i have 2 guys who r entertaining, sweet on me, and fun to be around. i don't want to string both of them along but i just cant choose between the 2. please some1 help me
2007-10-17 07:08:47 · 17 answers · asked by music feign 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honesty is key. Be honest with them both. Make sure they know about each other and date both of them without any intimate perks. When the time is right you will be able to decide which one you like better and you will be able to choose. Just be patient. There is nothing wrong with dating two or more guys at once as long as everyone is on the same page and you aren't steadily dating any one guy.
2007-10-17 07:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is one that you like better... there is. Think about it-there is something about one of them that you prefer over the other. Just be prepared to lose a friendship--because once you make a choice the other guy will probably not like you anymore or want to talk to you. And if you break up with the guy you did choose, you could end up not being friends with him either in the end. make your decisions wisely. stay friends with the guys instead of taking it further until you're sure about which one is a better match for you.
2007-10-17 07:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by Edith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, ask yourself who would be the guy you can see yourself being married to and having kids with. Who is teh one u can see yourself waking up next to for the rest of your life and who is the guy that is most tender with you and communicative with you? and please dont take your time with this because no human being deserves to be strung along.
I know if one of those guys were me i would have left a long time ago because i am nobodys gatorade boy lol
2007-10-17 07:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by virgin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why choose? Why not date them both. There is nothing wrong with that as long as everyone is honest with everyone. I suspect it will soon become apparent which one is the best friend and possible lover. Luck
2007-10-17 07:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had the same situation happen to me. I know that this is going to sound extremely cliche, but listen to your heart. I didn't, and I chose the wrong guy. Your heart will help you make the right decision. Trust yourself. I know it seems like hell now, but once you make that decision, you know you did the right thing.
2007-10-17 07:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by Lulu D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have 2 people at the same time. You need to choose one and move on .. Someone is bound to be hurt.
bring each of them home to your parents and get their opinion.
2007-10-17 07:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I assume you're young and single. Why do you have to choose one? Who says you can't date both?
2007-10-17 07:12:17 · answer #7 · answered by Jeffy_T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just date both of them, openly, until you get to know both of them better. Then decide which one you like better.
2007-10-17 07:12:16 · answer #8 · answered by jaddevkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do them both
2007-10-17 07:11:00 · answer #9 · answered by balls2herchin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to date both of them until you decide.
2007-10-17 07:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by suzanne g 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋