im 16 and im still a virgin.. i went to an all girls school so ive never really been around boys that much i just started college and theres loads of boys .. im worried wat they will think of me .. all of my friends have done it i feel like the only one
2007-10-17 07:26:21 · 8 answers · asked by sian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NAH YOUR NOT IM IN THE SAME BOAT EXCEPT IM ABOUT TO BE 18. AND MY GUY FRIENDS TALK BOUT HOW MUCH SEX THEY HAD OVER THE WEEKEDND SO DO MY GIRLS.. IT DONT PHASE ME THOUGH ... DONT BE IN A HURRY = ]
BECAUSE THEN YOU WONT ENJOY IT IF YOUR NOT READY
AND IF YOU DO IT OUT OF PRESSURE THEN YOUR NOT READY OBVIOUSLY
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2007-10-17 07:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by Oh baby! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be worrying hun being a virgin is something to be proud of at 16 at least you have respect for yourself and don't hand it on a plate. I was still a virgin at 17 and when i met my boyfriend he was 25 and i was really worried because i thought he would run a mile because i was still a virgin and he was alot older but he didn't he was really chuffed because i had waited for my first time to be with someone who mattered. I'm 24 now and we are still together, so don't feel ashamed or worry about what boys think you will know when the time is right. xx
2007-10-17 07:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are probably lying to you cuz they think they will look uncool if they say they are virgins..wait until youre in love or at least until youre out of high school and mature enough to handle responsibilities in case you get pregnant.if youre not going to listent to me at least wear a condom,with a condom you are LESS likely to catch aids,std's or get pregnant.do you really want to have to be worrying about all that at 16???...do you realize that if you get pregnant the guy NEVER sticks around which alot of stupid grls always think this thinking they can trap the guy this way.the guys that do stay are the ones that are cheating on their gf's because they only got married or are together cuz of the kid NOT because they are in love...is that what you want?..would you like to end up w/ a kid and ALONE because you wont be able to get a guy.sure guys would want to hook up w/you if you have a kid but NONE will want a serious relationship or marry you..who wants a girl w/baggage?maybe only an ugly loser!!lol...say you dont get prego though, there are SOO many dieases out there and NOT just that.. in high school if you hook up w/someone roomers will spread about who you have been with,people will think youre a S L U T,and guys will look at you this way and just laugh at you..trust me i know cuz this happened to my sister.she had a bf in high school(they has sex) and when they broke up he was soo hurt he spread things about her saying she slept w/the football team and he said he had aids cuz my sister hookedup w/him and she had aids..ALL THIS WASNT TRUE..but he made her life hell in high school.just saying think TWICE before you do anything stupid.i say YOU wait...
good luck:)
2007-10-17 07:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by cant take heat?get the f%&k out! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Left out? Be proud that you are still a virgin! Wait till you meet a guy who really bothers if you are still a virgin when he is serious about marrying you!
2007-10-17 07:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 is still very young...it's not that big a deal....y u in a hurry anyways just to fit in? think about it...but ur only 16 and in college? u must b one smart girl...well good luck
PEACE
2007-10-17 07:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it ok, I lost my virginity at age 17 but from there it juss keep comming... nobody will look at you differently, and when you finally get open about it and start telling guys whom you date, you will feel easier about it... but juss so you know, you will NOT marry the first guy you give it to, sorry but thats life... enjoy your sex life though, because when your old and married you can start to hold out but while your young you should juss let it happen
2007-10-17 07:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by crimsonclaw14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 16 and u just started college. wow well i would not have sex jus because mii friend all did it. have some self respect wait till that right one. if anything you should be proud of not having sex.
2007-10-17 07:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by KiSs KiSs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not ready for that...
If you are asking on here for opinions , you are not ready..
Wait for the right time and the right boy..
It'll come soon enough...
2007-10-17 07:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋