life to spend with him! he was my first boyfriend and my first time in the sex department. i dont no what to do i really want to be with him for the rest of my life!!!! HELP ME!!!

2007-10-17 08:07:23 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

and felt like you did something terrible? lol

2007-10-17 08:07:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

hey ladies , need an honest answers , me and my gf just had sex for the first time yesterday and was amazing , she feels the same way coz she called me at work and told me today that she would love to do it again ...... the question is she left me clueless that when does she want me to do it ? I mean she clearly wants me to take the initiative , but overdoing it shouldnt harm the relationship for which i have invested 3 months of my life ? but I really want to make her happy ... so suggestions on how many times a week would be perfect ?

2007-10-17 08:07:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

All things considered please: looks, personality, quirks, personal preferences etc

2007-10-17 08:02:49 · 4 answers · asked by The Global Geezer 7

When a girl is attractive or pretty she has to be having sex??? they are all so shocked when they find out. Does it scare guys away??

2007-10-17 08:01:02 · 42 answers · asked by iloveit 1

It seems that even when he genuinely likes you and there is nothing wrong with you 2 he will pull back or break it off 'cos he's hesitant to get involved, says things like, I think you want more than I do right now, why so many expectations? or nothing at all and just stops calling....why is this anyone please?

2007-10-17 07:59:34 · 35 answers · asked by Sunshine Girl 3

If you could be completely honest with your guy without any possibility of retribution, what would be the one thing you'd love to tell him he needs to improve in the bedroom whether it be technique or anatomy?

2007-10-17 07:59:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-17 07:55:08 · 15 answers · asked by Sara-Jane 1

2007-10-17 07:50:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend have been dating a year and we dont talk much. we cant see each other because we dont live by each other. We use to talk more once we met and could talk over the internet but i don tknow what else to talk about. I love him very much and he feels as if i dont because we never talk. He doesnt trust me because of soemthing that happend in his past relationship...but i keep telling him i'm nothing like her. I really do love him. I'd do absolutely anything for him. just icant bring myself to talking more..im not that good at talking over the internet. but i want to for him. He means the world to me and he doesnt believe me. he doubts my love soemtimes because i never talk to him...but I do want to just never talk much.please any advice would hellp.I really wana be with him. he loves me i know he does. he's told me even after he breaks up with me. he always comes back..this time he almost leaves me just he wants me to talk. we do lovee each other very much. please help me

2007-10-17 07:45:04 · 29 answers · asked by Amoriaa 1

a mate of mine recently split with his girlfriend after a year hes findin it hard, got any advice for him? ive tried helping him but its not enough :(

2007-10-17 07:36:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a girl has been with her bf for lets say 2 years plus, and he has done nothing wrong to her...would it still possible for her to fall in love, like or be interested in another guy? What's the likelihood of her leaving him for the new dude? Is it really possible? What would it take?

Someone once told me this only happens with girls who are young and don't know what they want.

2007-10-17 07:36:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont know the guy,but i like him.i have never seen him before.imet him through the internet,he doesn't know me.how do i tell him

2007-10-17 07:33:46 · 4 answers · asked by divatnt 1

I been seeing this girl for a couple of months now, but two weeks ago I was kind of a jerk to her, I have tried to say sorry to her but she’s not hearing it, and I think she’s over reacting. Am supposed to see her on Friday but I really don’t know what to say besides that am sorry, which I really am. Any advice of what I can say so she can see that I really am sorry, but I don’t want to beg either I mean is not like I cheated on her or anything, feel me? Any tips will be great.

2007-10-17 07:30:37 · 12 answers · asked by Ed Q 2

im 16 and im still a virgin.. i went to an all girls school so ive never really been around boys that much i just started college and theres loads of boys .. im worried wat they will think of me .. all of my friends have done it i feel like the only one

2007-10-17 07:26:21 · 8 answers · asked by sian 1

2007-10-17 07:11:38 · 6 answers · asked by mrpoet03 4

2007-10-17 07:09:19 · 5 answers · asked by shanon jade 2

i have 2 guys who r entertaining, sweet on me, and fun to be around. i don't want to string both of them along but i just cant choose between the 2. please some1 help me

2007-10-17 07:08:47 · 17 answers · asked by music feign 2

I have a girl friend and we've been going out for 8 months. We have been having sex at least 6 times a day and for the most part "rutined positions" to I work with a 5'' and an incredible gurth. But I want to do some other stuff in other ways and places. What would you recommend? and where did you had your first awesome experience? and where had you have sex at that no one would have known?

2007-10-17 07:05:44 · 4 answers · asked by JCMBF 1

2007-10-17 07:01:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can i slow her down .

2007-10-17 07:01:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

both are single again, mine due to a death and her due to a ugly divorce. We've talked for over a year online but have never brought up the subject of getting together again. Just kept it as friends, now I feel she wants to take the next step and is coming to Calif for business and is extending her trip just too see me for a few days. Why do I feel uncomfortable with this idea?

2007-10-17 06:58:39 · 11 answers · asked by City slicker 5

Im a 21 yr old male college student. How long do until girls consider a guy their boyfriend? Ive only known her for about 10 days but weve been on about five dates and also have made out and have kissed goodnight several times. We both like each other and have snuggled and watched tv as well. We enjoy being around each other. I want to ask her to be in an exclusive relationship with me. Is this too soon and how should I ask her?

2007-10-17 06:13:25 · 10 answers · asked by Paul G 1